Guys:: Been the first for a girl: does it matter?>

ms.nalia · Postby **ms.nalia** » Fri Oct 24, 2008 9:32 am

IF she IS fresh, then what are u b!tching about?!?!!??

Starscream · Postby **Starscream** » Fri Oct 24, 2008 9:37 am

I know what u mean, I know the feeling. when u think she's the real deal and meant for u, u feel like she's tainted if she had been remotely involved with another guy. that's natural, waa man's pride. but sometimes u need to let it go. ur lucky fratello, b/c most girls have a much more colourful history with guys than ur girl. ur girl is fresh, so if this even bothers u than u might develop a nasty jealousy problem. be careful.

and to answer ur topic question, hell yes it does matter, if ur looking much further than just have a good time with her and see where it goes. but that's just my opinion. also b/c we're brought up by (great)(grand)parents that were each other's firsts. that has an effect on u, u subconsciously value that and want nothing short of that for urself.

Realest_007 · Postby **Realest_007** » Fri Oct 24, 2008 9:43 am

Starscream wrote:I know what u mean, I know the feeling. when u think she's the real deal and meant for u, u feel like she's tainted if she had been remotely involved with another guy. that's natural, waa man's pride. but sometimes u need to let it go. ur lucky fratello, b/c most girls have a much more colourful history with guys than ur girl. ur girl is fresh, so if this even bothers u than u might develop a nasty jealousy problem. be careful.

and to answer ur topic question, hell yes it does matter, if ur looking much further than just have a good time with her and see where it goes. but that's just my opinion. also b/c we're brought up by (great)(grand)parents that were each other's firsts. that has an effect on u, u subconsciously value that and want nothing short of that for urself.

Ms.Nalia,

Thats why I asked guys for opinion, because girls would not understand.

For example, she is fresh, never kissed or went farther then holding hands, never had reallife relationship/love (except cyber-msn relationship/love), and is all mine...yet as my man said, I feel she is tainted :lol:

And if she was not the real deal, I wouldnt care a bit.

Sxb,

I was involved with colourfull girls and cared less. Never bothered who they dated, been with or done to...I was just enjoying the moments while they lasted because i already knew I would not settle with them.

The weird thing is, why does this little insignificant thing gets to me despite been involved with others who had colourfull pasts?

*Amal · Postby *Amal » Fri Oct 24, 2008 9:47 am

Every guy wants a monopoly on their girl, so if she is ''fresh'' as you claim then let it go and don't ruin something potentially good.

If you don't plan on marrying her..don't waste her time or yours either.

AyanTu · Postby **AyanTu** » Fri Oct 24, 2008 9:50 am

Dude, you seriously need to get over urself.

Starscream · Postby **Starscream** » Fri Oct 24, 2008 9:54 am

Realest_007 wrote:The weird thing is, why does this little insignificant thing gets to me despite been involved with others who had colourfull pasts?

U really like this girl, don't cha. dude just get over it, there's no other advice. :lol:

Realest_007 · Postby **Realest_007** » Fri Oct 24, 2008 9:56 am

*Amal wrote:Every guy wants a monopoly on their girl, so if she is ''fresh'' as you claim then let it go and don't ruin something potentially good.

If you don't plan on marrying her..don't waste her time or yours either.

Can you explain to me how to let go? Preferably through PM :wink:

*Amal · Postby *Amal » Fri Oct 24, 2008 10:08 am

Lol your serious?

ms.nalia · Postby **ms.nalia** » Fri Oct 24, 2008 10:11 am

If you're really letting her go over something like that, then you really didn't want her in the first place.....that's sad for real :roll:

Realest_007 · Postby **Realest_007** » Fri Oct 24, 2008 10:15 am

ms.nalia wrote:If you're really letting her go over something like that, then you really didn't want her in the first place.....that's sad for real

I said...''letting go that pride''

Anyways, from your first post till now it seems u are negative in your replies. Care to explain the animosity miss? Do we know each other?

Amal,

If U can help me with your wisdown, why not? So dont be shy...

AyanTu · Postby **AyanTu** » Fri Oct 24, 2008 10:17 am

I have to say

You are a fantastic hypocrite. How can you honestly sit there and say "oh I had relations in the past with several women" and then turn and say "She dated guys before and I dont like that"

.....wtf :roll:

ms.nalia · Postby **ms.nalia** » Fri Oct 24, 2008 10:19 am

Realest_007 wrote:
ms.nalia wrote:If you're really letting her go over something like that, then you really didn't want her in the first place.....that's sad for real

I said...''letting go that pride''

Anyways, from your first post till now it seems u are negative in your replies. Care to explain the animosity miss? Do we know each other?

Amal,

If U can help me with your wisdown, why not? So dont be shy...

lol....Naaw we don't know eachother, i just hate when a fully grown man act like a five yr old, if ur planning on being in a REAL DEAL relationship ur gonna HAVE to grow up, real talks walal :up:

Realest_007 · Postby **Realest_007** » Fri Oct 24, 2008 10:22 am

Ayantu,

Sorry but dont blame us men for that, blame society. girls rather have experienced guys...is it our fault we build experience before been in real deal relationship, or the girls problem?

Ms.nalia,

Blame love...it is confusing as hell.

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