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Re: PBS Frontline Documentary about Dancing boys of Afghanistan

Postby gurey25 » Wed Mar 10, 2010 6:52 am

Equally, I can also say that Saudis always had a tradition of homosexuality and that only the advent of mass communication is what brought it out in the open nowadays. I can also argue that the definition of a homosexual in the East greatly differs to that in the West. In other words, Saudis (and others) do not regard the dominant partner in a homosexual relationship as being gay, only the submissive one is. However, I will happily understand if you reject my argument as being anecdotal and full of supposition.
do you have any evidence for the saudis always having a homosexual culture?
the afghani case is obvious and well known, can you provide some info on the saudi one?

Mass communication doesnt spread homosexuality, (i.e Sattelite TV, internet Porn) it erodes the morality of the youth and increases the probability of them participating in the
sexual deviance that is happening around them..
in a free mixing society thier will be more zina and it will be visible and homosexuality will be a practice for a minority of the population that is so inclined.
in a strictly segregated society with long years of bachelorhood for the males this leads to the only available option.

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Re: PBS Frontline Documentary about Dancing boys of Afghanistan

Postby Paddington Bear » Wed Mar 10, 2010 7:57 am

Equally, I can also say that Saudis always had a tradition of homosexuality and that only the advent of mass communication is what brought it out in the open nowadays. I can also argue that the definition of a homosexual in the East greatly differs to that in the West. In other words, Saudis (and others) do not regard the dominant partner in a homosexual relationship as being gay, only the submissive one is. However, I will happily understand if you reject my argument as being anecdotal and full of supposition.
do you have any evidence for the saudis always having a homosexual culture?
the afghani case is obvious and well known, can you provide some info on the saudi one?

Mass communication doesnt spread homosexuality, (i.e Sattelite TV, internet Porn) it erodes the morality of the youth and increases the probability of them participating in the
sexual deviance that is happening around them..
in a free mixing society thier will be more zina and it will be visible and homosexuality will be a practice for a minority of the population that is so inclined.
in a strictly segregated society with long years of bachelorhood for the males this leads to the only available option.
Nonsense. There is a bridge that takes them to Bahrain to indulge in all sorts of zina (if they so wish). Yemen is only round the corner and is full of rabid Saudis painting the town red. Bangkok, London and Amsterdam also receive their fair share of Saudi men who come looking for sex and all sorts of other pleasures. It is not like prison, they do have options and take full advantage of them, my friend.

Anyway, do you really think Bedouin women mix freely with men? Can she talk to her first cousin freely for example? Does she not have to cover up when she sees an approaching male? :mrgreen:


As for the evidence of the Saudis always having a homosexual culture, it was implied my friend. It is very hard to conduct a discussion when you can't follow a straight line. You attempted to distinguish between the homosexual cultures in Afghanistan and Saudi. In one, you chose as evidence the story of the young boys in the original article, in the other you chose to refer to a newly imposed segregation. I asked you if this segregation has always been there but you chose to waffle about the difference between a Beduin woman and the urban one. You see, the Bedouin Saudi female might be freer than her urban sister but the difference is so minimal that it becomes irrelevant in our discussion here. Segregation exists on both sides and men (urban or Bedouin) cannot mix freely with women. This (if you’ve been following so far) will bring us back to the significance of segregation here and if it is a major cause in the prevalence of homosexuality. So, I repeat, is it? If you say yes, I will say again that segregation was always there (regardless of the pedantic comparison between urban and rural segregation). It stands to reason then that homosexuality was also always there. Or else, segregation has nothing to do with this 'situational' homosexuality. Wouldn't you agree?

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Re: PBS Frontline Documentary about Dancing boys of Afghanistan

Postby gurey25 » Wed Mar 10, 2010 8:30 am

Anyway, do you really think Bedouin women mix freely with men? Can she talk to her first cousin freely for example? Does she not have to cover up when she sees an approaching male?
there is a differance and it might seem minimal but it is still important.

I think i understand the point of divergance between us.
You do not seem to think that there is anything unusual about saudi society, you believe it is perfectly normal.
I live in the gulf, i have spent long peroids in all the gulf states except for Kuwait(which i have only visited briefly for a few days).
The unusual behaviour of the saudis is evident to their nieghbours as well.

You also suspect that you believe that i advocate western style free mixing and that i am against the shareeca.

I have nothing against the rules of behaviour that was set by the shareeca and the sunna.

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Re: PBS Frontline Documentary about Dancing boys of Afghanistan

Postby gurey25 » Wed Mar 10, 2010 8:45 am

previously you stated that there has always been a homosexual culture in Saudia, which i disagree with.
you have still failed to explain your self.

you also seem skeptical about the afghani case, and you have doubts about the accuracy of the PBS documentary.
can you also clarify what makes you skeptical ?

I do not use this PBS documentary as a source, this phenomena is so well known in these parts that one doesnt really think twice about it.
Its like everybody who is into football knowing that England won the 66 world cup. Now someone an american for example may not have any idea about the world cup or the signifigance of 1966 so in this case i will have to explain football from the begining and the start of the world cup in 1930.

If you have any dounts about the afghani phenomena, there is a wealth of material and this will fill up several pages of another thread entirley.

If you were simply being skeptical for the sake of argument then we can move on to the main point of our disagreement.

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Re: PBS Frontline Documentary about Dancing boys of Afghanistan

Postby bareento » Wed Mar 10, 2010 8:56 am

Very interesting debate :up:

As some of u r familiar with the Arab countries, I have a question.

Is it true that the condition of women , in wat was previously known as blessed Arabia, is very much diferent (better?) from the bedouins?
I heard in those farmer societys in yemen women work in the fields and r not veiled....
U guys have any information on that?

As for segregation as means to enhance the "morality" of society the situation of Saudi Arabia is clear indication of its failure.
From wat I read its probably one of sexually most deviant society in the world :down:

Every society that tried to interfer in Gods work end up creating deviance:
indians killing baby/embryo girls===> male/female imbalance with all its consequences specially in rural area
Saudi segregation =====> homo crazed society; sexually deviant, fat ugly arabs raping third world boys :down:


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Re: PBS Frontline Documentary about Dancing boys of Afghanistan

Postby Paddington Bear » Wed Mar 10, 2010 8:57 am

Anyway, do you really think Bedouin women mix freely with men? Can she talk to her first cousin freely for example? Does she not have to cover up when she sees an approaching male?
there is a differance and it might seem minimal but it is still important.

I think i understand the point of divergance between us.
You do not seem to think that there is anything unusual about saudi society, you believe it is perfectly normal.
I live in the gulf, i have spent long peroids in all the gulf states except for Kuwait(which i have only visited briefly for a few days).
The unusual behaviour of the saudis is evident to their nieghbours as well.

You also suspect that you believe that i advocate western style free mixing and that i am against the shareeca.

I have nothing against the rules of behaviour that was set by the shareeca and the sunna.
I am not making any assumptions about you, my friend. I was merely pointing out the gaping holes in your argument. I also don't believe that Saudi society is perfectly normal, I mean what is normal about having the dreaded hay'a chasing you around every time they suspect you winked at a woman? Saudi society is far from normal but, fortunately, there have been murmurs of discontent lately and many are fed up with the status quo. Change is coming.

Having said that, I strongly doubt that the Saudis are that much different to their gulf cousins when it comes to the rate of homosexuality. Kuwaitis have it much worse. Bahrain is not that far behind. Qatar (and hyper can protest all he likes if he’s reading this) suffers from the same problem. But the two that really take the biscuit are the UAE and Oman. You must have read the reports a couple of years ago when the Dubai police arrested a group of gay men who organised a wedding in a seaside hotel. In fact, even if we talk about child abuse (which is really what the thread is about), one cannot omit the recent case in Dubai where a man raped and killed a four-year-old child in a mosque (on Eid day no less). And finally, I leave you with the immortal words of the famous gay song that says:

دقني وشبعني دق يا ناس بالخيزارنه, سيروا اسألوا الجيران عني شو مسوي انا..دق دق دق دقني دقني دقني

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Re: PBS Frontline Documentary about Dancing boys of Afghanistan

Postby gurey25 » Wed Mar 10, 2010 9:04 am

lively debate, but i wish we were debating something more interesting than little boys getting ploughed :mrgreen:
something like suntzu, or economics.

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Re: PBS Frontline Documentary about Dancing boys of Afghanistan

Postby Paddington Bear » Wed Mar 10, 2010 9:13 am

previously you stated that there has always been a homosexual culture in Saudia, which i disagree with.
you have still failed to explain your self.

you also seem skeptical about the afghani case, and you have doubts about the accuracy of the PBS documentary.
can you also clarify what makes you skeptical ?

I do not use this PBS documentary as a source, this phenomena is so well known in these parts that one doesnt really think twice about it.
Its like everybody who is into football knowing that England won the 66 world cup. Now someone an american for example may not have any idea about the world cup or the signifigance of 1966 so in this case i will have to explain football from the begining and the start of the world cup in 1930.

If you have any dounts about the afghani phenomena, there is a wealth of material and this will fill up several pages of another thread entirley.

If you were simply being skeptical for the sake of argument then we can move on to the main point of our disagreement.
I have no doubts about the PBS documentary. In fact, you and I are on the same side here. I only had a problem with your comparison of Saudi and Afghani societies. I believe the argument that it is situational rather than traditional homosexuality needs further thought.

(I gave the M'alayah lyrics as an example of something cultural/traditional in the gulf).

P.S.
I agree with your last post. :mrgreen:

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Re: PBS Frontline Documentary about Dancing boys of Afghanistan

Postby Basra- » Wed Mar 10, 2010 10:35 am

Why bashing our fellow brothers the arabs like this?? Shame! Shame! Shame! Lets not forget arabs are a blessed race. Our prophert SAW came from the arabs ! :x

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Re: PBS Frontline Documentary about Dancing boys of Afghanistan

Postby *Nobleman* » Wed Mar 10, 2010 7:01 pm

Nobleman

Here is the source http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/1874471.stm. I wouldnt make up such a sad story. Its not about homosexuality but it is illustrative of what can come out of extreme policies ie abnormal behavior.

Fair play for providing a source.

But you have to understand one single isolted story such as this one is no way indicative of anything, i've personally heard more bizarre stories coming out of the UK. Also if this was so widespread or at least common enough to be considered a problem, then surley more stories like this would of come out.

Also exterme policies or not i still dont see the link with homosexuality in the middle east.

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Re: PBS Frontline Documentary about Dancing boys of Afghanistan

Postby Hoowle » Wed Mar 10, 2010 7:11 pm

Homosexuality is universal. No society is without homosexuals which demonstrates, to all intelligent people, that homosexuality is not a learned behavior but instinctive (genetic). If this is the case, then whose fault is it? The "creator" of the homosexuals who endows them with the genetic information that predetermines their behavior or the homosexuals who passively and helplessly at the mercy of predetermined behavioral choices?


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