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I've Never Been So Jealous and Terrified at the Same Time...

Posted: Sat Nov 01, 2008 12:11 am
by AyanTu
This past year, there have been 3 weddings in my family.....yes 3 weddings 1 year.
3 of my older siblings all decided to get married, no one wanted to wait lol.....No, if your wondering, that's not why i'm jealous or terrified lol

The reason why i feel these mixed emotions is, My Mother and her Friends.....
They amaze me beyond the description of mear words, in this past year they have helped my mom accomplish things an army could not do.
With absolutely no catering they have fed on 3 separate occasions, over 1,000 ppl....horrifying....

Why would u be horrified Ayantu??? lemme tell you, it's simply because i can not imagine being able to do the same thing, and if i tried, could my friends and i handle that looool that would be the day...Its impressive the way they came together, i loved it, and to be apart of it just made it all the more impossible to see myself re-create the same thing for my children.....could i really? i mean i have friends....i wrote down and memorized all the recipes and techniques.....but really, i mean really...wouldn't it be more practical to just call a caterer??

horrified i wouldn't be able to give my children that *if they wanted it or not*
Jealous that they make it look so effortless.....

Re: I've Never Been So Jealous and Terrified at the Same Time...

Posted: Sat Nov 01, 2008 12:19 am
by Captain24
I am lost somewhere, what's the problem in nutshell?

Re: I've Never Been So Jealous and Terrified at the Same Time...

Posted: Sat Nov 01, 2008 12:19 am
by The_Emperior5
just go for it when you find the right partner dont be a fraid there is a first time for everthing
just do it waan ku ducayn
married life is great if you have the right partner walahi u bilahi :o

Re: I've Never Been So Jealous and Terrified at the Same Time...

Posted: Sat Nov 01, 2008 12:27 am
by Oxy-
Women feel more ashamed knowing their child had a cheap unorganized wedding - cuz somehow that reelects on them

dont ask me why

Re: I've Never Been So Jealous and Terrified at the Same Time...

Posted: Sat Nov 01, 2008 12:29 am
by AyanTu
lol

read niccas :roll:

Empr thanks for the advice....but that's not what i was talking about my dear... :rose:
A for effort thou

Cap, nutshell: wedding preparation hard, not sure if could pull it off as well as my mom and her click....got it?

Re: I've Never Been So Jealous and Terrified at the Same Time...

Posted: Sat Nov 01, 2008 12:34 am
by American-Suufi
it is a cry for help. somalinet/forum should become a matrimony forum.

she is saying, i only dream getting married and my wedding 2 b better than my younger sister's who got married. no tribal wars somali weddings.

it is hard 2 b a somali female. i feel sorry for them.

Tu :rose:

Re: I've Never Been So Jealous and Terrified at the Same Time...

Posted: Sat Nov 01, 2008 12:36 am
by AyanTu
Wallahi you loser illiterate somalis need to stop replying to my posts :down: :down: :down: :down:


ppl that can read only, can u reply???

Re: I've Never Been So Jealous and Terrified at the Same Time...

Posted: Sat Nov 01, 2008 12:50 am
by American-Suufi
:lol: :lol: :lol:

in ur response, i thought u were ms nalia. i nearly had a cardiac arrest.

come back as AyanTu. :rose:

Re: I've Never Been So Jealous and Terrified at the Same Time...

Posted: Sat Nov 01, 2008 1:00 am
by AyanTu
American-Suufi wrote::lol: :lol: :lol:

in ur response, i thought u were ms nalia. i nearly had a cardiac arrest.

come back as AyanTu. :rose:


I'm confuses...I think you are too darling, go drink some water k?

Re: I've Never Been So Jealous and Terrified at the Same Time...

Posted: Sat Nov 01, 2008 1:03 am
by American-Suufi
AyanTu wrote:
American-Suufi wrote::lol: :lol: :lol:

in ur response, i thought u were ms nalia. i nearly had a cardiac arrest.

come back as AyanTu. :rose:


I'm confuses...I think you are too darling, go drink some water k?


AyanTu dont go romantic on me like Helwaa.

what confussion? :rose:

Re: I've Never Been So Jealous and Terrified at the Same Time...

Posted: Sat Nov 01, 2008 1:11 am
by AyanTu
American-Suufi wrote:
AyanTu wrote:
American-Suufi wrote::lol: :lol: :lol:

in ur response, i thought u were ms nalia. i nearly had a cardiac arrest.

come back as AyanTu. :rose:


I'm confuses...I think you are too darling, go drink some water k?


AyanTu dont go romantic on me like Helwaa.

what confussion? :rose:



You are too weird, even for me, my dear I am a hopless romantic, but only when I'm in a good mood lol

Re: I've Never Been So Jealous and Terrified at the Same Time...

Posted: Sat Nov 01, 2008 7:38 am
by Anab
:D Ayaaantu its refreshing to see you happy and proud of something. You are terrified because u fear u being the next 'one' to say 'I do'. You are jealous .......lol......u r jealous because.....hhhmmm i rather not say. :lol: But its good that u r re-connecting with mom. Good stuff macaanto. I am sure your imaginery 'friends' are proud as well. :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

Re: I've Never Been So Jealous and Terrified at the Same Time...

Posted: Sat Nov 01, 2008 8:13 am
by AyanTu
Anab wrote::D Ayaaantu its refreshing to see you happy and proud of something. You are terrified because u fear u being the next 'one' to say 'I do'. You are jealous .......lol......u r jealous because.....hhhmmm i rather not say. :lol: But its good that u r re-connecting with mom. Good stuff macaanto. I am sure your imaginery 'friends' are proud as well. :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:



I swear non of u know how to read :down:

I'm so dissapointed...in all but OXY :rose: !!!!!

Re: I've Never Been So Jealous and Terrified at the Same Time...

Posted: Sat Nov 01, 2008 8:28 am
by Gifted
I can see why you might be scared because of the responsibility, but I think when the time comes you'll be more prepared and less scared I guess.

Re: I've Never Been So Jealous and Terrified at the Same Time...

Posted: Sat Nov 01, 2008 8:28 am
by Anab
LoolAyaaantu



Sometimes i am so thankful u r one of us. :roll:



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