family planing

[zulaika]

why is the concept of family planing so alien to somalis? specially with newly weds. if the couple decide to wait few years before having kids. somalis start to speculate all sorts of things like they can't have kids..they are wasting each others time.. etc etc.

there's nothing wrong with family planing. just coz you got married don't mean you gotta start having kids like rabbits right away.

[HELWAA]

Haye waa lagugu bilaabay..oo goormaad wax keenaysaan?

Just ignore it.

[SummerRain]

My dear you don't have to explain yourself to these people. Just answer them accordingly and let them know its none of their business. Waqtigey illaahay wax ku seen doono wax waad helaysa.

[AbdiWahab252]

@ Zulaika.

I am eagerly awaiting the release of the Male birth control pill

I do agree with you that its good to delay having kids until the 3rd year unless the wife is getting up there in age.

[shaamboo]

:lol: @ Zulaika.

I am eagerly awaiting the release of the Male birth control pill

I do agree with you that its good to delay having kids until the 3rd year unless the wife is getting up there in age.

abdi sxb Mal mal is the best birth control that any man can wish

[zulaika]

Haye waa lagugu bilaabay..oo goormaad wax keenaysaan?

Just ignore it.

the questions started few days after habeenka arooska.

[zulaika]

My dear you don't have to explain yourself to these people. Just answer them accordingly and let them know its none of their business. Waqtigey illaahay wax ku seen doono wax waad helaysa.

actually my problem is not with prying folks..but rather why dadkeena in general expect in caruurta la'iska dhalo without planning for them?

[The_Emperior5]

if ur new wedd why not just have kids marki ba or is she still in school
its good to have kids when you young... any way u and your partner needs to agree on something..

[HELWAA]

It's better to injoy eachothers company before you have any kids and bond.Once you have kids the freedom is over..walking around naked..eating naked...damn injoy ur time my friend.

[AbdiWahab252]

:lol: @ Zulaika.

I am eagerly awaiting the release of the Male birth control pill

I do agree with you that its good to delay having kids until the 3rd year unless the wife is getting up there in age.

abdi sxb Mal mal is the best birth control that any man can wish

What is mal mal ?

[zulaika]

:lol: @ Zulaika.

I am eagerly awaiting the release of the Male birth control pill

I do agree with you that its good to delay having kids until the 3rd year unless the wife is getting up there in age.

adigu soo taad oratey doonimayo caruur. why bother with any sorta contraceptives...just get a vasectomy.

[zulaika]

It's better to injoy eachothers company before you have any kids and bond.Once you have kids the freedom is over..walking around naked..eating naked...damn injoy ur time my friend.

loooooooool eating naked. why?

[Kolombo]

Misery loves company? They want you to join them in being miserable, that's all it is. Most Somali couples don't know how to raise kids, but that doesn't stop them from dishing them out every year. Talk about a failed society. They frown upon birth control (which is acceptable in Islam to a certain degree), but they do worse things out in the open & even brag about it.

[AbdiWahab252]

Zulaika,

I may want a little bugger or two when I am in my 50s to carry on the family name

[HELWAA]

Never eated naked in the medel of the night ..loool.Try it sometimes