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Re: How would you react?
Posted: Wed Jan 21, 2009 12:20 pm
by hilal2020
Waxan horey u dhici jirin markey dhacan sidii looxalin laha ayanba lagaraneyn. Ninkas mucjiso aya lagutusay.
Re: How would you react?
Posted: Wed Jan 21, 2009 12:54 pm
by Afraa*
Maskin I sympathize with the guy. Maybe something he did something in the past that has come back to bite him in the butt. Karma does indeed come around.
Re: How would you react?
Posted: Wed Jan 21, 2009 1:13 pm
by Murax
Sxb, How can You be married and Your Wife is thousands of miles away. That doesn't help things.
Re: How would you react?
Posted: Wed Jan 21, 2009 1:18 pm
by HELWAA
Murax
you are right.......how about the once who send away their wives..taasa aniga yaabiysay.

Re: How would you react?
Posted: Wed Jan 21, 2009 1:22 pm
by Kolombo
Four months is the maximum allowed to be away from one's wife. Its one of the conditions a woman can seek khulaa. People choose to ignore whatever parts of the religion they want, sadly.
Re: How would you react?
Posted: Wed Jan 21, 2009 1:25 pm
by HELWAA
Kolombo
I thought it was only three months a man is allowed to be away from his wife?
Re: How would you react?
Posted: Wed Jan 21, 2009 1:28 pm
by Gifted
WOW, poor man..his life as he knows it has crumbled in too pieces right in front of his eyes. What I don't understand is how good people end up with bad people, it just seems unfair.

Re: How would you react?
Posted: Wed Jan 21, 2009 1:28 pm
by Executive
HELWAA wrote:Kolombo
I thought it was only three months a man is allowed to be away from his wife?
Not if there is a mutual agreement
I feel sorry for a man finding out that his wife is committing sina, Ilhaay hoes ha naaga ilaaliyo
Re: How would you react?
Posted: Wed Jan 21, 2009 1:29 pm
by AbdiWahab252
Kolombo,
Jazakallah, you are enlightening me a lot.
Re: How would you react?
Posted: Wed Jan 21, 2009 1:34 pm
by HELWAA
Executive wrote:HELWAA wrote:Kolombo
I thought it was only three months a man is allowed to be away from his wife?
Not if there is a mutual agreement
I feel sorry for a man finding out that his wife is committing sina, Ilhaay hoes ha naaga ilaaliyo
Most of these men promise them to come as often as possible but in realty that never happens.How do they expect that a humanbeing with feelings wait for them a whole year.Thats cruel, only a strong woman with imaan and values can wait for such man.
Re: How would you react?
Posted: Wed Jan 21, 2009 1:37 pm
by Gifted
lol Helwaa are you kidding me? Are you telling me she can't remain faithful for one year?

Re: How would you react?
Posted: Wed Jan 21, 2009 1:38 pm
by HELWAA
Re: How would you react?
Posted: Wed Jan 21, 2009 1:39 pm
by FAH1223
Gifted wrote:lol Helwaa are you kidding me? Are you telling me she can't remain faithful for one year?

SMH @ the excuse for cheating

Helwaa is a freak
Re: How would you react?
Posted: Wed Jan 21, 2009 1:40 pm
by Kolombo
Helwaa,
From memory, its 4 months. Allahu Aclam. After that he has to visit or arrange for them to be together. If he refuses, she can seek a divorce through a judge, its one of her rights in the Shari'ah.
AW,
You're welcome.

Re: How would you react?
Posted: Wed Jan 21, 2009 1:44 pm
by AbdiWahab252
Kolombo,
So saxiib, are you married ? Practicing what you preach ?