21st Century Courtship

[Advo]

Good to hear that Advo....you worried me for a while there...

honest to god, the idea does pop in my head but I know that one is wrong, so I can usually bypass it.

[SultanOrder]

Federation ( I can tell your shortass likes food)

I will as long as I don't procrastinate too much, firefly made me promise to do that last one. This next one will be for you hunno you'll like it

[Mr. Yungnfresh]

It's funny, most women want the same benefits as men but none of the responsibilities.

[gedo_gurl]

Federation ( I can tell your shortass likes food)

I will as long as I don't procrastinate too much, firefly made me promise to do that last one. This next one will be for you hunno you'll like it

Anytime in the next week or so, would love to read it as soon as its written aboowe

Mr Yungfresh....its actually the guys here that said its OK for a woman to approach a man...what brand of woman hatred made you make that heavy handed comment?

[Mr. Yungnfresh]

lol @ what brand of woman hatred made you make that heavy handed comment.

I mean it's an unassailable truth that women are overzealous in their quest for equality with men...but when it comes to who should make the first move, who should hold the door open for the other, who's expected to foot the bill for a night out on the town...suddenly, women aren't as outspoken in fighting for their "right" to do the above. I didn't read any of the replies in the thread and so I wasn't referring to any of the replies in the thread, I was just making a general observation.

What brand of feminism made you hypersensitive to any criticism of women

[ms.naliaa]

My personall opinion on this is that it doesnt matter who makes the first move.

As long as the woman is not blatently throwin herslef at him or the man is being a macho douchbag.


All's fair in love and war

[Addoow]

Why a woman can not actively pursue a guy she likes most? The fear of being rejected is so overwhelming that she has to ignore him miyaa? It seems they can not handle rejection the way we do.

[BlackVelvet]

Adigu you seem like a weird kind of a person. Labada extreme lee miyaa, ignore ama kadaba carar. And no women don't handle rejection as well as you do because you've obviously had much more experience in that department.

[eyes-only]

Adigu you seem like a weird kind of a person. Labada extreme lee miyaa, ignore ama kadaba carar. And no women don't handle rejection as well as you do because you've obviously had much more experience in that department.

[Addoow]

Adigu you seem like a weird kind of a person. Labada extreme lee miyaa, ignore ama kadaba carar. And no women don't handle rejection as well as you do because you've obviously had much more experience in that department.

How did you come to this conclusion? Lol,Rejection wasn`t and obviously not something i really worry about.

[zulaika]

Inspired by Caddoow's post.

Ladies and Gents, who do you believe is required to take initiative in attempting to create a romantic relationship between a man and a woman? Most women I know expect the man to be the one to make the first call. Has that changed...how does that affect the dynamics in the relationship?

Gents would you want a woman to pursue you and how would you see a woman who did? Ladies would you flat out pursue a man? Note the difference between hinting/encouraging and pursuing. Generally women make the first move if they're interested, be it a glance or a smile.

Vote/discuss

its simple, if you want something....get it...or just shut it...there's nothing wrong with going after what you want.

[Beenaale_No1]

I've had women approach me several times over the last few years. Somali women and cadaan women.

I saw nothing wrong with that at all.