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Women Enjoy too much in ISLAM.
Posted: Sat May 09, 2009 9:35 am
by Lacageylacag
You can't deny the fact that women have it easy in Islam.
The worst thing in the world is the burden of earning a living. They are not required to earn a living.They have a right to be maintained by their male relatives/husband. If she works and spends on her relatives/kids...it is charity work for her.
When Rasullullah(salalahu caleyhi wa salam) wanted to see the good quality of a man, he would look how he treats his wife.
Maimoona, the wife of Rasuullullah(salalahu caleyhi wa salaam) said she would take bath after janaba and Rasullullah(salalahu caleyhi wa salam) would use her left overs for bath. And he was the best of men.
Now salad subax is 4am in the masjid and it is 15 minutes away and scary. Believe me, it is not easy. Women pray in their rooms and get the same Xassanaad.
All a woman needs to do is pray her five daily salad, fast her Ramadan and obey her husband. She enters Jannah in any gate she chooses. AND they are still minority there!!!!
POLYGAMY....one unmarried woman can destroy countless marriages through zinnah. It is an important tool to fight zinnah.
The heart has dark and light conditions. DUNYA is darkness for the heart. Akhirah is light for the heart.
So a heart that gets the darkness(dunya)/akhirah(light) balance right will be able to see polygamy has bigger benefit than the small inconvinience.
The problem with today's women is ignorance of Islam. They do not know their rights in Islam and that opens the door to abuse in dunya and could even destroy their akhirah.....They are too lazy to learn the diin and they have only themselves to blame.
Re: Women Enjoy too much in ISLAM.
Posted: Sat May 09, 2009 9:40 am
by Hallunda
Muslim Women are second citizen in Islam
they are 2.3.4 wifey
they can be beaten
they inharite half of the men
their witness is half of the men
at all they are 50%
Re: Women Enjoy too much in ISLAM.
Posted: Sat May 09, 2009 9:41 am
by stakiin
ahaha i like the way u think
Re: Women Enjoy too much in ISLAM.
Posted: Sat May 09, 2009 9:50 am
by Kolombo
Lacageylacag wrote:The problem with today's women is ignorance of Islam. They do not know their rights in Islam and that opens the door to abuse in dunya and could even destroy their akhirah.....They are too lazy to learn the diin and they have only themselves to blame.
I agree that Islam has honored women, but to lay the blame for their ignorance of the deen on them isn't always true. In many parts of the world, fathers never send their daughters to madrassah or Islamic schools, how do you expect them to know the religion then? In Taliban country, girls schools are closed down and its very rare to find girls in madrassahs. Even in Somalia, for a very long time it was rare to find girl madrassahs, our mothers' generations don't know the Qur'an because they were never sent to madrassah whereas their brothers were sent. Wouldn't it make more sense to educate women since they will be mothers someday?
Re: Women Enjoy too much in ISLAM.
Posted: Sat May 09, 2009 9:57 am
by stakiin
Kolombo ,
you mixing two things here : culture and religion
there is now where in the quran that you shouldnt teach your girl/daughter the quran . so whatever the talibans and some fathers in somalia did doesnt represent the islam .
Re: Women Enjoy too much in ISLAM.
Posted: Sat May 09, 2009 10:02 am
by surrender
Lacageylacag
untill recently women/girls werent educated and were not taught their rights as a muslim women. even TODAY! some countries dont allow women/girls to be educated. just take a look at Afghanistan-and these crazy exremist who think they can make their own sharia law.! for crying out dont blame women not knowing their rights, there are bad evil leaders in this world. who will try and do anything to get power. if that means operessing certain people, groups, genders, so it will be. sometimes i think...i dont care who you are, what you do for living, just tell me which page of hadhith and ayah i this rule u made, from?- there are mad man laws pacticed these days, even in muslim countries. people seem to put emotions before the law of allah.
Re: Women Enjoy too much in ISLAM.
Posted: Sat May 09, 2009 10:04 am
by Lacageylacag
In the west you can only marry one woman but keeping girlfriends on the sides is totally legal.
70% of married western men have had cheated on their wives.
Many women in Europe know their husbands have girlfriends and they play they don't know.
They also cheat to revenge.....and hold hands in public to play happy family.
On average a western woman has slept with 9 boyfriends and aborted 3 babies before marrige at the age of 29.
The average respectable looking Miss Jones is cheaper than a prostitute in the muslim world because she provides free sexual services(girlfriend). At least the prostitute is paid. how can the girlfriend who cheaper than the prostitute be more respectable??????????????
Any Halimos not satisfied with ISLAM can try the devil's camp.
Re: Women Enjoy too much in ISLAM.
Posted: Sat May 09, 2009 10:04 am
by baafu
Islam supports wife beating
no nac nac
no sheekh
this is aayah in Al nisaa
(4:34) - "Men are the maintainers of women because Allah has made some of them to excel others and because they spend out of their property; the good women are therefore obedient, guarding the unseen as Allah has guarded; and (as to) those on whose part you fear desertion, admonish them, and leave them alone in the sleeping-places and beat them; then if they obey you, do not seek a way against them; surely Allah is High, Great
Re: Women Enjoy too much in ISLAM.
Posted: Sat May 09, 2009 10:05 am
by ms.naliaa
Muslim Women are second citizen in Islam
they are 2.3.4 wifey -
You can say you dont want to be a 2nd,3rd,4th wifethey can be beaten -
No they cant. maybe tapped slightly to get your attention...not beated. they inharite half of the men -
Thats because men are supposed to take care of them. If (heaven forbid) my parents passed...my brothers would have to provide for me, food, shelter, clothing from THEIR inheritance..and I keep what was given to me. their witness is half of the men -
Sometimes women are not as logical as me. at all they are 50%
-
Your retarated thats why ur half
Re: Women Enjoy too much in ISLAM.
Posted: Sat May 09, 2009 10:08 am
by stakiin
ms.naliaa wrote:Muslim Women are second citizen in Islam
they are 2.3.4 wifey -
You can say you dont want to be a 2nd,3rd,4th wifethey can be beaten -
No they cant. maybe tapped slightly to get your attention...not beated. they inharite half of the men -
Thats because men are supposed to take care of them. If (heaven forbid) my parents passed...my brothers would have to provide for me, food, shelter, clothing from THEIR inheritance..and I keep what was given to me. their witness is half of the men -
Sometimes women are not as logical as me. at all they are 50%
-
Your retarated thats why ur half
can i co-sign that??
Re: Women Enjoy too much in ISLAM.
Posted: Sat May 09, 2009 10:08 am
by Rightwing
Kolombo wrote:Lacageylacag wrote:The problem with today's women is ignorance of Islam. They do not know their rights in Islam and that opens the door to abuse in dunya and could even destroy their akhirah.....They are too lazy to learn the diin and they have only themselves to blame.
I agree that Islam has honored women, but to lay the blame for their ignorance of the deen on them isn't always true. In many parts of the world, fathers never send their daughters to madrassah or Islamic schools, how do you expect them to know the religion then? In Taliban country, girls schools are closed down and its very rare to find girls in madrassahs. Even in Somalia, for a very long time it was rare to find girl madrassahs, our mothers' generations don't know the Qur'an because they were never sent to madrassah whereas their brothers were sent. Wouldn't it make more sense to educate women since they will be mothers someday?
Kolombo, You are right sxb, xitaa Al-shabab are comparing themselve to the Taliban in Swat region; who happened to be uneducated and involved in the primitive societies where law existed without a political state. Anigu I blame just"Jahliga"
Cheerz Le Justicier
Re: Women Enjoy too much in ISLAM.
Posted: Sat May 09, 2009 10:09 am
by ms.naliaa
stakiin wrote:ms.naliaa wrote:Muslim Women are second citizen in Islam
they are 2.3.4 wifey -
You can say you dont want to be a 2nd,3rd,4th wifethey can be beaten -
No they cant. maybe tapped slightly to get your attention...not beated. they inharite half of the men -
Thats because men are supposed to take care of them. If (heaven forbid) my parents passed...my brothers would have to provide for me, food, shelter, clothing from THEIR inheritance..and I keep what was given to me. their witness is half of the men -
Sometimes women are not as logical as me. at all they are 50%
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Your retarated thats why ur half
can i co-sign that??
Of course my dear! 
Re: Women Enjoy too much in ISLAM.
Posted: Sat May 09, 2009 10:10 am
by Kolombo
stakiin wrote:Kolombo ,
you mixing two things here : culture and religion
there is now where in the quran that you shouldnt teach your girl/daughter the quran . so whatever the talibans and some fathers in somalia did doesnt represent the islam .
I was correcting Lacag when he said women's ignorance about the religion is their own fault when it isn't always the case. If anything the Prophet (saw) said the best fathers are those who treat their daughters better than their sons. That's why its very important to educate girls in the religion and in everything else.
Re: Women Enjoy too much in ISLAM.
Posted: Sat May 09, 2009 10:11 am
by Rightwing
Re: Women Enjoy too much in ISLAM.
Posted: Sat May 09, 2009 10:16 am
by ms.naliaa
lol
thats what it says tho.
Say my husband is trying to talk to me right...and Im angry and mad and frustrated
Im not listening to what hes' saying (which is something I would do) if he taps me...
ill probably
1) laugh (wtf are u tapping)
2) might make me stop freaking out on him
