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long distance marriage...

Postby zulaika » Fri Jun 04, 2010 1:18 pm

nin haduu naag guursado, so kuma aha waajib in uu xaaskiisa nolasha hal meel kula qeybsado. bal kawaran rag caado ka dhigtey in xaaska dejiyeyan magaalo wadankale and comes to see their wife every couple of years , kolkey dhaleyso iyo kolkey uur qaadeyso,

cajiib walahi.

i seen one such woman in this situation, she said, he told her i got a better job in another country but it would cost effective if she lived here and he send her money, even though he can afford to move her closer to him.....hmmm

before you know it....few years in this arrangement, he will marry someone else, claiming xaraan baan iska ilaalinaa..

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Re: long distance marriage...

Postby Gatspy » Fri Jun 04, 2010 2:39 pm

This isn't too strange Zuli. It just means we as Somali dudes are learning, we're doing our researches mostly here at snet. After reading the recently documented events by Surrender titled 'Never Marry someone you don't know' that indicate his wife might leave him as soon as he moves her to wherever it is that he working! He takes the proper steps to make sure he doesn't end up killing. At the same time he probably as read that Navy thread titled 'Funny or Smart' where it came clear to him that women wanted to be in charge. So he refused to be "chairman of the entertainment committee" for her and went as far as he can.

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Re: long distance marriage...

Postby SultanOrder » Fri Jun 04, 2010 2:40 pm

Some people will not give you your right unless you demand them.

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Re: long distance marriage...

Postby Niya » Fri Jun 04, 2010 2:43 pm

Lol@@@@@Gatspy! Thanks for a good laugh!

Zulaika,

It seems such family arrangements is becoming a trend! Family man with a bachelor life-style is what guys want I guess.

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Re: long distance marriage...

Postby AbdiWahab252 » Fri Jun 04, 2010 2:45 pm

Niya,

Habaryar, humans are scandalous creatures. How can she break it to a Farax that she is getting married in 3 weeks unless Farax is willing to go to bat with her ?

Fortunately, Farax doesn't live near her and boarded the plane without getting into any drama.

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Re: long distance marriage...

Postby Addoow » Fri Jun 04, 2010 2:53 pm

well,if he cant take care of his girl some one else will do the job for him.simple as that.

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Re: long distance marriage...

Postby Executive » Fri Jun 04, 2010 2:58 pm

Horta why do we somalis debate these things?

Its up to the couple what they deiced and how they live. If an individual is in such situation, its his/her problem right? Ayaaka ayaa raali ka aah.

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Re: long distance marriage...

Postby zulaika » Fri Jun 04, 2010 3:08 pm

Niya wrote:Lol@@@@@Gatspy! Thanks for a good laugh!

Zulaika,

It seems such family arrangements is becoming a trend! Family man with a bachelor life-style is what guys want I guess.


bal maragtey? family man oo aqal kaligii soo xidhey.....they don't wanna deal with buuqii caruurta iyo daryeelkoodi ma'istidhi.

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Re: long distance marriage...

Postby zulaika » Fri Jun 04, 2010 3:14 pm

Gatspy wrote:This isn't too strange Zuli. It just means we as Somali dudes are learning, we're doing our researches mostly here at snet. After reading the recently documented events by Surrender titled 'Never Marry someone you don't know' that indicate his wife might leave him as soon as he moves her to wherever it is that he working! He takes the proper steps to make sure he doesn't end up killing. At the same time he probably as read that Navy thread titled 'Funny or Smart' where it came clear to him that women wanted to be in charge. So he refused to be "chairman of the entertainment committee" for her and went as far as he can.


:lol: :lol:

u need more research huuno.

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Re: long distance marriage...

Postby shaamboo » Fri Jun 04, 2010 3:21 pm

zulaika wrote:nin haduu naag guursado, so kuma aha waajib in uu xaaskiisa nolasha hal meel kula qeybsado. bal kawaran rag caado ka dhigtey in xaaska dejiyeyan magaalo wadankale and comes to see their wife every couple of years , kolkey dhaleyso iyo kolkey uur qaadeyso,

cajiib walahi.

i seen one such woman in this situation, she said, he told her i got a better job in another country but it would cost effective if she lived here and he send her money, even though he can afford to move her closer to him.....hmmm

before you know it....few years in this arrangement, he will marry someone else, claiming xaraan baan iska ilaalinaa..



Zuli whath u talking about it that is what most malis use to do, besides today we have more technology webcams phones etc.

teach her to strip and how to have phone xxx ( if she doesnt know it by now) and get ur lotion on problem solved!!!

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Re: long distance marriage...

Postby HELWAA » Fri Jun 04, 2010 3:33 pm

Waxaas guur maaha waa lugooyo.What kinda life is that.. :down:

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Re: long distance marriage...

Postby zulaika » Fri Jun 04, 2010 3:35 pm

shamboo

oo intii hadhey oo u soo dhoofi jidheyna hadii webcam iyo phone lagu siiyo.... he will never come back to live with her....this encourages his family-man-bachelor lifestyle..

iguma ogid in aan maskiintaas kula taliyo waxaas.. abadan :down:

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Re: long distance marriage...

Postby Murax » Fri Jun 04, 2010 4:16 pm

I'm more suprised at how the guy or the girl can go that long without getting any action

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Re: long distance marriage...

Postby xoogSADE14 » Fri Jun 04, 2010 5:49 pm

Executive wrote:Horta why do we somalis debate these things?

Its up to the couple what they deiced and how they live. If an individual is in such situation, its his/her problem right? Ayaaka ayaa raali ka aah.



Soomaali iyo xan miyaa kala dhamaada.

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Re: long distance marriage...

Postby shaamboo » Fri Jun 04, 2010 5:56 pm

zulaika wrote:shamboo

oo intii hadhey oo u soo dhoofi jidheyna hadii webcam iyo phone lagu siiyo.... he will never come back to live with her....this encourages his family-man-bachelor lifestyle..

iguma ogid in aan maskiintaas kula taliyo waxaas.. abadan :down:



loooooooooooooooool at that is why i like your humor girl , after a day of $225 ticket i needed that laugh thanks walaal :up:


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