Talk me down

[SummerRain]

Do you agree with this statement:

It is correct to say that Islam is not the religion of equality but that of JUSTICE.

I tend to agree with that, because implying we are all equal (especially when this equality attributes to the equality ascribed by most int the West) would mean, we ignore our differences i.e MEN and WOMEN.If we take a look at wealth distribution in Islam between men and women, siblings to be exact, the man gets more share than the female. Think about the reasons why ALLAH ruled it as such.However, with Justice everyone will receive what he or she is entitled to and deserve.

[Hyperactive]

i agree with that.
islam is justice and gives each sex their need and what is correct with their nature.

[Kolombo]

I sorta agree with you. Equal rights for men and women regarding many issues, but not every issue like you mentioned. The reason men get more inheritance is because men are responsible for their female relatives, that includes their wives, daughters, sisters and mothers. Whereas women are not obligated to be financially responsible for men, whatever a woman earns is hers to keep.

[zulaika]

If we take a look at wealth distribution in Islam between men and women, siblings to be exact, the man gets more share than the female.

this is fair because in marriage...i have the right to say to my husband "what's mine is mine and what's yours is mine"

in other words..we both work, but my earning go directly to my bank account while his earnings go toward our household and living expenditures...he pays for my bills..my telephone bills..my automo-bills

[surrender]

i agree, because JUSTICE itself is the Equality we looking and Yearning for, and if that means treating somene less favourable will bring the ultimate justice, then that will be the correct path!

[Foxy22]

If we take a look at wealth distribution in Islam between men and women, siblings to be exact, the man gets more share than the female.

this is fair because in marriage...i have the right to say to my husband "what's mine is mine and what's yours is mine"

in other words..we both work, but my earning go directly to my bank account while his earnings go toward our household and living expenditures...he pays for my bills..my telephone bills..my automo-bills

"what's mine is mine and what's yours is mine"

I think you and I got this statement in common

[Numeric]

The moto of that liberal lesbo Maddow on MSNBC is "Talk me Down". Guess Ismahan123 is a loyal fan of that show host


Foxy22, You and Ismahan got big egos but what is your husband's is not always yours. It depends.

[SummerRain]

If we take a look at wealth distribution in Islam between men and women, siblings to be exact, the man gets more share than the female.

this is fair because in marriage...i have the right to say to my husband "what's mine is mine and what's yours is mine"

in other words..we both work, but my earning go directly to my bank account while his earnings go toward our household and living expenditures...he pays for my bills..my telephone bills..my automo-bills

"what's mine is mine and what's yours is mine"

I think you and I got this statement in common

How did I know my two fav gold-diggers were going to show up.
Am glad we all agree( well atleast those who bother to show up).

Numeric,
Indeed I'm a loyal Maddow fan, so what?

I don't have a big ego, but just know my right. I don't understand by what you mean what belongs to my husband is not always mine. I'll like to know, if you have the answer. THanks.

[Cawar]

"what's mine is mine and what's yours is mine"

This a good soundbite/punch line...what you ladies dont know.."sadly" is that this line is copied/xeroxed..pasted and claimed by others..While the origin comes from Islam..

But, you have a set of conditions to fill as a wife..you cant just take your husband's wealth and everything he owns..while he has other responsibilities..like other 3 wives..and more imp. while you are not performing your duties as a wife.

[SummerRain]

Cawar,
So when Numeric says it depends he is referring to situations like polygamy? Thanks.

Not anything I'll ever deal with.

[Cawar]

Cawar,
So when Numeric says it depends he is referring to situations like polygamy? Thanks.

Not anything I'll ever deal with.

I was trying to point out the origin of the expression..but why I am not surprised that the only comment you saw was the fact that a man can legally(in Allah's law's) have multiple wives.

[Foxy22]

Ismahaan,

I think Zuli and I are way too honest

Cawar,

duties like 3 wives? says the Gumeeys who is still single

I tell you this man is single for a fukcing reason!!!!

[Foxy22]

Cawar,
So when Numeric says it depends he is referring to situations like polygamy? Thanks.

Not anything I'll ever deal with.

I was trying to point out the origin of the expression..but why I am not surprised that the only comment you saw was the fact that a man can legally(in Allah's law's) have multiple wives.

You land the first one first horta! Ohh I forgot to ask you I know you will tell me off badly in the luuq for asking what I'm about to ask.. but who cares! I will not check my PMs! So horta ma aqal gashay?

[Cawar]

Hey foxxy, Why are you fronting?? to use the slang..lol

See the only thing you chicks saw was the 4 wife comment..and coveniently ignore the rest..but thats typical of women...regardless of origin

PS. I am not gonna ask you anything in private, and no ma aqal gelin whatever that means. And last I knew your name was not Ismahan.

[SummerRain]

Kids, thats enough. Foxy, you get time out for starting trouble. No wait....this fun do continue please.

Cawar,

I had a question, and you rightfully answered it. You can not blame me for selectively reading when I had a premise in place.

looooooooooooooooooooooooooolfoxy did you run into Helwa's comment. She was advicing someone complaining about shortage of good SOmali men, to go for a married man. I thought I was mad, you should have seen Zuliaka's reaction.

Ps Honesty is the best policy.