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Re: a peculiar cultural tradition

Postby St8OuttaDirree » Sun Mar 28, 2010 2:46 am

My aunt asked me recently to join this common Somali cultural activity. In entails pooling money, and every month (or whatever interval of time) giving that money to one of the members who contributes money.

My mother is also a member of this system and asked me to join.

I thought about it for a second and realized that you'd be better off just keeping your own damn money in the bank.

Why do Somalis do this? I asked my mother and aunt and they both said that they just can't control themselves and keep money in the bank, so it's a way to force themselves to safe, I guess.
Lol Oromo ladies do this too but not by a lot of them anymore. A lot of them tend to steal your money, or sometimes hold jewelry for you and steal that too.
My mom doesn't get along with the rest of the Oromos, so her and a few Oromos and their somali friends started it together but that was some mistake they made. One lady stole so much jewelry and money from them and now is in jail.

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Re: a peculiar cultural tradition

Postby LionHeart-112 » Sun Mar 28, 2010 3:06 am

Now wait. There's a reason why i never participated..I have been wrong about the pay-out part. I didn't realize every1 gets paid monthly..lol..never mind.

Somehow i knew the pay out was monthly but completely forgot. You are right, it's $1000 per month but my calculation is right if the payout was once every 5 months. It's 4:15 am..lol..i;m going to bed.

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Re: a peculiar cultural tradition

Postby Advo » Sun Mar 28, 2010 3:33 am

hagbad is for older women and its a system that works great for them :up:

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Re: a peculiar cultural tradition

Postby LionHeart-112 » Sun Mar 28, 2010 3:35 am

Advo...It's called hagbad? Is that like Ethio somali? lol..Never heard of it. Then again i'm a city kid..I know Ayuuto comes from the Italian word meaning help..never really understood why they called it that..

The system would work great if too many ppl aren't involved the amount each contributes is large!

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Re: a peculiar cultural tradition

Postby Advo » Sun Mar 28, 2010 3:40 am

Yh thats the term I am familiar with, maybe its a word with waqooyi origin since u informed us about "ayuuto" italian origin which means it's a southern word. However like u I could never trust myself with such enormous responsibility.

The curse of a somali habar is the most dangerous shid in the world next to aids lol

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Re: a peculiar cultural tradition

Postby LionHeart-112 » Sun Mar 28, 2010 3:44 am

To be honest with you, i have no clue why it's called Ayuuto but i know in Italian it means "help." I don't know if it's the same word but i do know there's a lot of Italian words in southern dialect, specially in Muqdishu.

The words somali people use to "habaar" or "inkaar" is really something to be scared of. I heard the other day someguy say to another "caloosha kusoo dhac oo cuntada heyn kari waa" or something to that effect. It was hair raising, to say the least. It was all over not returning a phone call! :P

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Re: a peculiar cultural tradition

Postby Advo » Sun Mar 28, 2010 3:50 am

:lol: :lol: :lol:


luckily my parents are really grounded folks but my boys mother is a sailor man, she can habaar with creativity, shid that would make ur soul burn, sometimes she would habaar herself unintentionally cussing out who ever gave birth to him.

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Re: a peculiar cultural tradition

Postby LionHeart-112 » Sun Mar 28, 2010 3:56 am

:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

I know what you mean! I have heard my mother do that too..Cursing herself unintentionally...I used to be like "should i reminder her that's she parent she's cursing?!" lol..

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Re: a peculiar cultural tradition

Postby Advo » Sun Mar 28, 2010 4:03 am

Reminds me of this one time

This one madow lady was screaming at her son "come back u sonama b!tch"

he answered back 'Im only the son"


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Re: a peculiar cultural tradition

Postby LionHeart-112 » Sun Mar 28, 2010 4:07 am

Yeah...i have actually seen young somali mothers saying to their disruptive kids "Habartii wasayahoow, naga fadhiiso meel" lol

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Re: a peculiar cultural tradition

Postby gedo_gurl » Sun Mar 28, 2010 6:09 am

Yeah...i have actually seen young somali mothers saying to their disruptive kids "Habartii wasayahoow, naga fadhiiso meel" lol
WTF? To her own kids looool :lol: :lol:

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Re: a peculiar cultural tradition

Postby *Nobleman* » Sun Mar 28, 2010 6:21 am

hagbad.

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Re: a peculiar cultural tradition

Postby HELWAA » Sun Mar 28, 2010 8:39 am

Aduunka hagbad ban ugu necebhay...i joined a group many yrs ago and every month some pple were fighting over it and did't want to wait for their turn.....no thanks, no more hagbad for me.It's better to keep ur mony in the bank. :up:

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Re: a peculiar cultural tradition

Postby Hyperactive » Sun Mar 28, 2010 9:01 am

lol they call it jam'eyah.

only hear from older people.

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Re: a peculiar cultural tradition

Postby Leila25 » Sun Mar 28, 2010 9:09 am

Ayuuto is a good system and its not only old people that take part, you get the money upfront without interest, you also commit to saving every month. Many people are buying houses through ayuuto.


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