Weirdo....

[Madd_Scientist_]

A couple of days ago a male "friend" of mine told me he was interested i don't really feel the same...which i obviously told him . I'm such a coward i used the "it's not you it's me"- card, telling him that i don't really have time as i'm concentrating on my work..etc...etc...

Only problem is the guy can't take a hint, he's telling me "let go of whatever is holding you back"... "we could be so good together"..."I'll love you like no other man" ...all the cheesy lines and it's so off putting. He sends atleast 10 textmessages a day, walaahi im not joking. One of his text messages read:

"I don't know what you're doing but im gonna devour you like an animal" Yeah you see the problem i have?!

What should i do?!?!?!?!?!?!

(the guy's short and the opposite of good-looking)

Any help/advice is more than welcome.

[AyeeyoH]

Walaal runta oo sheeg...if you cant say it in his face write it down a little massage..in my opinion a letter go stright to the heart and he will read it over and over again till his heart crushes to so many pieces..be brutal huuno otherwise he will not take you seriously


good luck.

[ms.nalia]

Say

"Listen, I tried doing this the nice way but you didnt really get it. So Im gonna do this the straight fwd way. Im not into you. I am not attracted to you. Its just the way I am, I cant change that. Im sorry, but ive tried to hint it to you, but its not getting thru. If you dont want to talk to me after this...I completely understand. But let me make it clear that there is not chance of us being a couple."

Peace

[Babygal]

In my opinion there is nothing better than being with a friend you already know rather than with a stranger
you met randomly. Besides looks aren't everything...If a man is a real man looks shoudn't matter
but his brain and personality unless he is too ehm ehm...

If you really feel like he is bothering you, can't be more than friends with him, maybe you should try a little open and honest communication. Let him know how you feel and why you don't think that you can be more than friends. If he understands, then at least there won't be any harsh feelings between you and him. If he doesn't understand, he gets the feeling you are leading him on, he will keep on doing what he is doing.

Honesty can be hard for some sometimes but pays at the end of the day..

[AyeeyoH]

Nalia---- loool that was good

[Madd_Scientist_]

Thanks Helwaa, but walaahi i have told him that. I've even wasted my minutes trying to tell him what i felt. Texting everything, next day he sends me a msg asking me if i wanted to go to cinema with him...i mean wtf? I've been avoiding him for days now.... it's sad cus i've avoided going to the places i normally go to. Because of him.

Nalia,

trust me the dude is WEIRD!!!!!

[Gifted]

Just be completely honest with him, if that doesn't work you can either ignore his advances or avoid him.

[Madd_Scientist_]

He's obsessed, and a bit desperate. At one point he was talking about our "future" together!!!! Atleast if he was good looking but he isn't, i always get weirdos...

[AyeeyoH]

Hadey sidaads sheekado tahy..ninka waxba oo dhiman ee walaalka amba onther male relative ku dir isaga dhan ilfaha ha oo qadaane.

[Enlightened~Sista]

Just tell him straight Madd..if he doesnt stop it then you can bar his number from your mobile phone.


Atleast hes not a married person ..how can one tell married men to back off?

[Murax]

Mad Scientist,

I wanna be with You and I won't stop calling You and I don't care what anybody here thinks.

[Madd_Scientist_]

Helwa, walaahi iyo bilaahi i'm not joking! There's something seriously wrong with him.

ES- married aah?! Married (young) men are the worst.

[Madd_Scientist_]

Murax-

[RebelLion]

Just tell him to fock off if all else fails, but this guy doesn't seem right in the head why were you freinds with him in the first place?

[ms.nalia]

Okay this is what you say

" I dont want you to call me anymore. I dont feel comfortable talking to you. I have tried to be nice, but its not working. So stop calling me.
Thanx"
Then hang up...dont wait for reply.