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Re: telling a guy you like him
Posted: Fri Jan 16, 2009 3:54 pm
by Demure
Alahu Akbar... her ability to attrak a man kulahaa. This is the 21st century not the 13th, there is no need to slyly attrack a man, you go after what you want, period! You are obviously intimidated and showing a classic case of Somali chauvinism and double standards.
Re: telling a guy you like him
Posted: Fri Jan 16, 2009 3:55 pm
by Addoow
Honestly speaking,i am not sure what my reaction to that will be but i will definitely feel flattered meanwhile i have to make sure if she really means it.by the way,why are you avoiding my question?
Ayantu
A good piece of advice,but i dont remember the last time i was honest,i am deceitful and extremely cunning.you have been warned i may also have a predatory eyes.
Re: telling a guy you like him
Posted: Fri Jan 16, 2009 3:58 pm
by Skippa
Your friend shouldn't really have to put words to it...She only needs to look at him with "indha jacayl" and he'll get the message, unless he's a either a little dense, cilaawi, is just not interested or otherwise involved, in which case, she should re-consider her infatuation

@ Qansa...My man!!!
Re: telling a guy you like him
Posted: Fri Jan 16, 2009 4:06 pm
by Sagaashan
somaali waxaa qaribay dadka sida Qansa oo kale kulahaa waa desperate getta hell out of here. what if she is interested and she is honest. wallahi if the guy is not dull he will get it and appreciate it. like nalia said it all depends and alot of it you can read it from the leafs. i know this couple where the sister initiated the convo and mashallah ended up having one of the best kids and are happier than m-fkers. so tell her to be honest, what is worse is that they meet couple of years later and say shid i liked it then but i didnt know how to approach you when he is probably a homeless and she is over 40.
Re: telling a guy you like him
Posted: Fri Jan 16, 2009 4:19 pm
by The_Emperior5
why cant she just tell him i mean he is the only one who is going to know it . the guy will find out any wayz girls cant keep there mouth shut wa balayoo mallab afku shaydaanku oo mariye, and then he will go up to her and say do u like me and then she wil turn red , if she is light skin

any way then then he will find out , horta laakin what respect hada la is jecelyahay who cares about that shit.
Re: telling a guy you like him
Posted: Fri Jan 16, 2009 4:21 pm
by Firewall
Okay, this will only lead to
1. ZINA ZINA ZINA ZINA ZINA ZINA
Tell your friend to control her hormones and read the quran
Somali women aren't mature enough to date, they have zero common sense and are easily manipulated by men
give her a fanta and sambusa and shes already in love with you

Re: telling a guy you like him
Posted: Fri Jan 16, 2009 5:23 pm
by *Amal
Never tell a guy you like him just hope he likes you back.
Re: telling a guy you like him
Posted: Fri Jan 16, 2009 5:34 pm
by The_Emperior5
*Amal wrote:Never tell a guy you like him just hope he likes you back.
why not amal . love comes from both sides what if u love that guy so much u let him go just because u where shy and coudent say i like u

Re: telling a guy you like him
Posted: Fri Jan 16, 2009 5:43 pm
by Aliyah99
There should never ever be a need to tell a guy you like him, that is geeky and gives the guy the upper hand from the get go in the relationship.. if you are a female and you got to the stage where you like a guy then you should know if he is interested or not and then you give him the subtle signals to make a move..
Re: telling a guy you like him
Posted: Fri Jan 16, 2009 5:44 pm
by black velvet
Surrender either your friend and this guy are blind, deaf, both or just silly. Surely you can tell when a spark is there, if it is then all is good she should be patient lakin if she is delusional and just imagining it she could always result to stalking and/or kidnap
Well I have never considered confessing something like that apart from....

But then you always get over it
Re: telling a guy you like him
Posted: Fri Jan 16, 2009 7:00 pm
by Queen_Arawello
You shouldn't tell a guy you into him directly
instead give him signals and clues..reer magaal iska dhig camaal 
Re: telling a guy you like him
Posted: Fri Jan 16, 2009 7:03 pm
by The_Emperior5
Re: telling a guy you like him
Posted: Tue Apr 21, 2009 6:53 am
by black velvet
Horta whatever happened to your friend Surrender did she tell him or chicken out?