Somali Women and Revert Marriage Phenomenon

[SahanGalbeed]

Somalida dee waa laga qurux badanyahay , anigu hadda waxaan doonaya hablihii Isaaqu dhaleen ee India ku noola ee hindi-da noqday , idinku na halkaan doontan ka dhaca

Helwaa , that doesn't make a bad person , stop being judgamental okay , khaaf Rabak yaa ukhti , af carabiga waad taqaana waan ogahay e

[AbuShabab]

I, for one, intend on marrying a White, Asian, or Arab American.

Anyone else on that same boat?

I'm personally reviled by the idea of marrying niggers and Somalis fall too close to that definition for my comfort.

Ewwww.

No, I'm not on that same boat. I have no preference. The only qualities I seek:

a. That she's a practicing Muslima (i.e. hijab a must, knowledgeable of Islamic teachings & history, etc).

b. That she's modest and realistic of what to expect from a marriage.

[Cisse Westlake]

It is a sad day in Somali history, when a Somali man marries a white woman and she calls him "black" and talks about how her "family" disowned her, when in fact he happens to be slightly better looking and she is obese. BEAUTIFUL! just BEAUTIFUL!

What a great man she married, who can't tell her the culture of his people, and she subjects him as madow. That is why it is best to marry your own kind.

Insha'allah all Somalis marry Somalis, AMIIN!

she siad her family called him madow and no point calling her names

[HELWAA]

Somalida dee waa laga qurux badanyahay , anigu hadda waxaan doonaya hablihii Isaaqu dhaleen ee India ku noola ee hindi-da noqday , idinku na halkaan doontan ka dhaca

Helwaa , that doesn't make a bad person , stop being judgamental okay , khaaf Rabak yaa ukhti , af carabiga waad taqaana waan ogahay e

Heedhe waxaad doontid guurso..anigo waxaan ka yaabey meshan waxaad so xarxariiqdid maalin kasta...why aad noloshaada iyo danbiyada aad gashay nooga sheegaysa...yacni ur life stories are a bit to much..i suggest kep it to urself amba furo blog si aad noloshaada dadka strangerka ah ola qaybsatid internetka
ma fahantay yaa cami bila 3aqli

[SahanGalbeed]

Anigu qof REAL ah baan ahay , yacni waxaan ahayn iska ma dhigo , cidna ka ma baqo , cidna na ma maago , anigu Helwaa
Denbiyadu waa kala LABO . Mid Ilaahey [swt} kugu leeyahay iyo mid aad bani addanka ka gasho .
Ilaahey {swt} baa Gafuur ar Rahiim ah , horta cid aan debi galin na ma ba jirto ! somalida ayuun ba "hollier than thou" waxa ila mid ahi waa jira dhulka
Adiguse , mid baa inoo yeelaysa , wax qof iyo Ilaahi abuuray ka dhexeeya , iney ku dhibto ma'aha .
Laakin sida kale waad u mahad santahay .

[HELWAA]

wax qof iyo Ilaahi abuuray ka dhexeeya

Exactly! waxa adiga iyo ilaahy ka dhexeeya inaad dad o sheeg sheegtid mahaa..

The Messenger of Allah (salallahu alaihe wa-sallam) said: "My entire nation is safe, except al-Mujahirin (those who boast of their sins). Among the Mujaharah is that a man commits an (evil) act, and wakes up in the morning while Allah has kept his (sin) a secret, he says: "O Fulan! Last night I did this and that." He goes to sleep while Allah has kept his (sin) a secret but he wakes up in the morning and uncovers what Allah has kept a secret!" [Saheeh al-Bukharee]

[SahanGalbeed]

Okay , waxan dib ugu noqonayo ma'aha , eventhough I wasn't "boasting of my sins".

[HELWAA]

You have just addmited in this thread that you havent fasted in almost 7yrs...a few months ago wa tii aad qiratay inaad isbiirtoole ahaan jirtay...huuno i'm not judging you..nobody is perfect.But whatever you have done or will do in the future should stay with you.Qabriga sirtaada oo qaado and REPENT.

AND ALWAYS REMEMBER THIS...IT'S NEVER TO LATE..

On the authority of Anas (Radhi Allahu Ta'ala Anhu), who said: I heard the Messenger of Allah (Sallallahu alayhi wa Sallam) say:

"Allah the Almighty said: O son of Adam, so long as you call upon Me and ask of Me, I shall forgive you for what you have done, and I shall not mind. O son of Adam, were your sins to reach the clouds of the sky and were you then to ask forgiveness of Me, I would forgive you. O son of Adam, were you to come to Me with sins nearly as great as the earth and were you then to face Me, ascribing no partner to Me, I would bring you forgiveness nearly as great at it."

[at-Tirmidhi,

[Amina/Tammy]

It is a sad day in Somali history, when a Somali man marries a white woman and she calls him "black" and talks about how her "family" disowned her, when in fact he happens to be slightly better looking and she is obese. BEAUTIFUL! just BEAUTIFUL!

What a great man she married, who can't tell her the culture of his people, and she subjects him as madow. That is why it is best to marry your own kind.

Insha'allah all Somalis marry Somalis, AMIIN!

Oh PLEASE! Get a life. To insult someone on how they look is sooo immature. May Allah guide you.

[zulaika]

Sahan,

better late than never.

we all sin and alxamdulilah some of us find our way to back to the Most High(Allah).

glad to see you've enjoyed your Eid.

[Cisse Westlake]

It is a sad day in Somali history, when a Somali man marries a white woman and she calls him "black" and talks about how her "family" disowned her, when in fact he happens to be slightly better looking and she is obese. BEAUTIFUL! just BEAUTIFUL!

What a great man she married, who can't tell her the culture of his people, and she subjects him as madow. That is why it is best to marry your own kind.

Insha'allah all Somalis marry Somalis, AMIIN!

Oh PLEASE! Get a life. To insult someone on how they look is sooo immature. May Allah guide you.

tammy/amina,

some somalis are offended when they are called black, that is why she said those stuff

[Amina/Tammy]

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some somalis are offended when they are called black, that is why she said those stuff[/quote]


What is to be there to be offended? I am refered to as "white" all the time. It is not meant as an insult.

[Cisse Westlake]

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some somalis are offended when they are called black, that is why she said those stuff

What is to be there to be offended? I am refered to as "white" all the time. It is not meant as an insult.[/quote]


it is culture thing

[Enlightened~Sista]

The old Shukaansi of Somalia where the girl some how after months of secrecy during her evening trips to the market fetching sugar and gas for lambs and bringing a guy to her dad is over.

I can't believe you're endorsing the un-Islamic old shukaansi practice.

what is wrong with it?

Somali Shukaansi gets the thumb up ..its precisely because of attitudes like yours..that we have this ''phenomenon'' where somali boys and girls do not know how to relate to each other or even form simple friendly conversations since its obviously somehow ''haraamun haraam!''..thus both parties flock to people from other ethnicities

[AbuShabab]

It is a sad day in Somali history, when a Somali man marries a white woman and she calls him "black" and talks about how her "family" disowned her, when in fact he happens to be slightly better looking and she is obese. BEAUTIFUL! just BEAUTIFUL!

What a great man she married, who can't tell her the culture of his people, and she subjects him as madow. That is why it is best to marry your own kind.

Insha'allah all Somalis marry Somalis, AMIIN!

Oh PLEASE! Get a life. To insult someone on how they look is sooo immature. May Allah guide you.

Amina, don't be offended of Alluring. Her preferred line of attack (which she has employed countless times against many female members of this forum) is to call someone fat or obese. She doesn't like black people as she doesn't consider to be one and feels superior to them. Personal attacks/insults is quite normal (although it has improved since the formation of moderators) in this forum, so don't take it personal.