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Re: Family Planning( strictly adult guys)
Posted: Tue Sep 09, 2008 2:44 pm
by S-D-M
suga_n_spice wrote:S-D-M wrote:suga_n_spice wrote:No, I would not istaqfurrullah. I seriously, do not understand the kind of people who would jeopradize their chances to conceive because they want to finish school. Everything is in the hands of Allah, we cannot prevent nor can we stop no matter how much we say we will.
The Imaam at our masjid recently finished a degree in engineering, is working on his masters, and is happily married with like six children and counting. Mashallah, what's better then having the best of both worlds. And he still has more energy then men younger then his age who have nothing to worry about, nor any responsibilities except for a "regular" job or school. May allah bless his family and give him all the success in the world. Amiin
And I bet the Imaam collects welfare. The imaam at my last mosque used to encourage me to get married while I was still in school...I used to tell him fock off.
No good job and education means "WELAFARE" living in the "Projects" which a lots of somalis are not shame off......
Dadka Islaamka ah afkaaga ka du
We need to break the "CIRCLE" darling
Re: Family Planning( strictly adult guys)
Posted: Tue Sep 09, 2008 3:03 pm
by Buhodle-Gurl
lol...MM's topic got owned!!
Re: Family Planning( strictly adult guys)
Posted: Tue Sep 09, 2008 3:16 pm
by abdi ilyas
am 15 and am planing 2 got marry very soon. there is only one think holding me back and that is i have not get found the right girl.
Re: Family Planning( strictly adult guys)
Posted: Tue Sep 09, 2008 3:16 pm
by ms.nalia
It is a matter of personal choice weather a couple want to get married durring or after finishing their degrees.
I dont think its such a big deal. How does having a degree change the roles of a husband and wife?
It doesnt.
Re: Family Planning( strictly adult guys)
Posted: Tue Sep 09, 2008 3:25 pm
by Advo
can one be single for life?.....
Re: Family Planning( strictly adult guys)
Posted: Tue Sep 09, 2008 3:36 pm
by S-D-M
abdi ilyas wrote:am 15 and am planing 2 got marry very soon. there is only one think holding me back and that is i have not get found the right girl.
Ma danyeer baad u'egtahay
Re: Family Planning( strictly adult guys)
Posted: Tue Sep 09, 2008 3:37 pm
by HELWAA
Marrying at young age is not a good idea...injoy ur singel life as long you can
Re: Family Planning( strictly adult guys)
Posted: Tue Sep 09, 2008 3:40 pm
by hilal2020
You wanna do the normal thing, or u wanna do the extra normal?..if you do the extra that means get marry and go to school at sametime, if u don't, do the normal stuff.
Re: Family Planning( strictly adult guys)
Posted: Tue Sep 09, 2008 3:51 pm
by suga_n_spice
HELWAA wrote:Marrying at young age is not a good idea...injoy ur singel life as long you can
I disagree, the propeht (scw) encouraged to get married young. Marriage was and still is a shield from zina, and if marriage wasn't/isn't possible fasting was encouraged
Re: Family Planning( strictly adult guys)
Posted: Tue Sep 09, 2008 3:56 pm
by S-D-M
suga_n_spice wrote:HELWAA wrote:Marrying at young age is not a good idea...injoy ur singel life as long you can
I disagree, the propeht (scw) encouraged to get married young. Marriage was and still is a shield from zina, and if marriage wasn't/isn't possible fasting was encouraged
Ayadoon laguursan ama lasineysan lama joogi karo miyaa......?
Re: Family Planning( strictly adult guys)
Posted: Tue Sep 09, 2008 3:56 pm
by FAH1223
suga_n_spice wrote:HELWAA wrote:Marrying at young age is not a good idea...injoy ur singel life as long you can
I disagree, the propeht (scw) encouraged to get married young. Marriage was and still is a shield from zina, and if marriage wasn't/isn't possible fasting was encouraged
There is a thing called "too young"
look at every muslim community and see the high divorce rates
and they all have youth in common, like 20 year olds being married and stuff
Re: Family Planning( strictly adult guys)
Posted: Tue Sep 09, 2008 3:58 pm
by suga_n_spice
there will always be two sides to everything!
Re: Family Planning( strictly adult guys)
Posted: Tue Sep 09, 2008 3:59 pm
by QansaGabeyle
Being married is good for wealth building wallahi. For that reason, I do encourage somalis to get married and get married young.
Re: Family Planning( strictly adult guys)
Posted: Tue Sep 09, 2008 4:03 pm
by Cawar
QansaGabeyle wrote:Being married is good for wealth building wallahi. For that reason, I do encourage somalis to get married and get married young.
I agree with you. All this bs about being comfortable and having money and financial stability is just loads of crap.
I strongly advice to get married while still young..no matter the cosequences..cos the worst that could happen is that one avoids zina.
Re: Family Planning( strictly adult guys)
Posted: Tue Sep 09, 2008 4:04 pm
by S-D-M
QansaGabeyle wrote:Being married is good for wealth building wallahi. For that reason, I do encourage somalis to get married and get married young.
Xaaski iyo caruurti kawaran........