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Your friend is in her own little bubble and it seems she's already decided the guy she's known for a few months is The one. She sees it as "fact" that they are perfect for each other and she wants you to join in on building her ice cream castles and decide how to get herself married to the guy. As a friend do you think it's your responsibility to tell her that the guy still doesn't even know her last name and likes your other friend? Or you just don't see them together?


If you know it is going to crush the person would you still do it?
Is it saving someone from future hurt or just getting involved in something that is none of your business? Let her day dream...

only if she asks your opinion you must be honest no matter what.

hadan wah ba lagu weydenin, afka ga iska heyso and mind your own business.

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Your story doesnt make any sense. At one point u r saying--your friend is about to make a mistake, in getting involved with a bad match. And then you say, the supposed 'bad match' likes another one. Well, arent u answering your own question? If she likes him and he likes another-- problem solved. They wont marry. Why are you so afraid to loose your friend? Are you jealous? Are you attracted to the supposed 'bad match'? Do you have a lesbianic crush on your friend? I need more details.

I agree with what Hyperactive said...only say what you think if she asks.

Or you just don't see them together? - I wouldn't say this lol unless it's cos you think she is too good for him.

Hyper/Ms.E that is a good point. Honesty comes above all else lakin dadka qaarkood they don't get the hint you have to be very blunt markaas they act like wax in aad kaxadey.

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Your story doesnt make any sense. At one point u r saying--your friend is about to make a mistake, in getting involved with a bad match. And then you say, the supposed 'bad match' likes another one. Well, arent u answering your own question? If she likes him and he likes another-- problem solved. They wont marry. Why are you so afraid to loose your friend? Are you jealous? Are you attracted to the supposed 'bad match'? Do you have a lesbianic crush on your friend? I need more details.

Should I let her day dream to the point that she's trying to get the guy's contacts or smack her out of it? Given that I think they're a bad match and the guy is hang up on someone else?

An cadaan/gaal friend I would know exactly what to do because it's never serious lakin Muslim girls are different and new to me

Tell her, it would not crush her, just her daydreams. It not like they are going out.

Is the guy somali or ajnabi before I comment, if the latter....they're both losers.

Your friend is in her own little bubble and it seems she's already decided the guy she's known for a few months is The one. She sees it as "fact" that they are perfect for each other and she wants you to join in on building her ice cream castles and decide how to get herself married to the guy. As a friend do you think it's your responsibility to tell her that the guy still doesn't even know her last name and likes your other friend? Or you just don't see them together?


If you know it is going to crush the person would you still do it?
Is it saving someone from future hurt or just getting involved in something that is none of your business? Let her day dream...

YEAAH

if she was like my best friend ..

I would tell her ; nayaaa ... the man U wanna marry ... likes that other girl


and If i know most girls ... she wouldnt care .. and say I was lying . lol .. then marry the dude . No matter what anybody says

Laakiin heeey I did my part of the job the choice its NOT mine at the end of the day

Leila, qoraxeey

Advo what does that have to do with anything? They are ajnabi lakin losers ma'aha

Im afraid it's the begining of the end of your friend, if you truly cared about her as it shows here

You wouldve made every attempt to discourage her from this obvious tragedy waiting to happen.

Maxaa Ii baray last nameka naaag aan dategarenayo? as long as I know her qabiil I`m good.

And no it`s not your place to say something, let her find it out the hard way marku "Ina Jamaceeeeey" qeyliyo during love making and her dads name is Yusuf

Maxaa Ii baray last nameka naaag aan dategarenayo? as long as I know her qabiil I`m good.

And no it`s not your place to say something, let her find it out the hard way marku "Ina Jamaceeeeey" qeyliyo during love making and her dads name is Yusuf

the morning after that marriage is OVER . lool

Stop butting in people's business, yareey. You know what happened the last time you did.

On a more serious note, like Advo already said, as her friend, it becomes your responsibility to intervene. You'd want someone to stop you if you were about to make a catastrophic mistake, wouldn't you? I usually try to put myself in the person's shoes before I give them any advice, so maybe you should do the same and see what your concience tells you? In addition, you've got to be ready for any consequence that might arise as a result of whatever decision you take.

Best regards to your friend!

Maxaa Ii baray last nameka naaag aan dategarenayo? as long as I know her qabiil I`m good.

And no it`s not your place to say something, let her find it out the hard way marku "Ina Jamaceeeeey" qeyliyo during love making and her dads name is Yusuf

the morning after that marriage is OVER . lool

He be like " naa haade Jamac waxa la yiraahda awoowga 5ad ee maxa dhacay waan kugu sharfayey ee"