Do Somali mothers contribute to their children's

[SummerRain]

Ismahaan!!!!!!!!!



I fail to understand the need to attack me in this unprovoked discussion. Just because i mentioned the word 'fat' doesn't mean i meant it to direct it to u!!! Didn't u read the "Cadaan tuuloo fat' part????? Helooooo!!!!

You have gone mad,basra. This has nothing to do with me. But one thing that I failed to notice is the Cadaan fat chick is actually YOU,since you consider yourself a white woman. How could I not notice, you are declaring your status to us that you are indeed his FAT mistress. Secondly, may be I attacked you b/c I was slightly resentful of you calling me violent and manly the other day.

[Cawar]

I once saw a Xaayoow woman saying to her stubborn son, "Soo kac, kor halaguu xiree."

Kor halaguu xiree=May they hang you.

And one of our waardiyes back home was xaayow.. I remeber one day my dad asking him.. Bal iigu ducee wiilka as he was an old man..he said something like:

Maandhow eebaan ka baryee sooma noqotid.

But I realized it was an indirect habaar ..only after the civil war

[Basra-]

[quote="Ismahan123"][
. Secondly, may be I attacked you b/c I was slightly resentful of you calling me violent and manly the other day. [/quote]


In that case, I apologize.



But nice try there, nice try covering your counter reaction to be called fat. Its written all over your jelly face!

[Arsenal_Man]

yes obviously

they feed their children 24/7 and they have to work hard as they mostly have many children, while farax is in the mafrish and hanging about town and shit

peace

[Kolombo]

Cawar,

Those people have perfected the art of inkaar, you can never win a verbal inkaar battle with them.

-Qumayo ku ruugtay.

-Qandho ku dishay.

-Canka lagaa toob.

-Kor laguu xir.

-Koombo mugeed noqo.

-Qabrigaaga qalqalooc u gal.

The worst were naagaha caanaha gado, you touch their livestock and they will fire everything they got.

[SummerRain]

@Koombo muugeed noqo. wtf

[Cawar]

Ismahan,

You are just beefing with me for the sake of it.

Remember no one made these xalimos single moms by force.. Besides..its only natural that the kids stay with their moms..esp. here in the west.
So why are some acting out and taking their anger and frustration on the kids??

I tell why...because they are bad mothers..no excuses there at all.

While I said I saw some(maybe more 50%) bad single moms, I also saw examplary ones..who despite their difficulties are doing wonderful jobs in raising their caruur..



Kolombo ..loooooool

Ever heard this one?? Yahoow daarood xaa tiraahdeen..says one..like the head/leader/wadaad
And a group of ppl answer..while pointing their finger on the air.. flexing it

Ya far gaabatay.. ..

[SummerRain]

Cawar,

BEEFING ah.... aniga miskeen aa ahay, I dont beef with no one let alone you. We are just exchanging view dear.

Bottom line is, these women are doing things for their kids that no man will ever be able to. FACT.

[Kolombo]

:lol: @Koombo muugeed noqo. wtf

You never heard of: "Kor u bood, koronto ku qabsatay, koombo mugeed noqo"? Street style inkaar.


Cawar,

Sarbeebtooda qatar waaye dadkaas. If you don't speak their tongue, they'll kill you slowly before you discovered anything.

[kenyan4life]

mothers today are just not loving, its like thay have become cold hearted and indifferent

[Basra-]

kenyan4life waryaa suju waxiiid!!!!

When was the last time u shown your mother some love? Its a two way street walaal! Get with the program! Waryaa Sir Lug-- do u realize u have began a mother bashing thread?? Istaqfurullaaah! Sir Lug your Misogynism has hit the roof!

[kenyan4life]

my mom is the best mom in the world !!

[Salah Al-Din]

Assalaamu Alaikum,

No need to blame parents for your trauma. Being an adult means taking responsiblity for your own actions. There is nothing in life you cannot overcome. Pull up your socks and change your paradigm. Change your life. Mobilize your inner strength and rely on Allah. This victimhood mentality must not be nurtered.

Wassalaam

We are talking about parent interaction with kids and adolescents.

Are you suggesting that your upbringing had no influence on you?


Basra
Miskin.... atleast if he was going for a fat chick, he was better off sticking with you ( Somali) so maahan?

I'm in no way condoning mothers to be abusive to their children. However, I don't believe this talk of being scared for life. It is up to each individual to be the person they want to be without laying the blame on their parents for their short comings. It is up to you whether you want to hold on to the baggage and cling on the past or to move on and cease the moment.

[SummerRain]

Assalaamu Alaikum,

No need to blame parents for your trauma. Being an adult means taking responsiblity for your own actions. There is nothing in life you cannot overcome. Pull up your socks and change your paradigm. Change your life. Mobilize your inner strength and rely on Allah. This victimhood mentality must not be nurtered.

Wassalaam

We are talking about parent interaction with kids and adolescents.

Are you suggesting that your upbringing had no influence on you?


Basra
Miskin.... atleast if he was going for a fat chick, he was better off sticking with you ( Somali) so maahan?

I'm in no way condoning mothers to be abusive to their children. However, I don't believe this talk of being scared for life. It is up to each individual to be the person they want to be without laying the blame on their parents for their short comings. It is up to you whether you want to hold on to the baggage and cling on the past or to move on and cease the moment.

I dont think we need to argue the point that one's upbring molds him/her into shaping their individuality,values,morals and their general outlook in life.

[Goljano Lion]

They say people with borderline personality disorder have a tendency to blame others for their problems and how they feel. I love America psychiatric professionals , they always come up with new disease