1 question Rer Somalinet about contact between 2 people

[CoolPoisons]

lets say U and this girl message/talk to each other back and forth laakin Ur the 1 who's initating the contact ala yacni calling her all time and she never calls U. do U stop contacting her till she contacts U (to see if there's mutual interest) ama U continue chasing her??

[Somalian_Boqor]

lets say U and this girl message/talk to each other back and forth laakin Ur the 1 who's initating the contact ala yacni calling her all time and she never calls U. do U stop contacting her till she contacts U (to see if there's mutual interest) ama U continue chasing her??

I would suggest you stop contacting her for awhile, and see if she messages you or calls. If she doesn't within 72 hours the girl ain't interested and your obsessed ass needs to move on. And if she does call say a week later, man up and break it down for her.

[gedo_gurl]

I guess this a question for a 'friend'? I mean arent you only in your 20's and married? This site makes me suspicious of Somali men.

[CoolPoisons]

I guess this a question for a 'friend'? I mean arent you only in your 20's and married? This site makes me suspicious of Somali men.

gedogurl dont bring the beef we had in the private forums to here

arintan waan arin kale. Polygamy waa halal and this part of potential polygamy ma garatay

ama give me advice or get the fock outa my topic

waryaa Sbogor whats with the 72 rule.

[gedo_gurl]

LOL at beef...at heart of it all Coolpoisons, whether I like it or not walaalo baannu nahey, so you should accept a bit of meanness from me every now and again in the same way I dont take everything you say so seriously any more.

Polygamy? Yikes...I guess dont message her like a stalker and wait for her to respond.

[AhlulbaytSoldier]

stop stalking the girl man, if she doesnt message you or start msn conversation first then she aint interested in a boon

[CoolPoisons]

gedogurl taas aanu ku heshiino

im not stalking her. weve great chemistry. she called the first couple of times and then anaa la wareegay who calls her most of the time madaame aan rag ahay.

now the mindset of gabadha's weird as hell. if i dont call her, will she think that im not longer interested ama shall i just call her?

[afisoone]

Stalking is unhealthy, less confident. If you have more chemistry with that lady than it obvious she do not like you that is the fact Mr. Coolpoison. Opposite side attract each other that the rule of thumb.

[CoolPoisons]

War dadkan yaa wax u sheega

who the fock's talking about stalking. she gave me her number, we talk have great chemistry laakin the only problem that ive is that i call her first (like all men) do. its not like she ignores my calls.

suaasha waxay tahay shall i ignore her for 2 weeks and see if he she calls me?

[Somalian_Boqor]

I guess this a question for a 'friend'? I mean arent you only in your 20's and married? This site makes me suspicious of Somali men.

gedogurl dont bring the beef we had in the private forums to here

arintan waan arin kale. Polygamy waa halal and this part of potential polygamy ma garatay

ama give me advice or get the fock outa my topic

waryaa Sbogor whats with the 72 rule.

The 72 hour rule is universal inadeer, and is always applied when men find themselves in your kind of situation.

Tell me you at least waited 48 hours after she give you her number to call?

Anyways try out the 72 hour rule which is basically three days of not calling her, I assure you it never fails.

ps: We really need Men private section on Somalinet, doesn't feel right giving away man secrets, with all these females around.

[BlackVelvet]

CP if she likes you but doesnt call you its because some part of her brain has convinced her it's not proper for her to call you. Tell her its proper and she should call you sometimes. Do not resort to some childish rule wey kuugu xanaaqi dontaa

Ala your poor wife, does she know about your extra curricular activites?

The 72 hour rule is universal inadeer, and is always applied when men find themselves in your kind of situation.

Tell me you at least waited 48 hours after she give you her number to call?

Anyways try out the 72 hour rule which is basically three days of not calling her, I assure you it never fails.

ps: We really need Men private section on Somalinet, doesn't feel right giving away man secrets, with all these females around.

Dude we're not fools we already know all these tricks up your sleeves.

[AbdiWahab252]

Coolpoison,

Its not quite easy to know due to the limited information you gave us:


Possibility # 1: She is playing hard to get, and expects you to pursue her relentlessly. She could belong to the group of women who want to be pursued so as to come across as not being "easy". In this case, if you are up for it, chase.

Possibility # 2: She is not into you and sending you signals she is not interested. I would suggest you walk away unless you find her irresistible.


I would recommend you pursue a middle strategy. Don't be very aggressive but keep in touch from time to time. She can become your hobby that you pursue in your free time. There will be a moment when she is vunerable & that is when brother, you need to bust a move.

[Basra-]

voltage is inlove? Me thought u iz asexual!

[AbdiWahab252]

BlackVelvet,

Tricks are for kids.

As I got older, I became very selective in the hunt. Gone are the days of random selection. Now its all about doing cost-benefit-opportunity cost analysis and seeing if it fits into the AW Gurdoon Strategy. If she falls out the marriageable criterea, I don't pursue.

But sometimes, its the woman who does the pursuing, and who am I to reject her

[zulaika]

lets say U and this girl message/talk to each other back and forth laakin Ur the 1 who's initating the contact ala yacni calling her all time and she never calls U. do U stop contacting her till she contacts U (to see if there's mutual interest) ama U continue chasing her??

since you've initiated the contact and called her few times.....stop calling her over and over again if she's not calling back......let her do the call back or walk out of it all........ball is in her court