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I have this friend right and she has so many problems. She doesn't want to go to work because she hates her boss and he treats her like trash. She's trying to loose weight but it never works for her and so she's fat as ever (probably going to die of her obesity). She's always complaining that she doesn't have a husband but she's turned down every guy who wanted her for the past 8 years (before she became so fat) and now she's always calling me expecting me to be there for her and pick her up coz she's always down! She wants me to go to the gym with her but I think it's just to make herself feel better because she's lazy. She wants to get a job where I work but she's ignorant about her rights where she is anyway so why should I help her? Because we're ina abti? I think not! That is so backwards. Plus I think she's just jealous of me.

She's ignorant, lazy, backward, qabilist and she's probably doomed to die an old miserable hag. So why should I care.








































































































From the way a lot of you speak about Somalia and Somalis, I think that is how you may feel about your land and your people Degrade it all like shit on your shoe

i don't care.

Maybe someone can help me explain it. I can't stand the situation in Somalia and how ignorant and down right evil Somalis are to each other. But, wallahi I am the same person who finds herself jumping hoops trying to help them and would never watch a SOmali in need without assisting in some way.

I feel like I want nothing to do with them, b/c all they have is negativity and hate but at the sametime their pain becomes my pain.

How can you help someone.....who doesn't want to change...who's not willing to change? You can take the steps with me, show them the way, show them how etc but you can't take the steps for them.

Can you even degrade a country?

Is it my land....if I've never stepped foot on it, if I've never contributed anything to the country, if it's never given me anything?

I would help anyone who I was able to, the fact that they were Somali would not make me any more inclined to help..they don't get preferential treatment just because they look like me.

ina abti darteed hadaad ucaawin wayday, ilaahay dartii ucaawi!

surrender wrote:ina abti darteed hadaad ucaawin wayday, ilaahay dartii ucaawi!

lol Surrender I would never treat or talk about somebody in that manner.

Help and teach how to help her self. If she can't help her self after you give a hand, then don't wast your time on her. But again you have to not disown her totally.

Lugna kula saaxiib, lugna kula dirir

black velvet wrote:

surrender wrote:ina abti darteed hadaad ucaawin wayday, ilaahay dartii ucaawi!

lol Surrender I would never treat or talk about somebody in that manner.

lol what do u mean?

I think most of you didn't get the post.............

From the way a lot of you speak about Somalia and Somalis, I think that is how you may feel about your land and your people Degrade it all like shit on your shoe

So true wallahi

S-D, can it be you who didn't get our posts...

Let me put in this way:

Faranacab wrote:Help and teach how to help her self( that is Somalia). If Somalia can't help her self after you give a hand, then don't wast your time on her. But again you have to not disown her totally.

Lugna kula saaxiib, lugna kula dirir

Lugna kula saaxiib: Help if Somalia can help her self

Lugna kula dirir: Take care of your time & self regional developement.

Farta waa weyn in wax lagu dhigo looma wada baahna ayaan qabaa, please
next time don't ask for it

Faranacab wrote:S-D, can it be you who didn't get our posts...

Let me put in this way:

Faranacab wrote:Help and teach how to help her self( that is Somalia). If Somalia can't help her self after you give a hand, then don't wast your time on her. But again you have to not disown her totally.

Lugna kula saaxiib, lugna kula dirir

Lugna kula saaxiib: Help if Somalia can help her self

Lugna kula dirir: Take care of your time & self regional developement.

Farta waa weyn in wax lagu dhigo looma wada baahna ayaan qabaa, please
next time don't ask for it

I actually missed your reply but Well said

Thanks mate

ok my beef is with these rascals who r PC jihadist! WHY do u care about the affairs of somalia???Why will u care when u r leisurely sipping star bucks lattes here in the west? There is absolutely Zero reason to discuss somali politics. its futile!

Basra- wrote: ok my beef is with these rascals who r PC jihadist! WHY do u care about the affairs of somalia???Why will u care when u r leisurely sipping star bucks lattes here in the west? There is absolutely Zero reason to discuss somali politics. its futile!

Sax.....Lets talk about cheesecake and sweet stuff