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Re: My Daughter
Posted: Thu Mar 19, 2009 3:15 pm
by Advo
Babies usually cry because of either a) pain 2) hunger 3) Attention
aslong as she's healthy and u feed her right, than ur good, just put on a Ipod and lock her in a safe room, than go back and forth to check on her but make sure she learns to cope without ur presence by busing her with toys and what not etc.
Re: My Daughter
Posted: Thu Mar 19, 2009 3:16 pm
by eyes-only
Try getting her attached to something else, like give her toys to play with or get a babysitter sometimes while you do the chores. Kids do whatever you teach them, you just need to ignore the cries for a while and she'll stop. It sort of worked with my niece.
Re: My Daughter
Posted: Thu Mar 19, 2009 3:21 pm
by Buhodle-Gurl
Talk to your Pediatrician. 
Re: My Daughter
Posted: Thu Mar 19, 2009 3:41 pm
by asmafiqi
Thank you all for the advise, May ALLAH reward each and every one of you.
Re: My Daughter
Posted: Thu Mar 19, 2009 4:05 pm
by ms.naliaa
Cawar and AW:
Jerks, leave the girl alone. Shes a first time mother, what do you know about what shes going through?
Unless your going to give her some positive advice and support, shut up!
Asma:
You'll get through this hun. Have patience sweetie...try different techniques of soothing her...If shes nine months...then your sleep schedual is probably out of whack anyways...Ill pm you some websites....
Re: My Daughter
Posted: Thu Mar 19, 2009 4:14 pm
by asmafiqi
Ms.naliaa thank you for getting my back, you have spoken the truth.nobody really understands what mothers go through unless you are a mother yourself. Of course, men tend to be really ignorant about motherhood that's why they have so much to say but really know nothing about it.
Re: My Daughter
Posted: Thu Mar 19, 2009 4:18 pm
by True Muslima
Be patient for Allah loves the patient one.
Re: My Daughter
Posted: Thu Mar 19, 2009 4:35 pm
by ms.naliaa
asmafiqi wrote:Ms.naliaa thank you for getting my back, you have spoken the truth.nobody really understands what mothers go through unless you are a mother yourself. Of course, men tend to be really ignorant about motherhood that's why they have so much to say but really know nothing about it.
Men will NEVER understand what it feels to be like a mother and the aganoy that comes with being a first time mother. The worry, the sleepless nights....all men care about is getting laid.
(sorry for the vulgarity)