Postby hanad_mn » Sat Jun 28, 2008 3:28 pm
When you say Cheating her, what do you mean? ma naag buu laguursaday mise wuu zinaystay? hadii uu Zinaystay oo maraqaati loo helo, way kafasaqan kartaah. Hadii uu naag laguursaday oo eedo maseersantaay, all you need to do is calm eedo and make her feel like he still need her and tell her the importance of the kids having their father around. I know she is angry now, but waligaa furiin lagama taliyo. The reason why he does not want to divorce her is because he has some hopes of getting her back which shows how much he loves her. Sxb adiga ninka lasheekeeso and listen to his side of the story. Rasuulka cs wuxuu dhahay ina awala fitna banii israaiil kaanat bi nisaai. Fitnadii ugu horeesay oo yuhuuda asiibtay dumarka ayaa keenay. Sheedaanka hayska raarto. One more important think. Remember there would be alot of xasid women who would do anything for to get divorced while they pretending to be her friends now but would talk about her when she get the dalaaq. I think let hooyo or any caring women relative in ay dajiso. This is one of the times that eedo needs your family to save her marriage. Naag leesla guursado dhib maaha waa kheer.
remind her of this hadiith. rasuul salalaahu calayhi wasalam said. Ayu mamra'ah sa alat zawjahaa dalaaqa minghayri ma ba'sa, xaramalaahu calayhi min rayxaanatu janah. any women who asks her husband dalaaq without any genuine reason valid that is acceptable by islaam, allaah would forbid her from the smell of janah. he married another women won't be a valid reason in this case.
