Any relative who never calls from Somalia is in bad shape. They can't even afford to call at all. Those who have the luxury to call ain't in bad shape.
That is one thing I realized over the years of sending money back home. The ones that do not call need the money more than the ones that calls. And also don't send money to the people in Nairobi, they are overfed bastards that watch too much American TV and dream about coming there all their days without making an effort to better their lives.
I send money Beled Xawo, Bardheere, Balanbal, Kismaayo, Addis Ababa and Nairobi(only to my sister).