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for the Guys,
-Marriage life has so many stress, financial constrains, restrictions, and Conflict with short term Dreams Like education.
_single Life is all about having fun, chilling with your buddies, Not working too much and Dating new girls all the time.

I think Marriage is Fun for the girls and a burden to the guys.

What do you think.

Subxanallah...

Maa nagta guriga hagajiniso.
Cuntadada karinaso 3 times.
Carries babies 9 months.
Goes through child labor.
Sometimes has a job to support the family.
Dharka dhaqaso.
Weelka dhaqaso.
Ilmaha heenaso.
iyo kuun waxo kale.

Babygirl- wrote:Subxanallah...

Maa nagta guriga hagajiniso.
Cuntadada karinaso 3 times.
Carries babies 9 months.
Goes through child labor.
Sometimes has a job to support the family.
Dharka dhaqaso.
Weelka dhaqaso.
Ilmaha heenaso.
iyo kuun waxo kale.

babygirl,

waxaas oo dhan gurigooda way kaqabataah ilaa markii ay 9 Jirtay. waxa kaliya oo kusoo saaido waa uurka asagana waa wax markasto imaado.

actually hada kaligiis ay cunto iyo dhar u hagaajinee laakiin gurigooda 10 qof ay usameen jirtay.

abaayo fiiri wiilka miskiinka ah. magaaladiisa uu baashaali jiray, asaga bis aa iska fakarijiray, meeshuu rabo iyo xiligii uu rabo uu seexan jiray. hal shaqo aa kufilneed, wax barashadiisa waqti ayuu uheli jiray. waxaas oo dhan waa eber hada. Guurka wallaahi is like a prison for nin dhalinyaro ah. odayaasha uu ufiican yahay oo shaqada iyo guriga iyo masjidka udhexeeyo.

MM
married life is not a burden,if you are educationally uplited,have a strong financial background and raaliya as a wife(a rare thing among the xaliimos) laakin with out these things,life will be no bed of roses for you.

single life is fun,run after girls 24\7 and be on the phone all night listening to the moans and groans of the girl.
alla maxaan habeen dheexaa dhafray.

"And among His signs is this, that He created for you mates from among yourselves, that you may dwell in tranquility with them, and He has put love and mercy between your hearts. Verily in that are signs for those who reflect." (Qur'an 30:21)

In the Qur'an, the marriage relationship is described as one with "tranquility," "love" and "mercy." Elsewhere in the Qur'an, husband and wife are described as "garments" for each other (2:187). Garments offer protection, comfort, modesty, and warmth. Above all, the Qur'an describes that the best garment is the "garment of God-consciousness" (7:26).

Muslims' view marriage as the foundation of society and family life. In a practical aspect, Islamic marriage is thus structured through legally-enforceable rights and duties of both parties. In an atmosphere of love and respect, these rights and duties provide a framework for the balance of family life and the fulfillment of

abaayo I agree and believe in the Qur'an. In Somalia, Marriage was fun I think but In the West, It is a burden to a young boy who has dreams. You would have all your life style changed after One day. You wake up one morning, attend a little meher gathering and One night of Some little dancing wedding and wake up the next morning to have your life, dreams, hobbies and budget changed. Wallaahi it is like taking a fish out of the water and bringing him to the Mainland. I don't think Most of the guys get anything new in Marriage other than addition of responsibility. They used to get many girls, eat food and have fun.

Marriage is overrated.

walaahi geting married is the best thing ever happened to me, I used to be out there, when I say out there I mean going out with 2 to 3 girls at the same time, partying like there is no tomorow, lying to girls, it was too much work, now alhamdu-lilaah I got "gaariya" I'm siting this internet caffe and I can't wait to go home. so it depends if you marry the wrong woman/man then I guess it will be hell.

FAH1223 wrote:Marriage is overrated.

lol fah and nabeela.

maha goorka idinka diray?

hyperactive wrote:lol fah and nabeela.

maha goorka idinka diray?

lol I'm seriously considering to never getting hitched, the thought of some farax bossing me around is just too irritating.

Independent Women.

hyper, unlike the Ilkoyar Jeberti above me, I plan to get married... I just think people (MUSLIMS) in general overhype marriage... I mean I'm not ignorant of the benefits of it both wordly and in the hereafter but its made as such a bliss. And you also hear of all sorts of stories of why the fail and you shake your head.

but I'm not going to pursue that for atleast 6 years when I'm hitting 25-26... so 2015 maybe

damn, actually thats not that far away..

+ Food on the table
+ Pleasure at the night
+ Someone to share with the life
- Restrictions
- Changing your life style

Psykmottagningen wrote:+ Food on the table
+ Pleasure at the night
+ Someone to share with the life
- Restrictions
- Changing your life style

see? this is the problem

dudes automatically assume a chick will cook for you and be a love making machine everyday

A women stops worrying about her future when she is married, a man starts worrying when he gets married.