Guys, would you beat up your Wife/girfriend?

[ms.nalia]

uhhhhhh....

that kind of ish would get your ur lil pee-pee cut off in my hood!
beat ur girl kulaha....ha!

[Minneapolis Mayor]

As long as you don't break her bones or make her bleed. The quran says" wadribuuhuna daraban khayral mubarix" beat her a beating that does not hurm her badly. some little indha guduudis is ok too.

[RebelLion]

Beating women is not somali culture for the most part, but there are some clans I hear where beating your woman is mandatory and they enjoy it.

[AyanTu]

Beating women is not somali culture for the most part, but there are some clans I hear where beating your woman is mandatory and they enjoy it.

Somali men are too weak to beat anything

[zulaika]

I have beaten up my Ex- girlfriends, and believe it or not, they won't hate you for hitting them

studies have shown that men who beat up women/children have an alpha-male inferiority complex. subconsciously they fear fighting other men, so in turn women and children absorb the onslaught of their suppressed anger.

captain, can't fight other men huh?

[ms.nalia]

As long as you don't break her bones or make her bleed. The quran says" wadribuuhuna daraban khayral mubarix" beat her a beating that does not hurm her badly. some little indha guduudis is ok too.

Dont use the quaran to justify your disgusting shit man.

[Kolombo]

As long as you don't break her bones or make her bleed. The quran says" wadribuuhuna daraban khayral mubarix" beat her a beating that does not hurm her badly. some little indha guduudis is ok too.

Now, this is where I draw the line. That verse is probably one of the most misinterpreted verses in the Qur'an. It only applies to if the woman fails to obey the husband regarding her Islamic duties e.g. if she refuses to pray or cover. This is a last resort, first you must talk to her, then scold her, leave her bed, etc. then lastly you strike her. The Prophet (saw) was asked "Strike her with what?" He responded "With a Siwak and only on her hands & feet." What is a Siwak? Cadey Soomaali and only gently. It doesn't say to beat the poor woman in the sense we know it as.

[AbdiWahab252]

Kolombo,

It is customary in some cultures that you have to beat up your wife otherwise she thinks you have lost affection for her.

In the Afar culture, you have to beat your wife on the first night of marriage until she cries so as to teach her the important lesson of who is boss.

[AbdiWahab252]

If my man don't smack me and pull ma hair i full don't have respec for a niggah

AyanTu,

This song is for you:

[Basra-]

Baby

Abused is a big word. I am thinking more like ---spanking. there is no harm in it!

[Babygirl-]

[James Dahl]

Beating people who are weaker than you just because you can is cowardly, cruel and selfish. It's even worse when it's your wife or girlfriend, who you're supposed to protect from that sort of thing.

If you can't resolve a dispute with your girlfriend or wife without resorting to violence, what sort of man are you?

[Basra-]

[quote="James Dahl"]Beating people who are weaker than you just because you can is cowardly, cruel and selfish. It's even worse when it's your wife or girlfriend, who you're supposed to protect from that sort of thing.

If you can't resolve a dispute with your girlfriend or wife without resorting to violence, what sort of man are you?[/quote]


James what if the girl/woman wants to be beaten, in a sexual consentual way?

[GENERAL_SNM]

They only beating I would give my wife is in the bedroom..

[*Amal]

God I hate chauvinists!