Araweelo,
The thing is I didn't know what Captain was talking about until way back I went to a aroos and some Somali dudes from Boston came, and they would just scope girls all night, point at hear and look at their friends, ask You like 1 million questions about the girl, etc. and When the aroos is over, they somehow don't talk to Her. Laakin midka 'ugu geesisan' will do what Captain said, and they just seem so akward and scared that the girl becomes uncomfortable and nervous themselves
I just tell them I mean its not that big of a deal if someone is going too approach, just go up to Her, smile, talk to Her normal, and when the time is right ask Her whatever u want, and either She'll say Yes, or She'll say no, its not the end of the world
