Somali's and Drama Even during Ramadan?

[King-of-Awdal]

The Father of an African American Muslim approaches this Somali dude asking for his daughter's hand in Marriage , somehow the Son has been secretly talking to the Girl and now decided to send his father to ask for the marriage in Hand. Ill give big Prop's to who ever Guess'es what the Somali Father did right in the Masjid tonight. Tonight i have officially given Hope on Us.

[Twisted_Logic]

Let me guess. He stuck to his roots and said hell no,

[King-of-Awdal]

Let me guess. He stuck to his roots and said hell no,

Nope i would have been ok if he just did that.

[Advo]

He has the right refuse his daughter to anyone even if it's out of ignorance and jahalia.

However, his daughter will still see her lover, regardless of his decision.

[King-of-Awdal]

He has the right refuse his daughter to anyone even if it's out of ignorance and jahalia.

However, his daughter will still see her lover, regardless of his decision.

I dont know what happened but if it was me, i think its actually an insult to even bring up this Convo in the Masjid but than maybe they were not comfortable to going to this families house. I actually got it through the Grapevine tonight that the Girl is suppose to be marrying her cousin from Ohio in Feb.

[Twisted_Logic]

Let me guess. He stuck to his roots and said hell no,

Nope i would have been ok if he just did that.

Warya, I don't like being held in suspense. Break it down for us, nooh ya akhii

[King-of-Awdal]

Let me guess. He stuck to his roots and said hell no,

Nope i would have been ok if he just did that.

Warya, I don't like being held in suspense. Break it down for us, nooh ya akhii

Walaahi was fasting all day and am not Lieing but this exactly what he did " Excessuuse me pause Ward muxu sheegaye kani and than i asked him and he doesnt speak english so what's wrong, than the black dude say's ohh salam akhii tell him my name is Bilal and i would like to ask him for the marriage of my son here shakir for his daughter, even i was shocked and as i look at the somali man and uttered the word he is asking the hand of your daughter, he looked at me and said waryaa hee oo kaliya maa aniga imaad moodaye qof handicap ahh and i said no walaahi that's what he said, than he look's at the man and say's Nikkah Daughter, sinjiyada wase and slapp's the man. Walaahi am not lieing this is just insane. We Zoomali have no hope.

[Keyse_0208]

Nikkah Daughter, sinjiyada wase

now thats a real rageedii it would have been much better if he Punched him instead

[Twisted_Logic]

That is just wrong, man. One has to be respectful and courteous, especially in a mosque among fellow Muslims. This just shows that simply because you bend and kneel down more than others, doesn't translate into any increase in taqwaha iyo Islamic manners.

[Twisted_Logic]

Nikkah Daughter, sinjiyada wase

now thats a real rageedii it would have been much better if he Punched him instead

You can always say yes or no. But you can't add insult to injury by humiliating someone in public, especially someone that came to you in the name of God in a Mosque during a holy month.

[Keyse_0208]

You can always say yes or no. But you can't add insult to injury by humiliating someone in public, especially someone that came to you in the name of God in a Mosque during a holy month.

you're right man, but the man shoud've known to never ask a somali father for his daughter if you're not somali , i dont think any sane somali father would give his daughter to african america whether muslim or not.

[King-of-Awdal]

Nikkah Daughter, sinjiyada wase

now thats a real rageedii it would have been much better if he Punched him instead

Yo this is in the Masjid come on now.

TW

So True but am still baffled as to why the man decided to ask this right in the Mosque? The Son Jumped in and am sure i didnt stop him he would have hit the Somali Father and than we all were embarrassed because of the commotion, now everyone know's what happened. We sometimes have a substantial African American Muslim's come to the Mosque so am sure this will get around and our Image just destroyed but majority of the Mosque is Pakistani's so we all know how they feel about these kind of Marriages.

[Queen_Arawello]

I bet if he was white revert he'll more then happy to give his daughter...vast majority of somalis are against interracial marriages.

[King-of-Awdal]

I bet if he was white revert he'll more then happy to give his daughter...vast majority of somalis are against interracial marriages.

This what people keep saying but actually more Somali Women are married to a Black Revert than White so i dont see where you guy's get this notion from. I think every man or women should be entitled to who or refuse to give their daughter to. Iam not of those who believes that just because he denied his daughter to this man he is Racist.

[union]

Was the African American a good looking bloke or a nappy headed, big lipped, gorilla with giant nostrils? Because if he looked like he could give me decent looking grand children and was from a relatively well off family, I would have no problem overlooking the slave descent and marrying off the daughter to him (had i been the father). But I would have never acted as foolish as this "father" even if my answer had been a no. He not only lowered the reputation of Somalis amoung the Pakis, but also the negro blacks. The negro father should press charges if the father doesn't reconsider...