Torn between 2 Somali Love Triangle. What can be done

hanad_mn · Postby **hanad_mn** » Sat Jun 28, 2008 5:46 pm

you are planning to marry agirl in august and you already talk to her family and everybody that she knows and are waiting for the marriage.Then all from the blue sky comes your first love that you left in africa and lost contact with her for 3yrs.You don't want to hurt the girl you are engaged to and you don't want her to be the town's gossip idol. on the other hand, this is the girl that you have ever dreamt of . The first love calls and tells you she has forgiven you and is coming for you.

what should he do.

hanad_mn · Postby **hanad_mn** » Sat Jun 28, 2008 7:46 pm

What should he do?

hanad_mn · Postby **hanad_mn** » Sat Jun 28, 2008 7:54 pm

what would you do?

Goljano Lion · Postby **Goljano Lion** » Sat Jun 28, 2008 8:00 pm

hanad_mn wrote:what would you do?

Might I suggest you go get a hooker and get laid just for once?

B-MAX · Postby **B-MAX** » Sat Jun 28, 2008 9:28 pm

It's simple if you're a strong Muslim man and not a wussy- Ina Hooyo.
Marry both of them. Period and don't let them know until they find out each other.
The one that truly loves you will stay with you.

Shankaroon_614 · Postby **Shankaroon_614** » Sun Jun 29, 2008 12:12 am

^^Bad advice...all u need to do is just fallow who ur heart wants!

Wish u luck

hanad_mn · Postby **hanad_mn** » Sun Jun 29, 2008 3:25 pm

runtiis waaye

AyeeyoH · Postby **AyeeyoH** » Mon Jun 30, 2008 8:31 am

leave them both !!!

Postby **AbdiWahab252** » Mon Jun 30, 2008 9:26 am

Hanad,

He should stick with the one he knows.

3 years is a long time and who knows how the Africa one has changed.

S-D-M · Postby **S-D-M** » Mon Jun 30, 2008 9:31 am

Tough shi*t........man up.......do what typical man do.......run for it

ms.nalia · Postby **ms.nalia** » Mon Jun 30, 2008 9:55 am

She wants to take you back? You must have done something bad for her to leave you. In which case, shes' stupid to want you back. It took her 3 years to fogive you, but I doub that she's over what u did.
Maybe she heard that u were getting married that couldnt stand the sight of having someone else in your arms. Its not that she wants you back...she just doesnt want u to be with anyone else....lol (thats sounds more like me actually...scratch that! )

If she left you for reasons beyond your control...its most likely that she will do it again.

So either way, stick to the one who ur arranged to. Thats my advice.

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