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Re: long distance marriage

Posted: Tue May 27, 2008 3:40 pm
by xidigow
yawle wrote:Zulaika
The men have legit reasons. Think about it, the newly wife arrived in the West and before you know it, she is already thought all kinds of ways to do bahdilaad to the man. An old geezer like yourself who have no other occupation but has learned the art of "breaking down" marriages would come arround and give the newly arrived wife a cruch course on everything related to woman's rights and what not. After the induction course on "Orgaco Group" (The name for woman gangs that help each other against men), she will have access to her own social case worker, she will have a quick guide to government offices for woman and she will even be given the private number for the Minister for Woman's Affairs.

What happens to the man who spent huge sums of money on her marriage? And then took the backbreaking job to bring her to the West and then finds himself surrounded by "Orgaco Nagood" breathing behind his neck.

So, in essense, a long distance marriage is not a luxury but a necessity and its better than a complete break down to the marriage.

Aaaaaamiiiin

Re: long distance marriage

Posted: Tue May 27, 2008 3:49 pm
by kambuli
Quote" she is already thought all kinds of ways to do bahdilaad to the man."

Horta yaa bahdili kara nin rag ah..Only doqon uunbaa la bahdili karaa :down:

Re: long distance marriage

Posted: Tue May 27, 2008 3:53 pm
by Cawar
kambuli wrote:Quote" she is already thought all kinds of ways to do bahdilaad to the man."

Horta yaa bahdili kara nin rag ah..Only doqon uunbaa la bahdili karaa :down:


Anaa arkay niman aad u fiican una roon naagahooda oo la bahdilay by qumayooyin wallee..

I admit some of them are way too miskiin..but those who bahdaled them are qumayin too.

Re: long distance marriage

Posted: Tue May 27, 2008 3:57 pm
by zulaika
loool@ orgeco group..sounds like an oil company or something. :lol:

yawle,

is yara daji huuno, calaalkana jooji ee just sum it up..you are among the type of the said farax group so ma'aha?..and u would be afraid to bring your wife to where u are..because she's gonna turn against u courtesy of geezers like moi?LOL. laa xawla, they should make pills for what u got... :D

in that case why bother marrying a woman you have so little trust in to begin with..obviously you are convinced she would be hellbent on fulfilling all these pre-conceived "she's out to get me" paranoia...ka yara beydh taa camal huuno. its simple maxaa intaa oo headache kuu geeye.

Re: long distance marriage

Posted: Tue May 27, 2008 3:58 pm
by xidigow
Cawar wrote:
kambuli wrote:Quote" she is already thought all kinds of ways to do bahdilaad to the man."

Horta yaa bahdili kara nin rag ah..Only doqon uunbaa la bahdili karaa :down:


Anaa arkay niman aad u fiican una roon naagahooda oo la bahdilay by qumayooyin wallee..

I admit some of them are way too miskiin..but those who bahdaled them are qumayin too.

Cawar waa ku heleen haye? :lol:
Iska soo guur sideyda.

Re: long distance marriage

Posted: Tue May 27, 2008 4:01 pm
by Cawar
xidigow wrote:
Cawar wrote:
kambuli wrote:Quote" she is already thought all kinds of ways to do bahdilaad to the man."

Horta yaa bahdili kara nin rag ah..Only doqon uunbaa la bahdili karaa :down:


Anaa arkay niman aad u fiican una roon naagahooda oo la bahdilay by qumayooyin wallee..

I admit some of them are way too miskiin..but those who bahdaled them are qumayin too.

Cawar waa ku heleen haye? :lol:
Iska soo guur sideyda.


No no sxb at least not yet.. :lol:

Thats maybe why aan u guursan weli markaan arkay masaankiintan iyo sida qaarkood loo galay.. :mrgreen:

Re: long distance marriage

Posted: Tue May 27, 2008 4:19 pm
by kambuli
All I know is inaan ninka ragga ah la bahdili karin...Yes there are qumanyos and qumey out there...But one has to be careful not to fall for qumanyo in the first place...

I know about calaf etc etc...Laakiin it bothers me marka aan arko mid u oggolaanaya in marka horeba lala gaadho ilaa heer..
Balaayo damaan la qabto ayey leedahay ee dabo la qabto ma leh...Doqon uun baa la ciyaari karaa...Waa bilaa miskiin :down:

Re: long distance marriage

Posted: Tue May 27, 2008 5:47 pm
by QansaGabeyle
lol. Ninkii naagtiisa lagu diro asxaan ayaa loo suubiye. Basically doqon ayaa laga wade....find a better smarter replacement with a mind of her own.

Re: long distance marriage

Posted: Wed May 28, 2008 10:54 pm
by Shekooy-Ku-Nacay
Long Distance Marriage Aight 8) :up:


:lol:

Re: long distance marriage

Posted: Thu May 29, 2008 4:46 pm
by Lil_Cutie..
Yes it can work.

& What is the problem with it? So what if your not together every night? Co-Wives have to deal with these issues and more, an absent husband. Marriage isnt just about having someone in your bed everynight.. I personally object to having this arrangement long term but heck it works all the time for many people. Good for them.
However, you need to be careful and ensure its a mutual agreement because something dangerous can happen otherwise, adultery (God Forbid) but if your not assisting to your spouses needs then you will be accounted for.. ofcourse they will be also!

Re: long distance marriage

Posted: Thu May 29, 2008 5:32 pm
by Enlightened~Sista
very bad idea..love needs proximity ..otherwise marriage wont work.

and if children come into the equation..it will worse...I have one relative whos in such a relationship.