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Nimanka misa nagaha yaa maseer badan ayeey kula tahay, of course both are capable of the emotion called "jealously" laakin aniga personally I think nagaah ayaa ka maseer badan their male counterparts, based on observations, nagahaa qaar ayaa waasho hadday naag kale ku arkaan ninkooda, misa ay maqlaan naag kale ayuu la socday ninkooda, etc.

A friend of mine is contemplating a divorce, simply because her hubby decided to help another woman who is in need, it's completely platonic thing and she knows it, but still she can't help but feel jealous and rage inside, it's like Its beyond her control, kulahaa it makes me feel useless even the thought of him talking/helping another woman, come on this is too much.

I have been accused of not being JEALOUS enough

Naagaha wax ka maseer badan ma jiraan...xita hadii oo ninko nag kale ka doorto naagta ayey danbiga saarayan.

Wa ruunteed, naagtan kale ma wax caweyo aye wayday?

its not inay hinaastay its just most somali woman are insecure . if you are with your woman and say walahi naagtaasii way qurux badantahay naagtii uu yiiq uun baad arkaysa i remember that in my days

I personally think females are very jealous creatures, this comes from their insecurities, and this is all females some are better then others at hiding it, they are that good at it that they dont even know others are in clear denial. What I would advice any up and coming playa is find her insecure point and use it to your advantage, this will help keep you on the offensive.

Naagaha

well women can get very jealous at some superstitious crap, with men even though it may be unfounded you can normally trace the connection.

Like if you are wearing green shirt one day and another lady she is in competition with is wearing green contact lenses and you say "Hello" politely, she may think there is some conspiracy.

With men, they get jealous but it will be for something like: "Why is Jamac calling you at home? "

ms.nalia wrote:I think when men get jelious....they flip out and go do the most dummbest shit.
Have you seen how men get when they have their first child and their wife doesnt really have time for them? They get soooooooooo jelious a freakin baby.
Def. men aa maseer badaan.

Fuk that lil nigga for stretching the hoohoo

Besides the fact that Evolutionary theory concerning humans is blasphemous, it goes a long way to explaining female jealousy. Jealousy probably helped cave women keep a hold of their men, who might have just decided that the grass is greener on the other side, with that other cave woman.

Or I'm talking outta my ass.

Adiga mahan, waa calool daragtey!

What really pisses me off is these girls growing up in the west and their double standards. One hand they dont want you to cheat, on the other hand they wont allow you to have a second wife.

I'm not sure how to break it to you, but her not wanting you to cheat is rather irrelevant except on a personal level. Cheating is Haram! Finito. You make it seem like not having a second wife is a horrible, unjust constraint. Its not. Its a reasonable expectation of a Western Muslim woman who grew up on romantic ideas of marrying for love, and other assorted fairytales.

Plus, do you want two women burning holes in your wallet, or are you a madman?

Generals, If you have a beautiful wife at home, why would you cheat or take on another wife? anyone who contemplates the idea, of cheating or marrying a 2nd wife, they are not being satisfied, plain and simple, and if that is the case, they need to get out of the marriage and find someone who can actually satisfy them, instead of causing unnecessary headaches and pain.