LIVING THE SINGLE LIFE....

Postby **Nabeela** » Thu May 28, 2009 2:05 pm

Ducaysane, maxa ceeb ah? getting married when you are ready be at 30 or 40, ceeb ma'ah, that is jahilnimo mentality.

MrPrestige · Postby **MrPrestige** » Thu May 28, 2009 2:08 pm

Nabeela wrote:Ducaysane, maxa ceeb ah? getting married when you are ready be at 30 or 40, ceeb ma'ah, that is jahilnimo mentality.

lool how can you call somali values jahilnimo - you know what they say the sooner the girl gets married the better . i dont know about you thats your individual choice but certainly most somalis consider a girl who is 30 + and over unmarried something to be ashamed of

Kolombo · Postby **Kolombo** » Thu May 28, 2009 2:09 pm

HELWAA wrote:Being unmarried undeniably comes with its challenges, just like marriage does. But it isn’t the end of the world. So get up, take a deep breath, hand this affair over to Allah, and start truly living the life He has given you!

Thank you. :up:

Bro · Postby **Bro** » Thu May 28, 2009 2:09 pm

Being single can sometimes be stressful, Not that their's anything wrong with it. Life without a significant other is just plain dolorous.

MrPrestige · Postby **MrPrestige** » Thu May 28, 2009 2:11 pm

HELWAA wrote:The problem is Ducaysane some women think they cant liv without a man thats why they keep doing the same mistake over and over again.

a woman who doesnt need a man in her life - what is she ? do you consider her the normal woman

Postby **FAH1223** » Thu May 28, 2009 2:12 pm

Ducaysane209 wrote:
Nabeela wrote:Ducaysane, maxa ceeb ah? getting married when you are ready be at 30 or 40, ceeb ma'ah, that is jahilnimo mentality.

lool how can you call somali values jahilnimo - you know what they say the sooner the girl gets married the better . i dont know about you thats your individual choice but certainly most somalis consider a girl who is 30 + and over unmarried something to be ashamed of

Ducaysane

Kolombo wrote:There's nowhere it says a person has to get married for their existence on this earth to be complete, let alone a person has to rush in to it because of time running out. Its a personal choice. First accomplish all you need to accomplish, establish yourself and then if you find the right partner, go for it. The worst mistake you can make is feel rushed, because then it will lead to desparation and trust me you don't want to be desparate when looking for a spouse. Because then you'll end up making the biggest mistake you can make by settling for the first loser who you think is ready to marry you. Soomaalida are mostly ignorant simpletons who enjoy misery, don't let them fool you. The same people who have destroyed Somalia and subject their daughters to the cruelty of FGM, why bother listening to their demented notions about rushing in to marriage?

ms.naliaa · Postby **ms.naliaa** » Thu May 28, 2009 2:13 pm

Ducaysane209 wrote:

lool how can you call somali values jahilnimo - you know what they say the sooner the girl gets married the better . i dont know about you thats your individual choice but certainly most somalis consider a girl who is 30 + and over unmarried something to be ashamed of

You're like a one trick poney. Listen, you have to look at the environment the person lives in. In Africa, women get married earlier because theres really nothing else to do...esp in rural areas and villages. Education is not as important
Now if you look at the western lifestyle, where education is valued greatly and is in most cases a MUST if you want to survive financially in the env. most people dont finish school until their mid to late 20s. Then they start on the path of finding a career that will sustain them and once that has been accomplished, family planning is the next step.

HELWAA · Postby **HELWAA** » Thu May 28, 2009 2:21 pm

Ducaysane209 wrote:
HELWAA wrote:The problem is Ducaysane some women think they cant liv without a man thats why they keep doing the same mistake over and over again.

a woman who doesnt need a man in her life - what is she ? do you consider her the normal woman

If they already got rid of the loser who made their life like hell why bring onther one instead of injoing their freedom focusing on their children and developing themselves again.why rush intu onther marriage you're not ready for..it doesn't make any sense. :down:

MrPrestige · Postby **MrPrestige** » Thu May 28, 2009 2:23 pm

ms.naliaa wrote:
Ducaysane209 wrote:

lool how can you call somali values jahilnimo - you know what they say the sooner the girl gets married the better . i dont know about you thats your individual choice but certainly most somalis consider a girl who is 30 + and over unmarried something to be ashamed of

You're like a one trick poney. Listen, you have to look at the environment the person lives in. In Africa, women get married earlier because theres really nothing else to do...esp in rural areas and villages. Education is not as important
Now if you look at the western lifestyle, where education is valued greatly and is in most cases a MUST if you want to survive financially in the env. most people dont finish school until their mid to late 20s. Then they start on the path of finding a career that will sustain them and once that has been accomplished, family planning is the next step.

horta are you even somali i though you jamaican? ---- lets just say i like my brides earlier :roll:

MrPrestige · Postby **MrPrestige** » Thu May 28, 2009 2:24 pm

HELWAA wrote:
Ducaysane209 wrote:
HELWAA wrote:The problem is Ducaysane some women think they cant liv without a man thats why they keep doing the same mistake over and over again.

a woman who doesnt need a man in her life - what is she ? do you consider her the normal woman

If they already got rid of the loser who made their life like hell why bring onther one instead of injoing their freedom focusing on their children and developing themselves again.why rush intu onther marriage you're not ready for..it doesn't make any sense.

there is no such thing as freedom when it comes to somali culture :up:

ms.naliaa · Postby **ms.naliaa** » Thu May 28, 2009 2:25 pm

Ducaysane209 wrote:

horta are you even somali i though you jamaican? ---- lets just say i like my brides earlier

yea Im somali.
lol brides? do you plan on being a seriel divorce?

MrPrestige · Postby **MrPrestige** » Thu May 28, 2009 2:27 pm

ms.naliaa wrote:
Ducaysane209 wrote:

horta are you even somali i though you jamaican? ---- lets just say i like my brides earlier

yea Im somali.
lol brides? do you plan on being a seriel divorce?

if necessary i have 4 brides lined up each if shes unimpressive she will be shown the door :up:

ms.naliaa · Postby **ms.naliaa** » Thu May 28, 2009 2:34 pm

Ducaysane209 wrote:

if necessary i have 4 brides lined up each if shes unimpressive she will be shown the door

its not a right, its a privalage to marry that many women and from the looks of it, you wouldnt be able to treat them the way Islam has prescribed.

MrPrestige · Postby **MrPrestige** » Thu May 28, 2009 2:36 pm

ms.naliaa wrote:
Ducaysane209 wrote:

if necessary i have 4 brides lined up each if shes unimpressive she will be shown the door

its not a right, its a privalage to marry that many women and from the looks of it, you wouldnt be able to treat them the way Islam has prescribed.

i ll marry 4 wifes of my choice and we will engage in 5 some as long as we want - Caato Style :up:

ms.naliaa · Postby **ms.naliaa** » Thu May 28, 2009 2:39 pm

Ducaysane209 wrote:
i ll marry 4 wifes of my choice and we will engage in 5 some as long as we want - Caato Style

hahahah this coming from the man with the stamina of a snail...g'luck

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