The Married & soon to be Wed folks, please advise!

[Hard-Rock]

I need only those of you that are married or are in the process of marrying to answer me these bellow questions:

1. Why did you decided to get married?
2. Why are the benefits of being married a side from the Tax credit?
3. Now that you are married, do you think getting hitched was worth loosing all the freedom?

I want to know only the positive aspects of marriage, I know all the negative things which made me stay single since the underground railroad. LOL.

Gedo-Boy, Chip-in your influence on popping the question.

[SummerRain]

IF you are into arranged marriages, mid OG ah oo reer Isxaaq ah ba ku hayaa. Maxaa ka qaabta?

[Koronto91]

Ismahaneey,

Waa lagu soo doontay hadal ah baa i soo garay, would you care to comment?

Hard Rock,

Touchy issue for me, sxb...I can't really help you out.

[PINK_BUNNY]

1. The time came.
2. You have someone and a family.
3. There is nothing like freedom, I somehow feel trapped but having a family is worth giving up small things.
Thats pretty much what it's like........

[Muktaaar]

war stay single
soon u gonna be reporting ur whereabouts to ur wify
lose all of ur freedom
no more ESPN &sport center
she will ask u to cuddle with her thru out the nite

i think the only good thing about marriage is relgion wise and the anywhere anytime ready kooochie...

[1nemansquad]

I'm getting married because it's time to settle down, start a my own empire (family) and kids.
Benefits, most importantly Allah (swt) will be pleased with you.

Can't answer the last one.

[SummerRain]

Koronta, belo ku qarxisey loooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooool

[Hard-Rock]

lol@Ismahan/Mid OG ah oo reer isaaqa......

[Hard-Rock]

I'm not into marriage but I keep on loosing dimes over this epidemic marriage influenza. Somali chicks often lose patience after couple years once they find out I have no interest in getting married.

[Hard-Rock]

lol@Muk, I hear u man but I want to hear the possitive side.....

Pinny, are you married?

[Hard-Rock]

1nemansquad,
Dude, I hate kids.

[1nemansquad]

[quote="Hard-Rock"]1nemansquad,
Dude, I hate kids.[/quote]

Ok, What do you hate about them?

[PINK_BUNNY]

Yes, I'm married. I'll be great help to you in this important transition in your life. I feel for you cause your right most girls don't want to date a guy more than 5 yrs without the relationship getting to a serious level. However there is no need to rush if you're attending Uni. or can't provide for a family. The most important thing is to be able to have a stable home environment, and there are enough girls to go around if you're losing your g/f's over this issue.

[Hard-Rock]

1NeMan,
Everything about kids, they require lots of time, they are forever responsibility. They are liability, the list goes on. Plus, I was a bad kid and I'm afraid I will have a clone of me lool

[Hard-Rock]

Pinny,
My currently girlfriend and I finished school yrs ago. We are both employed but thats beside the point. Marriage to me is scary cloud......