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How would you react if..

Postby HELWAA » Wed May 19, 2010 9:56 am

7yrs old boy told you take me to the graveyard ....isn't weird? or is't some kinda of sign
of Allah swt?

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Re: How would you react if..

Postby Firefly » Wed May 19, 2010 10:04 am

Salaam Helwaa,

Did anyone he knows pass away recently? It could be that. Or he could just be curious, because children are curious at that age about most things. I wouldn't get worried straight away, try to find out more information first.

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Re: How would you react if..

Postby BlackVelvet » Wed May 19, 2010 10:08 am

You thinking that that's a sign in more creepy than a 7 yr old, who probably watches too much TV, asking to visit a graveyard I think :?

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Re: How would you react if..

Postby HELWAA » Wed May 19, 2010 10:26 am

Firefly

I think they were talking about death at school and you know gaalos and their khuraaft about becoming an angle after death and all that bullshit...And my friend was so pissed...how can you explain death to a little boy and you know kids and their million su'aalo...in the end he said he want see the graveyard where they burry pple....soomalida ma jecla ina dhimashada laga hadlo...esp if kids talk about it it's known as bad omen...somthing bad will happen.

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He is allowed to watch tv only one hour a day.

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Re: How would you react if..

Postby Paddington Bear » Wed May 19, 2010 11:34 am

How would I react? Probably in a girly "OMG! Who died?" exclamation. :mrgreen:
(you and your crazy questions).

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Re: How would you react if..

Postby BlackVelvet » Wed May 19, 2010 12:03 pm

Helwa when my little nephew became obsessed with cleaning the house maxaa ladhahay his pregnant mother would give birth to gabar because "wixii ilma saqiir sadsadaan run ey kusoo baxaan" a few months later she gave birth to a boy :lol: Marka aniga un I would say he heard from somewhere tv or otherwise about death and graves and waa iska curious. Tell him you'll take him on his 15th birthday and if you have qabuuryo all over your neighbourhood like us gacanta kaqabo ee hada iska gey he's only going to see tombstones anyway :up: :lol:

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Re: How would you react if..

Postby Dhaga Bacayl » Wed May 19, 2010 12:40 pm

Firefly

I think they were talking about death at school and you know gaalos and their khuraaft about becoming an angle after death and all that bullshit...And my friend was so pissed...how can you explain death to a little boy and you know kids and their million su'aalo...in the end he said he want see the graveyard where they burry pple....soomalida ma jecla ina dhimashada laga hadlo...esp if kids talk about it it's known as bad omen...somthing bad will happen.

Waxa ciyaalka sahadiyan run bu noqda.

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He is allowed to watch tv only one hour a day.

I was about 6 when I first found out about death and burials after witnessing my aunt's funeral (AUN). I was crying the whole week thinking I was gonna go six feet under next.

The kid doesn't need to see none of that. In that age, he should only focus on life not death.

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Re: How would you react if..

Postby SultanOrder » Wed May 19, 2010 12:46 pm

Muslims shouldn't believe in omens whether they be good or bad :x

I don't think I would take him, I'd be like shut up and forget about it, but kids are really spiritual I heard and this may serve as a reminder for him in the future, allahu 'alam
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Re: How would you react if..

Postby military-mind » Wed May 19, 2010 12:46 pm

7yrs old boy told you take me to the graveyard ....isn't weird? or is't some kinda of sign
of Allah swt?
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Re: How would you react if..

Postby HELWAA » Wed May 19, 2010 2:56 pm

Helwa when my little nephew became obsessed with cleaning the house maxaa ladhahay his pregnant mother would give birth to gabar because "wixii ilma saqiir sadsadaan run ey kusoo baxaan" a few months later she gave birth to a boy :lol: Marka aniga un I would say he heard from somewhere tv or otherwise about death and graves and waa iska curious. Tell him you'll take him on his 15th birthday and if you have qabuuryo all over your neighbourhood like us gacanta kaqabo ee hada iska gey he's only going to see tombstones anyway :up: :lol:

:lol: :lol: ..somalida waa wareer meran. :down:


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You're probably right...nightmares un bu ka qaadi.. :?

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Re: How would you react if..

Postby Amethyst » Wed May 19, 2010 3:01 pm

HELWA: How about explaining what happens AFTER death to the child, and that burial place doesn't have as much of significance as the gaalo's make it out. That we dont go an "visit" during birthdays, etc. A description would suffice.....rather than TAKING the child there. Too many "crosses" on the graves anyway. Yuck.

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Re: How would you react if..

Postby Basra- » Wed May 19, 2010 3:11 pm

waa wiil fariid. Maybe he wants to be a grave digger when he grows up. Hashaaah! :clap:

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Re: How would you react if..

Postby Paddington Bear » Thu May 20, 2010 4:30 am

HELWA: How about explaining what happens AFTER death to the child, and that burial place doesn't have as much of significance as the gaalo's make it out. That we dont go an "visit" during birthdays, etc. A description would suffice.....rather than TAKING the child there. Too many "crosses" on the graves anyway. Yuck.
It is a Somali child, dear. His peers back home probably dig the graves themselves. Helwaa is overreacting here. Yarka runta u sheega. :mrgreen:

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Re: How would you react if..

Postby HELWAA » Thu May 20, 2010 5:26 am

HELWA: How about explaining what happens AFTER death to the child, and that burial place doesn't have as much of significance as the gaalo's make it out. That we dont go an "visit" during birthdays, etc. A description would suffice.....rather than TAKING the child there. Too many "crosses" on the graves anyway. Yuck.

I dont think he is ready for that talk yet.


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