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AbdiWahab252 wrote:Suga,

Your friend is right. He is too controlling.

Avoid controlling people because its unhealthy and shows potential abuse done the road.

Trust is all that is needed.

how is that a sign of potential abuse bal? it was a harmless statement from someone who cares about her. what's the big deal? im sure all guys say those kinda things to their gals and vise versa.

xamari, thankz for the honesty. i agree.

E-S. i think ur on something today! relax macaanto

C, waa gabar fiican, and she plans to wed him eventually.

suga answer this question..were you invited to this wedding? Yes or No. if Yes ill shut up if No then a torrent of abuse is headed your way.

Enlighted, You dont' know North American weddings. Nobody hands out invitations. Ohio is dhulos territory and she has a lot of friends( I think)

Suga,

A controlling person has a potential to abuse you. They want to run your life, control what you do, who you see, where you go. Basically more controlling than your own parents.

I always avoid such people and warn them: "Don't ask me any questions Mom would never ask: "where I was, who is that, why didnt you call me etc etc

Enlightened~Sista wrote:suga answer this question..were you invited to this wedding? Yes or No. if Yes ill shut up if No then a torrent of abuse is headed your way.

abaayo, just bcuz i luv going to weddingz does not mean i crash every wedding, and yes i was invited.

abdi, i understand that, but controllin to me would be repetitive, but that was a simple text that didn't really mean anything.

suga_n_spice wrote:abdi, going to weddings is a female thing, a lot of guys don't go. he was at home i guess.

macaaney, what's wrong with him tellin her what she should wear. it's his gurl, he can have an opinion.

keyse. that topic was totally misunderstood

well...it's not his business ......it's not like he is wearing her clothes.....why will he have an opinion

Captain so basically everyone invites themselves? akhlaaq xumaaa...urghggggggggggghhhh cant stand those people wallahi!!!

I heard of a wedding where the guests had to queue up for kebabs and chips from a local takeaway because a lot of uninvited hooligans came and cuntadii loogu talagalaa guestskii baay kuwada foofeeyn

Captain24 wrote:If she's a "dating girl" , she should tell him to fck off, but if she's taken and they decided to get married, then it's al wrong to dance with a stranger.

I know Somali dudes in weddings, they will stare at her boobs all night , lame ass mofckaz

Suga,

Off topic; how come you never dated nin Ogaadeen ah?

Kinda curious here.

S-D-M wrote:

Captain24 wrote:If she's a "dating girl" , she should tell him to fck off, but if she's taken and they decided to get married, then it's al wrong to dance with a stranger.

I know Somali dudes in weddings, they will stare at her boobs all night , lame ass mofckaz

He does that same stuff.

MJP wa is qarxisay.

sometimes i wonder about snet females walle.

ES. people don't go to weddings to eat. they go for the entertainment, and trust me the people who have weddingz better b happy uninvited guests show up. cuz if it isn't for them, it would be a complete qasaaro!

i know people who don't even know their bridesmaids and their groomsmen!!

K, cuz there are no cagdheer's in ohio saxiib. Mr's lee qashin camal u buuxa

Suga,

Lame excuse, I smell something else.

Why do some people insist on only dating/getting to know people in their own city? A little boring, don't you think?

suga why haven't u dated any Geledi guys

ES

American wedding scene and UK one are different hun

Ismahan, How is that my fault some girls decide to wear a see thru thing. It's too tempting when you see a girl with full boobs and the boobs staring you right in the eye