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Is there any valid reason not to be married
Posted: Fri Mar 07, 2008 1:53 pm
by Lord Diplock
at the age of 30 and above?
It is becoming common to see many unmarried 30 something Somali men and women roaming the streets. if one cannot afford (financially i.e. unemployed or very poor back home) to marry it is understandable, but what reasons do the Abdiwahab542s of this world offer for staying single?
discuss.
Re: Is there any valid reason not to be married
Posted: Fri Mar 07, 2008 2:01 pm
by kambuli
Two cases are possible..
1.People who are claiming not married are really married.
2.Those that never married, are those who do Zinna...so they are busy with Zinna... Other wise a man will need a women and he will marry...Halaal... Ofcourse there exceptions for everything...
Dee waaban aragnay inay intaas ka hadlayaan...hawlahaas iwm
Re: Is there any valid reason not to be married
Posted: Fri Mar 07, 2008 2:02 pm
by HELWAA
Adiga maxaa ka galiy....You will get married when allah wants you to get married...wax kasta waa calaf yaa akhi.....and even if you get married the chance to be happy with that person is 20% that means living in a unhappy marriage for the rest of ur life wishing you were singel again.
Re: Is there any valid reason not to be married
Posted: Fri Mar 07, 2008 2:02 pm
by maria from west side
Ugliness or may be they prefer same sex....lol
Re: Is there any valid reason not to be married
Posted: Fri Mar 07, 2008 2:05 pm
by Nabeela
LD, We are assuming AW is 30 and above, lol maybe in reality he is alot younger, who knows, anyhow marriage is not something to rush into, let those folks take their time, it's very important to find the right person before marriage.
Re: Is there any valid reason not to be married
Posted: Fri Mar 07, 2008 2:05 pm
by galia
kambuli gave excellent explanations.
Re: Is there any valid reason not to be married
Posted: Fri Mar 07, 2008 2:11 pm
by AbdiWahab252
Lord Diplock,
Why did u include my name in your post ?
Nabz,
Bless your heart !
Re: Is there any valid reason not to be married
Posted: Fri Mar 07, 2008 2:12 pm
by Faisah
lord diplock before anybody answers your question you should state your maritial status!
Re: Is there any valid reason not to be married
Posted: Fri Mar 07, 2008 2:14 pm
by Twisted_Logic
[quote="AbdiWahab252"]Lord Diplock,
Why did u include my name in your post ?
Nabz,
Bless your heart ![/quote]
You are public enemy number one on this forum dude. You are blamed for creating Hawiye Unity on this site. People will keep taking below the waist shots at. Stay Strong young man :)
Re: Is there any valid reason not to be married
Posted: Fri Mar 07, 2008 2:25 pm
by Lord Diplock
[quote="AbdiWahab252"]Lord Diplock,
Why did u include my name in your post ?
Nabz,
Bless your heart ![/quote]
I dont think there is any called Abdiwahab542 in this place, if I am not mistaken, you're Abdiwahab252. yes, look at those numbers.
None of you guys answered my question, Kambuli gave an explanation that dont wash with me, if men who are not married at the age of 30 are into haaram stuff, what about those sisters who are also not married?
Helwa: dont confuse being married and happiness.
Faisa: I am married.
Re: Is there any valid reason not to be married
Posted: Fri Mar 07, 2008 2:33 pm
by maria from west side
Lord deep shit toka lini umeoa? aisee namuonea huruma huyo msichana uliyemuoa.
Re: Is there any valid reason not to be married
Posted: Fri Mar 07, 2008 2:35 pm
by Faisah
to answer your question lord diplock i would say as long as they avoid zinna they can get married at age they like.
Re: Is there any valid reason not to be married
Posted: Fri Mar 07, 2008 2:37 pm
by kambuli
Lord Dip. quote " None of you guys answered my question, Kambuli gave an explanation that dont wash with me, if men who are not married at the age of 30 are into haaram stuff, what about those sisters who are also not married?"
I can explain that to you walaal.
You know in our culture, men are always the ones who initiate the marriage proposal... Those girls are just waiting for the proposal and the men are busy with the Zinna (Ofcourse I repeat there are exceptions)!!! Who will marry them if the men who were supposed to marry them are busy?????
Re: Is there any valid reason not to be married
Posted: Fri Mar 07, 2008 2:38 pm
by Shirib
No, marriage is half the faith, if u are able to get married u should do so.
Re: Is there any valid reason not to be married
Posted: Fri Mar 07, 2008 2:40 pm
by HELWAA
"Helwa: dont confuse being married and happiness"
LD
Are you saying married pple dont need to be happy?