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That's probably one of the main reason why divorce rates are so high. After work, he's waiting for a home-cooked meal & a foot massage and she's waiting for roses,a box of chocolates, & a surprise dinner date.

Serena wrote:That's probably one of the main reason why divorce rates are so high. After work, he's waiting for a home-cooked meal & a foot massage and she's waiting for roses,a box of chocolates, & a surprise dinner date.

@foot massage.


Realistically though I believe in coming in the middle. I mean if a Guy is making GOOD money and is more than providing for the family, is actually around His kids then the Woman should have no problems taking the homemaker role. However if the dude ain't making nothing, is a lazy mashaqeyste and the girl is the one paying the bills or even half the bills, then Yes I agree she should wear half the pants in the House, and the Man should split family duty with the Wife. Really though would girls want to work 9-5 Mon-Fri while they're pregnant?

Enlightened~Sista wrote:Men with surwaal balaqsan, oversized coats, ugly shoes, dhar foolxun.Nimanka akhlaaqda xun. Nimanka iska daacdaaca. Nimanka candhuufta tuf tufa.Nimanka aan cadar isticmaalin. Nimanka aan meedhan. Nimanka cigaarka cabba. Nimanka qayyila. Nimanka aan xoogooda ku shaqeen oo meel uun iska fadhiya sida dumarka. Nimanka wife no 2 iyo wife no 3 ku fakara. Nimanka beenta sheega. Nimanka khamiiska gaaban hidha. Nimanka gadhadhka waa weyn leh. Nimanka aan Dumarkooda xitta marmar guriga ka caawin. Nimanka caruurtooda aan ka war heyn.Nimanka bakhaylka ah.Nimanka fadaraa ka hadla. Nimanka fadaraha ku dhaqma.

This woman is very liberal walahi, i love her.

Enlighted Sister,

Horta adiga Xaal baa lagaa rabaa. Why would you say " Nimanka sida naagaha iska fadhiya"..Where did see women sitting idly? They are either cleaning, cooking or popping kids and working just like the guys etc etc Bal xaal na sii haddii aan haweenka nahay..

Murax,

I agree with you. If the girl is the bread winner of the household what is stopping the guy to do the house chores? That is my reasoning or if both of them are bread winners..Then they both should help in the household. But if the Halimo is the stay home mom why would she complain about the house chores

Enlightened~Sista wrote:Men with surwaal balaqsan, oversized coats, ugly shoes, dhar foolxun.Nimanka akhlaaqda xun. Nimanka iska daacdaaca. Nimanka candhuufta tuf tufa.Nimanka aan cadar isticmaalin. Nimanka aan meedhan. Nimanka cigaarka cabba. Nimanka qayyila. Nimanka aan xoogooda ku shaqeen oo meel uun iska fadhiya sida dumarka. Nimanka wife no 2 iyo wife no 3 ku fakara. Nimanka beenta sheega. Nimanka khamiiska gaaban hidha. Nimanka gadhadhka waa weyn leh. Nimanka aan Dumarkooda xitta marmar guriga ka caawin. Nimanka caruurtooda aan ka war heyn.Nimanka bakhaylka ah.Nimanka fadaraa ka hadla. Nimanka fadaraha ku dhaqma.

WTF?

kambuli wrote:Murax,

I agree with you. If the girl is the bread winner of the household what is stopping the guy to do the house chores? That is my reasoning or if both of them are bread winners..Then they both should help in the household. But if the Halimo is the stay home mom why would she complain about the house chores

Exactly

Murax
Nigga you too soft, you need to tame your wife, if she wants too work let her work let her work, if she want`s too cook and clean and take care of the children while your out their fetching food then so be it. How you gonna come home and wash the dishes? cuunto kuluul oo karkareyso hadaysan miskaa sarnen suunka la baxa oo iyada iyo ciyaalka saaf ka mar

Murax wrote:

Serena wrote:That's probably one of the main reason why divorce rates are so high. After work, he's waiting for a home-cooked meal & a foot massage and she's waiting for roses,a box of chocolates, & a surprise dinner date.

@foot massage.


Realistically though I believe in coming in the middle. I mean if a Guy is making GOOD money and is more than providing for the family, is actually around His kids then the Woman should have no problems taking the homemaker role. However if the dude ain't making nothing, is a lazy mashaqeyste and the girl is the one paying the bills or even half the bills, then Yes I agree she should wear half the pants in the House, and the Man should split family duty with the Wife. Really though would girls want to work 9-5 Mon-Fri while they're pregnant?

You're right. Too many chicks be watching soap operas & hollywood/bollywoods movies and then have trouble separating fantasy from reality.

Xamud. wrote:Murax
Nigga you too soft, you need to tame your wife, if she wants too work let her work let her work, if she want`s too cook and clean and take care of the children while your out their fetching food then so be it. How you gonna come home and wash the dishes? cuunto kuluul oo karkareyso hadaysan miskaa sarnen suunka la baxa oo iyada iyo ciyaalka saaf ka mar

Good look on calling out My jileecnimo Inadeer LOL

Serena,

LOL. Chick flicks are a big problems for gabdo these days. I wouldn't be suprised if some of them try to kiss their Husbands after waking up without brushing their teeth just like in those movies

That's just nasty.

Murax wrote:

Xamud. wrote:Murax
Nigga you too soft, you need to tame your wife, if she wants too work let her work let her work, if she want`s too cook and clean and take care of the children while your out their fetching food then so be it. How you gonna come home and wash the dishes? cuunto kuluul oo karkareyso hadaysan miskaa sarnen suunka la baxa oo iyada iyo ciyaalka saaf ka mar

Good look on calling out My jileecnimo Inadeer LOL

Serena,

LOL. Chick flicks are a big problems for gabdo these days. I wouldn't be suprised if some of them try to kiss their Husbands after waking up without brushing their teeth just like in those movies

So god forbid your wife wakes up in the middle of the night for you know what, are you going to make her go and brush her teeth?

^ That plus he's gonna make her shower, straightener her hair, apply some makeup and put on some clothes fresh out the dryer. Murax don't play.

Xamud,

I know you are just joking about your harsh attitude Hope kids don't assume this is the way

Cali_Gaab wrote:

Enlightened~Sista wrote:Men with surwaal balaqsan, oversized coats, ugly shoes, dhar foolxun.Nimanka akhlaaqda xun. Nimanka iska daacdaaca. Nimanka candhuufta tuf tufa.Nimanka aan cadar isticmaalin. Nimanka aan meedhan. Nimanka cigaarka cabba. Nimanka qayyila. Nimanka aan xoogooda ku shaqeen oo meel uun iska fadhiya sida dumarka. Nimanka wife no 2 iyo wife no 3 ku fakara. Nimanka beenta sheega. Nimanka khamiiska gaaban hidha. Nimanka gadhadhka waa weyn leh. Nimanka aan Dumarkooda xitta marmar guriga ka caawin. Nimanka caruurtooda aan ka war heyn.Nimanka bakhaylka ah.Nimanka fadaraa ka hadla. Nimanka fadaraha ku dhaqma.

This woman is very liberal walahi, i love her.

ES do you mean brothers that grow beards and have their garments above their ankles? are you aware this is part of the sunnah?


back to the topic- women need to be more realistic, you can't expect your husband to be superman.