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Perfect_Order wrote:BV I think that this is a reaction to today's society, where today's women do not need many for anything other than having kids and some don't even use them when they can go to a sperm bank.

God put man in charge of women because he is able to bring income, leadership, and stability to the family, but now women have almost equal input into that area so the area's man is in dominance has been withered slowly and deliberately. Im not saying that women before did not work nor did not bring income but not in the way its done today, so what are we left with what power do we hold over women to submit to our leadership.... nothing... she can leave raise her children on welfare, work and get free daycare...

so what does this lead to- an insecurity that drives men into the extreme of finding the qualities they find attractive in women i.e. innocence, youth, and a dependency to them that they desire.. in short... younger and younger women.. so the truth is ..... INDEPENDENT WOMEN ARE NOT ATTRACTIVE AND ITS NOT CUZ WE ARE INSECURE BUT IT LEADS TO AN UNHEALTHY RELATIONSHIP

surrender wrote:

AbdiWahab252 wrote:Surrender,

What is wrong with SDM ? He is a wealthy Somali man who lives in a posh neighborhood, has a good job, owns a nice mansion and drives an Audi A-8.

i swear he mentioned before that he was a taxi driver, or [b]am i totally mistaken him with another snatter?[/b]

black velvet wrote:AW tryna pimp SDM, SDM defending himself all the way to the wrong path, Surrender fueling the flames. Waryada xishood

black velvet wrote:AW tryna pimp SDM, SDM defending himself all the way to the wrong path, Surrender fueling the flames. Waryada xishood

FAH1223 wrote:

black velvet wrote:Some men seem to be of the opinion that marrying a younger girl will mean they can control her. Yes of course, if her brain is not developed enough for her to use her own judgement she would be more susceptible to influence. In this case you controlling her to suit your own selfish needs is child abuse because that is what she is, a child.

Ignoring the child abusers, how likely is it for a man to be able to "control" his wife? Especially today with most women being able to provide for themselves?

elder status = respect and more control of the situation over said younger status

you like math, its a simple equation

S-D-M wrote:

surrender wrote:

AbdiWahab252 wrote:Surrender,

What is wrong with SDM ? He is a wealthy Somali man who lives in a posh neighborhood, has a good job, owns a nice mansion and drives an Audi A-8.

i swear he mentioned before that he was a taxi driver, or [b]am i totally mistaken him with another snatter?[/b]

You are not mistaken. I'm indeed a Taxi driver, but what does it have to do with the topic? And why are you discriminating the hard working people like me (taxi drivers) who are responsible of making the world economic to move forward. We give ride to CEO, Bankers, Engineers, Doctors, etc. We are the movers. We should have our own monument in DC or London.

Ismahan123 wrote:I can only speak for myself, and I was told i'm generally an individual that is difficult to control.

HELWAA wrote:BV

A man cant even control his own body let alone a whole person.They think they have control laakin iyaga ayaa la maamula...masaakin.

zulaika wrote:

HELWAA wrote:BV

A man cant even control his own body let alone a whole person.They think they have control laakin iyaga ayaa la maamula...masaakin.

helwaa,

there can't be 2 leaders in the home..one person must follow. are u a follower?