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long distance marriage

Postby zulaika » Tue May 27, 2008 11:09 am

horta tani ma xalaal baa? in la'isqabo hadana la kala noolaado?

i'm talking about raga who marry a wife in another country like he lives in America and his wife lives in UK and those with wives in Somalia but live in west. they go and see their wives once a year for like 4 to 6 months. qaarkood talada ugumaba jidho in ey keenaan xaaskooda...saying she's better off there or i don't want my kids in this country.

like WTF? why marry a woman u can't live with...maybe this is what they want.. they live like a single man with no wife and kids to bother them but have the luxury of saying xaas baan leeyahey.

faraxs in the west are getting away with a lot of sh!t ma'istidhi?

btw: this is not a farax bashing topic. :lol:

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Re: long distance marriage

Postby Mystic_Angel » Tue May 27, 2008 11:14 am

can we talk about something else? :roll:

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Re: long distance marriage

Postby Htologist » Tue May 27, 2008 11:23 am

Ever asked yourself why so many somali women wanna marry such a fool?

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Re: long distance marriage

Postby eyes-only » Tue May 27, 2008 11:25 am

:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: @ long distance marriage

Well, if it works for them...who are we to judge?

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Re: long distance marriage

Postby xidigow » Tue May 27, 2008 11:31 am

Mystic_Angel wrote:can we talk about something else? :roll:

Mystic, is this too close to home?

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Re: long distance marriage

Postby Mystic_Angel » Tue May 27, 2008 11:37 am

:lol: :lol: xidigow, i am only tired of zulaika talking about marriage 24/7 thats all adeer... :wink:

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Re: long distance marriage

Postby HELWAA » Tue May 27, 2008 12:27 pm

Anigo ma fahmin...Maxaa la isku kordhinaya hadi aan meel la wada joogin...I mean whats point of getting married if you gonna sleep in empty bed every night....cajiib :!:

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Re: long distance marriage

Postby QansaGabeyle » Tue May 27, 2008 12:46 pm

Helwaa, you don't want an empty bed? Ma cariirkaa ka heshaa?

Zulaikha......you heard what Taajir's wife said about him in that video? The women are abviously not happen with this situation but they are forced to accept it.

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Re: long distance marriage

Postby HELWAA » Tue May 27, 2008 12:48 pm

Qansa

Waad fahantey waxaan ka hadlayo heedhe ee is yeelyeelka joojiy. :)

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Re: long distance marriage

Postby kambuli » Tue May 27, 2008 12:56 pm

Helwaa, quote" Maxaa la isku kordhinaya hadi aan meel la wada joogin"

Exactly :up:

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Re: long distance marriage

Postby QansaGabeyle » Tue May 27, 2008 12:58 pm

Hadii lakala daalo, waa in breaks la qaataa.

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Re: long distance marriage

Postby HELWAA » Tue May 27, 2008 1:05 pm

QansaGabeyle wrote:Hadii lakala daalo, waa in breaks la qaataa.



Maxay kala daaliy ma iyaga meel wada joogaba?..Waxa kasta waxa igaga kuwa soomalia lugu tuuriyey o ninkan meshan ku haro....Bal siday taa uga yeeleen baan fahmi waayey... :? :? :?

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Re: long distance marriage

Postby SummerRain » Tue May 27, 2008 1:10 pm

If there is such a thing as long distance marriage to begin with its Impractical then.

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Re: long distance marriage

Postby zulaika » Tue May 27, 2008 2:58 pm

Ismahan123 wrote:If there is such a thing as long distance marriage to begin with its Impractical then.


half of the cab drivers in t.dot have wifes in carabaha ama somalia. deetana ma ogola in ey xaasaskoda canada la keeno. waxey oranayaan...kibir bey ka qaadesyaa oo 911 bey iigu wici. :D

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Re: long distance marriage

Postby yawle » Tue May 27, 2008 3:30 pm

Zulaika
The men have legit reasons. Think about it, the newly wife arrived in the West and before you know it, she is already thought all kinds of ways to do bahdilaad to the man. An old geezer like yourself who have no other occupation but has learned the art of "breaking down" marriages would come arround and give the newly arrived wife a cruch course on everything related to woman's rights and what not. After the induction course on "Orgaco Group" (The name for woman gangs that help each other against men), she will have access to her own social case worker, she will have a quick guide to government offices for woman and she will even be given the private number for the Minister for Woman's Affairs.

What happens to the man who spent huge sums of money on her marriage? And then took the backbreaking job to bring her to the West and then finds himself surrounded by "Orgaco Nagood" breathing behind his neck.

So, in essense, a long distance marriage is not a luxury but a necessity and its better than a complete break down to the marriage.


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