LOL @ Biko, adeer get lost :-)
You do not need to give up your dreams all you need to do find ways to make it possible. If someone wants to have kids, stay with the kids, work, have education: all that person needs is to wisely manage his/her time. You can remotely work from home, attend online classes (if a must) and take care of your kids without needing to leave your door step.
Women can multi-task, we are not like men---who can only do a single, specific task at any given time!