Having two friends who can't

[Sir-Luggoyo]

stand each other.

How do you reconcile when you don't even know why they are fighting at every encounter?

I have two friends who are like the South and the North Pole, totally opposite and disagree/fight over every trivial issue that is raised. I am literally dying in the middle. I like them bothe and I spend a lot of time with them........................I try to be neutral and aloof, but everytime I end up with a severe migraine.

[Babygirl-]

I used to have ones like that too much drama.. thank god I have ones who get along now..

[ms.naliaa]

You cant do anything about it.
They obviously dont respect you enough to stop their bickering when you are around.

You will have to hang out with one of them at a time.

[1nemansquad]

..take em' out one day, go for a long drive to a space where there's no one in sight and tell em' alright guys sort this out like men

..tell em' to fight it out and the only time you will should intervene is when one of them is about to get killed

[Cawar]

Lugoy, I guess this happens to everyone. I had the same problem several times in the past..but I always tried to be open and neutral with each one of them.

Did you try inaa heshiisiiso?? I am sure you did..and if they dont accept it..then its not your problem. ama labadaba u goo..stay away from them for a while.

[Buhodle-Gurl]

Sir-lug. lol been there too. It's like you have to go behind one of their backs to hang out with the other one b'coz tHey hate each other so much. It's like a divorce btween paRents and u don't know wHich paRent you want to live with b'coz they botH mean eveRythin' to you.

[Xamari_76]

Yea...in high school ..now everyone is grown..no one has to see each other no one is forcing anyone..if they dont get along why are they always together..why don't you see them separately?..I have friend who sometimes don't know each other..works out for the better .

[Sir-Luggoyo]

I have to admit, there are timesthat I am in the mood and I enjoy their bickering, and I intentionally start a topic I know would cause a huge fight. But there are times that it just gets in my nerves and I curse them and their ancestors.

Xamari

Unfortunately, we all work location very close to each other and we meet for lunch or just chit-chat.

[Keyse_0208]

Why cant they stand each other?

Anyway in these kinda cases best thing for them to do is to fight one on one, trust me niggaz always become friends after they had a fight.

[Basra-]

"I have to admit, there are timesthat I am in the mood and I enjoy their bickering, and I intentionally start a topic I know would cause a huge fight."



Sir lug u r a lil Devil! this above quote is disturbing! I think both of your friends are fighting for u! i think u play with them--by purposely make each think u r their favorite. Its like a husband with two wives only this time its two male ....B!ches!

[guhad122]

Sir,
I think you are a part of the problem! For the simple fact that you remain neutral in the situation is causing more problems than solutions.

U kala garqaad waayo "Gari labo nin kama wada qosliso".

[shaamboo]

stand each other.

How do you reconcile when you don't even know why they are fighting at every encounter?

I have two friends who are like the South and the North Pole, totally opposite and disagree/fight over every trivial issue that is raised. I am literally dying in the middle. I like them bothe and I spend a lot of time with them........................I try to be neutral and aloof, but everytime I end up with a severe migraine.

i know what the problem is sir,

they both reed your attention so what u need to do is invite both and dont show up or call let them deal with eachoter next time u meet them they will be different i promise