Whos fault it's if...

[HELWAA]

A female doesnt want to get married?..is't the parents because they never encourge her to get married? or it's her own foult? I know everything is calaf and qadar but i truly believe the parents should give them a little push too.

I have this relative who doesnt want get married, in fact she is happy with her singlnimo and the parents dont care...as matter of fact they love to have her home as long as possible...this is pissing me off cus the clock is ticking and she is getting older..i want her to get married before she reach 30 ...intaaney guun noqon...bisinka

[Qumanyoo]

wixii dacaa ba ilahay ba uu qoray -

u shouldnt question why sum1 doesnt do something - its their state of mind -

is she the only child?

why dont u try influencing and implementing the idea?
get her used to the idea?

dont jump to conclusions - maybe theres a reason -

[Mzbeautifull]

Well .. I think a women should get married before
its too late i mean when your at that age 24/25 you must be married

because if not soon nobody is gnna want ya ..

and yhh i partly think its the parents fault HELWA they
should definetly push her that much that make dates for her hehehe

[HELWAA]

Quman

Waan ogahy inay wax kasta qoraal yehiin laakiin inantan reerkoodo the word 'man' lama soo hadal qaadan...aniga xitaa waxa ay igula coloobeen kulaha inanta maskaxda ha ka sumeen muxuu nin ku soo kordhinaya kulaha...hey they cant live home forever...cajiib.No she is not the only child, 2 other sisters are younger then her

[HELWAA]

Well .. I think a women should get married before
its too late i mean when your at that age 24/25 you must be married

because if not soon nobody is gnna want ya ..

and yhh i partly think its the parents fault HELWA they
should definetly push her that much that make dates for her hehehe

Exactly my point!..Naag haday 30 gaadho yaa wax ku falaya

[Qumanyoo]

thats the thing with somalis - always worrying about what others may think and say

maybe if evryone focused on their happiness and what they really want (whether its a man or not) maybe we would far as a society

diinta way uu fiicantahay - laakin evry1s diferent -

ha la yaabin ee encourage her

[Kolombo]

Helwa,

Why don't you let her make up her own mind?

Sometimes being single is a blessing compared to being married and being miserable.

Most married Somali women lead a miserable life and after they give birth, it only gets even more depressing for them.

[HELWAA]

Kolombo

Not everbody have miserable lives...there are some who truly love eachother and despite of all the problems they have make their marriage work.Dont give up huuno

[Kolombo]

I haven't given up, walaal. Its just that I think our culture is too pushy when it comes to marrying women off.

As if a woman was created to get married & have a load of babies and nothing more, retarded mentality.

[FAH1223]

leave her alone

[HELWAA]

Koronto

Marriage is half of our diin and women are not like men huuno...inanto intey yar tahy inay iska guursato wax ka wanaagsan ma jiran.No one can be singel forever and those kids are Allah gifts.Maalinta aad gaboobdid caruurtada uun ba ku cid ah.

Inshallah ur next will last forever

[Qumanyoo]

kolombo - very well said saxiib -

[HELWAA]

Quman

Waxaad ku jirta dadka la qasbayo ayaan oo malenaya...soo mahaa

[Nabeela]

Helwaa, Kolombo has a valid point, the universe doesn't revolve around Men, guur, ilmo, iska dhaaf gabartaa, besides eventually she will find a man, waliga ma magashay this mahmaah, "Men are like buses, If you miss one there is always another on the way"..

[Hyperactive]

some people not meant to marry.
leave then alone since they are not messing around without marriege.lol