Does jaceyl aka love come after marraige or before.

[somaliscarface]

I say jeceyl ka imadaa after soo arooskeenaa amiin as deen says. 8)

[Mystic_Angel]

bal ii balbalaari suasha xoga..maxaa ka wadaa suashan?

[HELWAA]

Arent you to young for this Q?

Injoy ur youth yariisow and think about ur school instead

[surria]

There are different kinds of love of course, but the true love, not lust comes after you know the person for a long time and you love everything about them, even when they get sick and shit themselves, lol.

[somaliscarface]

I dont believe it love exists now its harder for us guys to full for that ruunti

[Naaima]

Salam alaikum

before and after..i believe love should come before marriage, thats why you get married, you fall in love(hot love) with someone and you want to spend the rest of your lives(deep love) together discovering new and wonderful things about and with each otherand and let me distenguish between 2 kind of jaceyl hot and deep ..hot love comes before marriage and deep love comes after marriage and usually take time

[Rabshoole]

jaceyl lagu sheegaya, waa wax aad qof beni'adan ka heeshay from the depths of your heart, that should come prior to marriage I believe, How can you marry someone and not have love for them before you tied the knot ? it's not like you'll develop love for them afterwards, if you didn't feel that way from the get go.

[Broccoli]

i always fall in love with women after i've done the 'inside job'.

[Madd_Scientist_]

Salam alaikum

before and after..i believe love should come before marriage, thats why you get married, you fall in love(hot love) with someone and you want to spend the rest of your lives(deep love) together discovering new and wonderful things about and with each otherand and let me distenguish between 2 kind of jaceyl hot and deep ..hot love comes before marriage and deep love comes after marriage and usually take time

Oh, that's so nice. You're a true romantic. Well said Naaima

[Broccoli]

there was a research article around which stated that arranged marriage relationships were stronger and more successful over time than 'love marriages' (you may find it if you google it).

[S-D-M]

[quote="Broccoli"]i always fall in love with women after i've done the 'inside job'.[/quote]

[snowflakes821]

Before. Never ever marry a man you don't know. Stranger marriage always ends in divorce. Also, marriage is not a substitute for dating. Remember, you're marrying someone who you want to build a family with. You're in not for the long haul and divorce should be the last thing on your mind.

[Broccoli]

Before. Never ever marry a man you don't know. Stranger marriage always ends in divorce. Also, marriage is not a substitute for dating. Remember, you're marrying someone who you want to build a family with. You're in not for the long haul and divorce should be the last thing on your mind.

aha so your a female 8)

[surrender]

before marriage obviously. how u marry someone u dont love

[LiquidHYDROGEN]

Walaahi, You guys are stupid. How do fall in love? This isnt some shitty hindu movie. To "fall in love", you have to get to know the person. In order to know the person you need to spend some time with them. It is haraam and a big sin for a man and woman to be alone with a person who is not a relative or their spouse.
You fall in "love" after marriage obviously, and the fact that you are discussing the matter shows the depths somalis have fallen in morality .