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Re: Marriage in Disguise
Posted: Tue Apr 22, 2008 11:26 am
by *zabah
this practice is mostly used by egyptians...
Re: Marriage in Disguise
Posted: Tue Apr 22, 2008 11:36 am
by WasteMan
gedo_gurl wrote:No....its not that they arent virgins, but that the men rarely are, but expect women to be. Allah swt promised the chaste for the chaste....Somali men are rarely chaste in the West, yet expect chastity from their partners? What hypocracy, and what xaraam!
And the sisters dont go 'begging' ajanabi men, the mosque is also a forum and sisters speak to their husbands for recommendations etc...I think its far better than a dating agency...dont hate because you dont get picked out in masjids
"somali girl (23) looking for white husband, preferly whit blue/green eyes" thats how it goes in the masjids--if thats not beggin then i dont know what is.
Re: Marriage in Disguise
Posted: Tue Apr 22, 2008 11:38 am
by gedo_gurl
I mean 'good' masjids, my masjid sisters just pass messages on to one another and their male relatives.
Re: Marriage in Disguise
Posted: Tue Apr 22, 2008 11:41 am
by Hyperactive
im with sahan on this
nagahan yaryar wahey donan ha goorsadan
anaga maha naga galay
if we're not marrying them?
erzaqada Allah ka radsadan
woho wa nafley sideno kale.lol
Re: Marriage in Disguise
Posted: Tue Apr 22, 2008 11:47 am
by DisplacedDiraac
Lexmark wrote:wallhi it is
...these cadaan chicks at my school did a project on it and told us during their presentation
why do you think so manly xalimos ask for cadaan/madow guys at the masjid
looooooooooooooool What the hell.
Please dont tell me your serious 
And your gullible enough to believe what a bunch of white breads YAP YAP in their damn presentation
Back to the topic
That's pathetic are you staying a damn virgin for some fool and his family or for fear of Allah.
Re: Marriage in Disguise
Posted: Tue Apr 22, 2008 11:53 am
by ms.nalia
Lexmark wrote:
Why wouldnt a somali girl have a hymen
cuz the got fGM...hence why the have stitches down there....
loool....the hymen is broken through penetration not stitching......so although a woman can be have FGM she still has a hyman....
get educated bro/sis whateva u are
Re: Marriage in Disguise
Posted: Tue Apr 22, 2008 12:00 pm
by PINK_BUNNY
Why would any1 want 2 go through that pain 4 a guy? What idiots....What shame. In parts of kenya when the girl gets married her 'godmother' has 2 hide under her bed 2 make sure the couple consummate the marriage n makes sure the sheets r bloody....ppl have weird cultures...damm.
Bout Somali girls beggin ajnabi or somethin....I find that pathetic. But u know wat we have 2 many women n not enough men....Some will have 2 go elsewhere, so let it be! Let em go wid their white guys, etc.
Re: Marriage in Disguise
Posted: Tue Apr 22, 2008 12:17 pm
by Beenaale_No1
Read that shit in the papers on the train many weeks ago. I think it was The Mirror and as we all know all these tabloids have no credibility whatsoever. This story could be true, but fuck me, she has no one to blame but herself. I was born in this continent and I've grown up and turned out just fine.
All this bollocks about it's her parents fault and her dogs and cats fault is a load of wank. There a loads of Asian muslim girls at the Uni I went to and they didn't have English boyfriends nor did they go out clubbing every weekend.
Get the fuck out here with your sympathy, she is/was 19 years old when she was committing these acts. 19 is not a child.
Re: Marriage in Disguise
Posted: Tue Apr 22, 2008 4:51 pm
by Chaste
SahanGalbeed wrote:Somali women actually go to the mosque and ask foreigners to marry them ?
Ilaah ba idin ku dharshay ee ma run baa , waxaasi ?
And what is wrong with that?, most reverts happen to love the deen more than they love anything or anyone on this planet. So what is so wrong for a sister to find a decent god fearing brother at allahs home.
Re: Marriage in Disguise
Posted: Tue Apr 22, 2008 5:02 pm
by Cisse Westlake
some galoos tell somali chicks they are muslim, and them chicks open their legs so fast
Re: Marriage in Disguise
Posted: Tue Apr 22, 2008 5:09 pm
by TheBigBosS
Chaste wrote:SahanGalbeed wrote:Somali women actually go to the mosque and ask foreigners to marry them ?
Ilaah ba idin ku dharshay ee ma run baa , waxaasi ?
And what is wrong with that?, most reverts happen to love the deen more than they love anything or anyone on this planet. So what is so wrong for a sister to find a decent god fearing brother at allahs home.
nobody said it was haram, its just pathetic and desperate thing 2 do.
men read ur reqeusts
come on ur the lauhging stock of the masjids now
Re: Marriage in Disguise
Posted: Tue Apr 22, 2008 5:10 pm
by Chaste
Lexmark wrote:SahanGalbeed wrote:Somali women actually go to the mosque and ask foreigners to marry them ?
Ilaah ba idin ku dharshay ee ma run baa , waxaasi ?
yeah they do...its a well known fact that they are ex hoes who have no chance with a somali guy so they embarrass themselves by begging ajanabis....Hoeism only leads to pain, misery, and regret....o and hell fire
Subhana allah, how can you judge others for its not your place to judge but allahs. And you said Somali girls that sleep around don't marry a somali guy, well your wrong because i have seen one who admited to sleeping with multiple different men and today ended up marrying a Somali guy, so their goes your so called fact. With that said, not everyone judges others based on their past.
P.s. Don't you think this ajanabi may not want a fornicator. Or are your saying that every ajanabi was a past fornicator and therefore will accept such person, because if your answer is yes not all ajanabis are like that including a lot of non muslims who choose to remain chaste til marriage. You have to understand brother when you find a group of good people in one race than rest assured that you will find the likes in a different race because allahs creation is different just like your five fingers.
Re: Marriage in Disguise
Posted: Tue Apr 22, 2008 8:54 pm
by Lexmark
white/black muslims dont care if their muslim wife slept with the entire football team and their fathers....thats why ex somali hoes put their name down for white/madow guys
and somali guys who marry ex hoes are wasted and weak and most likely khat heads...may he beat her black and blue every night...and verbally abuse that sket
Re: Marriage in Disguise
Posted: Wed Apr 23, 2008 1:42 am
by Madaxweyne
It is true that a somali girl, who lost her virgin in an illegal way, might not be able to get a a nice husband. There is, however, and exception. If the woman in question is honest and tells everything to her supposed husband, he would, if he is a nice man, listen, forgive, and marry her. What happened happened and and we dont care what Somali sisters did before.
Re: Marriage in Disguise
Posted: Wed Apr 23, 2008 2:16 am
by gurey25
the reality is that compared to somali women in the west.
somali men are man whores, man sluts,
this is where the hypocracy lies.