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AbdiWahab252 wrote:Well I was never married when I went to school

But if I were u, I would not start a family until you have sorted out yourself; finished your education, got a decent job and some money in the bank.

suga_n_spice wrote:No, I would not istaqfurrullah. I seriously, do not understand the kind of people who would jeopradize their chances to conceive because they want to finish school. Everything is in the hands of Allah, we cannot prevent nor can we stop no matter how much we say we will.


The Imaam at our masjid recently finished a degree in engineering, is working on his masters, and is happily married with like six children and counting. Mashallah, what's better then having the best of both worlds. And he still has more energy then men younger then his age who have nothing to worry about, nor any responsibilities except for a "regular" job or school. May allah bless his family and give him all the success in the world. Amiin

S-D-M wrote:

suga_n_spice wrote:No, I would not istaqfurrullah. I seriously, do not understand the kind of people who would jeopradize their chances to conceive because they want to finish school. Everything is in the hands of Allah, we cannot prevent nor can we stop no matter how much we say we will.


The Imaam at our masjid recently finished a degree in engineering, is working on his masters, and is happily married with like six children and counting. Mashallah, what's better then having the best of both worlds. And he still has more energy then men younger then his age who have nothing to worry about, nor any responsibilities except for a "regular" job or school. May allah bless his family and give him all the success in the world. Amiin

And I bet the Imaam collects welfare. The imaam at my last mosque used to encourage me to get married while I was still in school...I used to tell him fock off.

No good job and education means "WELAFARE" living in the "Projects" which a lots of somalis are not shame off......