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this question is for the ladies here...

if what you have was given to you through false means..and continued to be supplied to you on such premise. if and when you find out the truth, would you still accept living "life built on lies" knowing it would safeguard the means to which you've been accustomed to? or would u choose the alternative...that may entail a sort of "fall from grace" reality?

i dont think single motherhood is a good alternative

You mean if your boyfriend told you he was a bigshot businessman and then you found out he was a bigshot drug dealer, would you pretend everything was ok inorder to safeguard your position?

GM what is their to safeguard if its just a boyfriend

I thought she said ladies?

Zulaika:- If it's one thing I hate, it's being lied to. I'll rather opt for the latter, if he is lying about his means of income, what else could he be lyin' about? I'd rather make it on my own..

its almost and completely unrealistic for someone to have a hidden secret to spouse for that long, you guys are something else

There is no such thing as a perfect crime so when he ge gets caught would you be willing to share the time or wait for him? I would not go to jail for any so and so marka for me, hell no

You just reminded me of this Monica song.

I must be the only one who doesn't see it as being something purely negative. Just because you're given something through false means doesn't necessarily mean it's bad.

Sagaashan wrote:its almost and completely unrealistic for someone to have a hidden secret to spouse for that long, you guys are something else

Why are you turning the tables on us?

I've watched this documentary once about this guy who was living a double life. He claimed to be a doctor, and every morning he would go to work. His wife, his friends, even his relatives believed him. He had fake certificates, and went to impersonate a doctor in a hospital. He put others at risk, and himself. And for what? Just 'cause he couldn't accept that he failed his medical course. There are some sick people out there..

Madd_Scientist_ wrote:I must be the only one who doesn't see it as being something purely negative. Just because you're given something through false means doesn't necessarily mean it's bad.

Really? Not a bad thing? I understood exactly the same way as SNM. It's either not his or it's illegal. How can it not be bad?

I need more information to give out an 'informed response'. I dont do code language. What r u saying exactly? Zulaika are you married to one of the pirates?

"how can it not be bad?" it depends on the circumstances under which you got whatever it is you got. you have to look at things in a broader perspective rather than "yes, it's fine" or "No, it's not fine". Everything is not black or white bv.

firefly,

i understand completely. i didnt want to speak for every sick men in this world. the truth of the matter is no one can lie to you for so long. if you check your sources well and keep your men in arms length, which he should be if you guys are in real love. i dont know the somali men has adopted a strange dabeecad lately, which is to hide the minyar from the minweyn. wallahi this has been passed to our younger generation as well. i know this guy who was married to white american, very beautiful and talented, making close to 6 figure. but somehow the guy wantd to add a somali one to the mix without notification. the sad thing is they guy is a young person, raised more on cereal than canjeelo.

Sagaashaan,

True, nobody can lie to you for so long. Not if you do your research beforehand, and got detectives in every corner lol. So what happened to him now? Did the American girl leave him? It seemed like he had it all. Humans eh? They're never satisfied with what they have, waxkale uun ee rabaan inee bursadaan intaas..lol