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Posted: **Fri Jan 16, 2009 1:13 pm**

Surrender

Just ignore Fah..some pple her are allergic to love and fah is one of them.

You dont need to ask Surrender, you should demand.Waqtigi waxa laga xishoon jiray waa laga baxay..aduunkan fusuqi ba batay.This is for his own good too.

Posted: **Fri Jan 16, 2009 1:14 pm**

FAH ok, who wants it to be five pages long? dee she needs ur advice and this is how ur RePly? hmmm u guys are not helpful.

Posted: **Fri Jan 16, 2009 1:17 pm**

Helwa. What about if you're both clean when you get married and then after many years of marriage he sleeps around and infects you...it actually happened to this Somali woman. Ilaahey ha naga koriyo.

Surrender, if she really really likes him and it sounds like the right thing to do for her....she should tell him. Laakin, I'd say it is better to give hints unless the guy is too thick to get any of it. :lol:

Posted: **Fri Jan 16, 2009 1:18 pm**

Surrender, here's a serious reply:

hyperactive wrote:reer kood ha doonoto inanka.
she is bani adam too and she can like a man.
let it go, saas bey sharaftu ko jirta though.

It's both modest and rather lady-like; see, problem solved.

Posted: **Fri Jan 16, 2009 1:19 pm**

lol Surrender..I know what ur saying, but I guess it depends on the situation..if the guy doesn't notice her at all then she shouldn't go for it, how does your friend feel about rejection? :lol:

I doubt any girl would take it lightly, anyways one of my friends was saying that if a girl was the first one to make a move and it happen to work out between them..it could always backfire in the future...i.e in an arguement.."it was you who wanted me" :lol:

Posted: **Fri Jan 16, 2009 1:21 pm**

Surrender, how about giving him hints, signals that she is interested, that might work, assuming he is not clueless, cause some guys are totally clueless when it comes to those things.

lol don't mind Fah, he is 17.

Helwaa, yep everyone should get tested before marriage, virgin or no virgin,

Posted: **Fri Jan 16, 2009 1:21 pm**

surrender wrote:hi everyone, so how's the freezing, wet and dark days going for you so far?!

so my mate and i was talking and she like naa heedhe there is this guy that i really like. i mean really really like.

what shall i do?

i said tell him innit, DUH

and she WHAT i would never do that.

i said well ill ask my snet family/friends for advice.

so what do you think she should do?

and dont say i or her friends should do it for her, coz no way im gona tell the guy she likes him. that is so high schooly.

so what deal?

and be serious pls

How deep are his pockets?

Posted: **Fri Jan 16, 2009 1:23 pm**

Eyes-only

Taasi waa amar allah walaal, wixi ilaahy kuu qoray kuma dhaafyan but a woman can notice if her husband is cheating..all the signs are there.It all depens on who u got involved with in the first place.

Posted: **Fri Jan 16, 2009 1:23 pm**

ire wrote:Surrender, here's a serious reply:
hyperactive wrote:reer kood ha doonoto inanka.
she is bani adam too and she can like a man.
let it go, saas bey sharaftu ko jirta though.

It's both modest and rather lady-like; see, problem solved.

hyper does have good advice. thanks for that hyper. i shall pass on ur good advice. 8-)

Posted: **Fri Jan 16, 2009 1:40 pm**

Surr- just tell him u like him. :mrgreen:

Posted: **Fri Jan 16, 2009 1:42 pm**

How well does she know the guy?

Posted: **Fri Jan 16, 2009 1:45 pm**

Just walk up to him and tell him point blank that you like him.

The guy might be surprised at your courage and it might take some time for these feelings to sink in. So do not be disappointed if he does not reply back or acknowledges immediately. Just put yourself in the position of the guy. What would you have done if he had proposed to you directly?

In all reality...if she likes the dude so much...he prolly ALREADY knows and he hasnt said anything because
1) Hes not interested
2) He doesnt think they're compatible (better to know now)
3) Hes' seeing someone else!
4) Waiting for her to fess up first so that he can have the upper hand (yea...some dudes are jerks like that...)

Posted: **Fri Jan 16, 2009 1:46 pm**

nebela good idea b.

ismahan lol. didnt ask. but im guessing the way she talks about him that she likes him.

BG lol, is not me. :lol:

Posted: **Fri Jan 16, 2009 1:55 pm**

Surrender,

Tell your friend not to open her mouth for him...This is a direct Somali translation..Which is like this; " Afkeeda yeysan ukala furin" :lol:

Just tell her to wait what he says to her..

Posted: **Fri Jan 16, 2009 2:04 pm**

nalia and kambuli very different advice(s). wow. kambuli u got a point though. becuase i also believe the idea of NEVER tell a guy that u like him theory. NEVER!!! just sit back, wait and see what he does :lol: