Ladies: Difficult to find Mr. Right

[AbdiWahab252]

This article is written by a UK Somali guy:

What do you think:

http://www.hiiraan.com/op2/2008/aug/dif ... right.aspx

[Madd_Scientist_]

Spot on!!!!

[AbdiWahab252]

MaddScientist,

Is it that bad in the UK ?

Lord knows how many martiqads I attended where i was introduced to different daughters.

[Madd_Scientist_]

well, i can only speak for myself... but yeah it really is that bad... unfortunately.

[S-D-M]

I think Mrs. right is also hard to find. Some of us what we are looking for is hard to find within the Somali community.

[Madd_Scientist_]

it def goes both ways SDM.

[AbdiWahab252]

SDM,

Yep, finding Miss Right especially from a decent family is hard.

MaddScientist,

Its even more difficult for the women due to more women are succeeding then men.

[Munique05]

Interesting article..personally speakin im not gonna settle for less...n i encourage all wise xalimos not to settle for less..i dnt wanna regret late n end up gettin divorced cuz i married a bum..anyhow my biological clock is not tickin fast enough for me to hunt mr perfect/prince charming

[The-Screw]

the problem is simple. first of all, women love to complain and come up with bullsh!t reasons to justify for their motives for promiscuity and edab daro "independent woman" lifestyle that they chase well into their 20's. when they fock up, and they do fock up often is when they turn to "male bashing exercise" as our Mohamed Mukhtar said. the cold hard fact is that most somali women don't want a somali man until they are pressured from family and relatives to settle down, and often by then most of them have reputations of questionable lifestyles of shiisha smoking, club hopping, faro ka ciyaar with many men and simply being "an around the way girl". what man would want a marry a woman like that? so as they say "Therein lies the rub" b/c now, a smart farah would rather go back to africa to find himself a decent, respectable wife. the left overs become bitter and spend their time complaining about somali men to outsiders. kulaha "Soul mate, emotionally secure, financially stable, and intellectually stimulating, a good sense of humour, a gentleman, not afraid to express love and affection, ready to commit and accept responsibility. In addition, he must be reasonably good looking and in good physical shape" ...what a load of bullsh!t!

[Munique05]

And all da faraxs dat want a traditional wife/life are fooling themselves meeshan somalia lama joogo, wax kasto wa 50/50 sume of us are not born to be domesticated...Modern xalimos r not gonna take shiid frm no1 n we're not gonna put up n nurse a husband dat is lazy ass n too full of pride to clean the f*cking dishes/floor/cook

[LuvelyNaiima]

We're all choosy and want whats best for us. That's what makes it hard to spot one.

[AbdiWahab252]

Munique,

The market out there for Mr. Right is tough.

I am in my 30s and I have 19-23 yr olds flirting with me

[Madd_Scientist_]

And all da faraxs dat want a traditional wife/life are fooling themselves meeshan somalia lama joogo, wax kasto wa 50/50 sume of us are not born to be domesticated...Modern xalimos r gonna take shiid frm no1 n we're not gonna put up n nurse a husband dat is lazy ass n too full of pride to clean the f*cking dishes/floor/cook

you know what the problem is? Men and women have got different roles within the household. unfortunately a lot of females nowadays try and act like the man and this is why the household falls down. Only one person can wear the trousers...

[Munique05]

Munique,

The market out there for Mr. Right is tough.

I am in my 30s and I have 19-23 yr olds flirting with me

sume of us dnt ned to enter da market..

[Munique05]

And all da faraxs dat want a traditional wife/life are fooling themselves meeshan somalia lama joogo, wax kasto wa 50/50 sume of us are not born to be domesticated...Modern xalimos r gonna take shiid frm no1 n we're not gonna put up n nurse a husband dat is lazy ass n too full of pride to clean the f*cking dishes/floor/cook

you know what the problem is? Men and women have got certain role within the household. unfortunately a lot of females nowadays try and act like the man and this is why the household falls down. Only one person can wear the trousers...

Actually da problem is not abt both spouse wearing trousers rather is the da faraxs have to fix up they thinkin n b realistic, they want a maid/slave dat does nuttin but pop out babies every yr..dis is da leadin cause of divorce in yung couple nowadays..somali dudes need to adjust to changes n get wit da program