21st Century Courtship

[BlackVelvet]

Inspired by Caddoow's post.

Ladies and Gents, who do you believe is required to take initiative in attempting to create a romantic relationship between a man and a woman? Most women I know expect the man to be the one to make the first call. Has that changed...how does that affect the dynamics in the relationship?

Gents would you want a woman to pursue you and how would you see a woman who did? Ladies would you flat out pursue a man? Note the difference between hinting/encouraging and pursuing. Generally women make the first move if they're interested, be it a glance or a smile.

Vote/discuss

[Koronto60]

I voted No.

Time's might have changed, but we're still pretty much primitive beings.

If a man wants you, he'll come for you, if he doesn't come it means the obvious.

[gedo_gurl]

21st century courtship in Snet

"Marry us or die"
"Marry me if you like rape"

I would say that if the man is too much of a bussiie that yeah, the woman should go for it...if she likes that sort of thing (naago).

[GENERAL_SNM]

The man has to do the chasing. Be the hunter. If a women plays this role its obvious, she's a lesbian.

[gedo_gurl]

^^ Dont echo me without acknowledging my genius...thats intellectual property rights violation Ill have you know

[GENERAL_SNM]

They say great minds think alike.

[Cirwaaq]

For those that believe there will always be plenthy of buses to follow the one they missed... They need to be told some bus stops are Request Only and the Bus will never stop till you stick your handout.

[eyes-only]

Someone I know thinks its cheap and tacky but I think there's nothing wrong with giving a hint

Btw BV, are you going to keep your pm disabled?

[Ganjaweed]

Don't upset the natural order of things. The man does the chasing .

[BlackVelvet]

For those that believe there will always be plenthy of buses to follow the one they missed... They need to be told some bus stops are Request Only and the Bus will never stop till you stick your handout.

Any hand?



I just missed this old woman

[BlackVelvet]

21st century courtship in Snet

"Marry us or die"
"Marry me if you like rape"
I would say that if the man is too much of a bussiie that yeah, the woman should go for it...if she likes that sort of thing (naago).

[gedo_gurl]

BV...meeshaanu waa xeero dugaag (if there is such a thing lol) Im scared for my life just posting here...what if they start kidnapping 'wives' like in Kyrgyzstan

[BlackVelvet]

GG they do that in Kenya!

According to my teacher you had to make sufficient noise so as it was clear that you were an unwilling kidnapee (if such a word exists)

[gedo_gurl]

Whaaaaaat!? Which group kidnap women? ba'ayeey! I hope they keep it in the family

[grandpakhalif]

Courtship? Before or after marriage? What ever happened to the chivalrous men like me?