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Who Are The Men & Women A Muslim Can Not Marry?

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Who Are The Men & Women A Muslim Can Not Marry?

Postby Kolombo » Sun Aug 24, 2008 11:19 am

A chaste Muslim man can not marry:

-A woman without a religion (communist, atheist, etc.)

-A promiscous & non-practicing Christian or Jew.

-His father's widow.

-A woman still in her 'iddah (one whose husband just died or one who just got a divorce)

-An adulteress/unchaste woman.


A chaste Muslim woman can not marry:

-A non-Muslim man.

-An adulterer/fornicator.

-A man who does not pray the 5 prayers.

-An alcoholic.

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Re: Who Are The Men & Women A Muslim Can Not Marry?

Postby HELWAA » Sun Aug 24, 2008 11:23 am

-An adulterer/fornicator.



Many women do that because it's hard to know.

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Re: Who Are The Men & Women A Muslim Can Not Marry?

Postby Hyperactive » Sun Aug 24, 2008 11:24 am

ader kolombo im glad you brought this.lol
because i was chit chatting with adeer and he made us laugh on what used to happen in somalia. his father told him.
this wadad i dont want to say his qabiil, used to divorce any woman who is from his tribe to marry a certain qabiil, and all his case was : leysa kofowan and used to divorce them
that time british used to control that part of the country, so the british judge suspicious and called other sheikhs including my grandfather asking them what is going on with that wadad and is this valid or not.lol

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Re: Who Are The Men & Women A Muslim Can Not Marry?

Postby Kolombo » Sun Aug 24, 2008 11:27 am

He/she has to repent, you must tell him to repent before marriage or else nikaah becomes invalid. If he/she repents from adultery/fornication, then it becomes acceptable to marry such a person according to the hadith that says:

"Repentence wipes all sins and the one who repents is like the one who did not sin in the first place"

-Muslim.

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Re: Who Are The Men & Women A Muslim Can Not Marry?

Postby Nabeela » Sun Aug 24, 2008 11:30 am

Kolombo wrote:
Muslim woman can not marry:

An adulterer/fornicator.



Interesting, but I agree with Helwaa, this one is hard to know.

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Re: Who Are The Men & Women A Muslim Can Not Marry?

Postby Brav3Heart » Sun Aug 24, 2008 11:33 am

Kolombo,

why cant I marry a communist woman?

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Re: Who Are The Men & Women A Muslim Can Not Marry?

Postby GENERAL_SNM » Sun Aug 24, 2008 11:34 am

So can a man marry a women that drinks alcohol, or who doesn't prey?

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Re: Who Are The Men & Women A Muslim Can Not Marry?

Postby Hyperactive » Sun Aug 24, 2008 11:34 am

nabeela and what makes even harder is you need to have at least 4 people who saw entercourse!
that's imposible unless he/she is porn star.lol

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Re: Who Are The Men & Women A Muslim Can Not Marry?

Postby Kolombo » Sun Aug 24, 2008 11:34 am

:lol: @Hyperactive,

All kinds of crazy things used to happen in Somalia, including eloping without the girl's wali, which invalidates any marriage.

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Re: Who Are The Men & Women A Muslim Can Not Marry?

Postby Kolombo » Sun Aug 24, 2008 11:38 am

Brav3Heart wrote:why cant I marry a communist woman?


She's not ahlul kitaab. Only a chaste & practicing Jew or Christian with the intention to convert her to Islam is permitted to marry. There can never be love between a Muslim & one who rejects the existence of Allah.

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Re: Who Are The Men & Women A Muslim Can Not Marry?

Postby GENERAL_SNM » Sun Aug 24, 2008 11:42 am

Kolombo, Ogadeen with diin= Hidden agenda.Whats your agenda man? :mrgreen:

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Re: Who Are The Men & Women A Muslim Can Not Marry?

Postby RebelLion » Sun Aug 24, 2008 11:43 am

GENERAL_SNM wrote:So can a man marry a women that drinks alcohol, or who doesn't prey?


A woman that drinks alcohol is usually a unchaste woman.

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Re: Who Are The Men & Women A Muslim Can Not Marry?

Postby Nabeela » Sun Aug 24, 2008 11:45 am

GENERAL_SNM wrote:Kolombo, Ogadeen with diin= Hidden agenda.Whats your agenda man? :mrgreen:


:lol: :lol: yo ka qalee, he is the lest qabiiliest on this forum, besides waa wadaad.

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Re: Who Are The Men & Women A Muslim Can Not Marry?

Postby Kolombo » Sun Aug 24, 2008 11:48 am

GENERAL_SNM wrote:Kolombo, Ogadeen with diin= Hidden agenda.Whats your agenda man? :mrgreen:


:lol: :lol:

What's my qabiil got to do with this topic? No "hidden agendas" just sharing the little I know.


Rebel-Lion,

You're right.

Nabeela,

Thank you! :rose:

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Re: Who Are The Men & Women A Muslim Can Not Marry?

Postby Enlightened~Sista » Sun Aug 24, 2008 11:51 am

Kolombo wrote:A chaste Muslim man can not marry:

-A woman without a religion (communist, atheist, etc.)

-A promiscous & non-practicing Christian or Jew.

-His father's widow.

-A woman still in her 'iddah (one whose husband just died or one who just got a divorce)

-An adulteress/unchaste woman.


A chaste Muslim woman can not marry:

-A non-Muslim man.

-An adulterer/fornicator.

-A man who does not pray the 5 prayers.

-An alcoholic.




I was watching this programme on Channel 4...apparently theres a shortage of Muslim men..because they are all exercising their ''rights'' to marry Non Muslim (Kitaabi) women....as a result a growing number of Muslim women are marrying NonMuslim men


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