How did you deal with bullies when you were younger ?

AyeeyoH · Postby **AyeeyoH** » Tue Jul 01, 2008 2:26 pm

Salaam

I wanna teach some kids how to defend themselves...walaahi they are so sweet and nice and they never fight...they dont even know how to fight...They liv in a tough neighbourhood there the strongest can survive..their parents dont let them out that much because they are afraid for them.When they were younger it was easy to protect them from the world but not anymore...

your tips folks...esp from the bullies :evil:

Advo · Postby **Advo** » Tue Jul 01, 2008 2:31 pm

pay one of the bullies to beat up the kids, trust me, they will have no choice but to defend themselves.

Cisse Westlake · Postby **Cisse Westlake** » Tue Jul 01, 2008 2:32 pm

never been bullied. but you have to stand your ground. otherwise you are finished :up:

AyeeyoH · Postby **AyeeyoH** » Tue Jul 01, 2008 2:37 pm

Advo wrote:pay one of the bullies to beat up the kids, trust me, they will have no choice but to defend themselves.

And ur teori is based on ur own exper miyaa..waa iga tag :shock:

...

cisse

never been bullied aa... let me guess you had older sibilings who protected you :roll:

S-D-M · Postby **S-D-M** » Tue Jul 01, 2008 2:37 pm

I was bully, so the question doesn't concern me.....moving on

Cisse Westlake · Postby **Cisse Westlake** » Tue Jul 01, 2008 2:40 pm

GRANNY wrote:
cisse

never been bullied aa... let me guess you had older sibilings who protected you

no older brothers. i was good in sports, and i would stand up for my self

AyeeyoH · Postby **AyeeyoH** » Tue Jul 01, 2008 2:42 pm

S d M

you were a bully...let me ask you this...ciyaalke ma nac nac ayaad ka qaadey jirtey mis waad diliy jirtey :?:

Postby **AbdiWahab252** » Tue Jul 01, 2008 2:44 pm

Call on my gang.

Cawar · Postby **Cawar** » Tue Jul 01, 2008 2:52 pm

SDM, you stole the words right out of my mouth walle.

Granny, I was the bully while my older brother was the fulay..I got into trouble almost everday..
One day I was being beaten by an older guy who used to bug my older bro..and thats why I picked the fight with him..
My bro came and saw the other guy on top of me..he took him and beat the crap out of him..

My point is you cant turn a fulay into a geesi.
If the younger one is a trouble maker(they usually are) encourage him into a fight..the older 1 will get involved I assure you that..blood is thicker than anything. :mrgreen:

AyeeyoH · Postby **AyeeyoH** » Tue Jul 01, 2008 2:59 pm

Cajiib dad badan baa threadki ka baqaya inay ka jawaaban...is't because many pple in this forum baa iskoolka loo hor istaagi jiray maalin kasta oo lacagta ay sitaanba laga qaadi iyo nacnacba....folks come on.

AyeeyoH · Postby **AyeeyoH** » Tue Jul 01, 2008 3:03 pm

Cawar wrote:SDM, you stole the words right out of my mouth walle.

Granny, I was the bully while my older brother was the fulay..I got into trouble almost everday..
One day I was being beaten by an older guy who used to bug my older bro..and thats why I picked the fight with him..
My bro came and saw the other guy on top of me..he took him and beat the crap out of him..

My point is you cant turn a fulay into a geesi.
If the younger one is a trouble maker(they usually are) encourage him into a fight..the older 1 will get involved I assure you that..blood is thicker than anything.

Are you saying i let them learn in the hard way....i feel sorry for them

The_Emperior5 · Postby **The_Emperior5** » Tue Jul 01, 2008 3:05 pm

i was never builied when i was young there was this chinees kid in my class when i went to the first time to school in the west alla maxaan indhaha ka tuu tuutjiyee , and i was when hooyo said why did you do that , markaas aayaan ku yidhi inantuu sii fiican wax uma arkaysoo indhaha yaan uu jeexeaye

AyeeyoH · Postby **AyeeyoH** » Tue Jul 01, 2008 3:07 pm

The_Emperior5 wrote:i was never builied when i was young there was this chinees kid in my class when i went to the first time to school in the west alla maxaan indhaha ka tuu tuutjiyee , and i was when hooyo said why did you do that , markaas aayaan ku yidhi inantuu sii fiican wax uma arkaysoo indhaha yaan uu jeexeaye

wax walan

Advo · Postby **Advo** » Tue Jul 01, 2008 3:08 pm

waligeey fuley ma aheen, sometimes looking back anaabaa iska yaabo lakinse I was in many situation where I didnt wanna fight but i had 2 cus there was no other choice, so if u put those kids in a hostile inviroment, they will fend for themselves regardless. I already trained all my lil brothers and they sure made me proud. :lol:

S-D-M · Postby **S-D-M** » Tue Jul 01, 2008 3:09 pm

[quote="GRANNY"]S d M

you were a bully...let me ask you this...ciyaalke ma nac nac ayaad ka qaadey jirtey mis waad diliy jirtey :?:

[/quote]

Beating was the last resort. First I have to exhaust all the options that are out there. It's
all about compromising. If you were good negotiator u were definitly not going to get beaten.

I don't think any kid wants to be beaten, while they have other options...

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