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It is natural for men to marry two wives +

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Re: It is natural for men to marry two wives +

Postby Phat89 » Wed Sep 08, 2010 6:14 pm

If ye fear that ye shall not be able to deal justly with the orphans, Marry women of your choice, Two or three or four; but if ye fear that ye shall not be able to deal justly (with them), then only one, or (a captive) that your right hands possess, that will be more suitable, to prevent you from doing injustice

Allah SWT does not start with one but Allah SWT starts with TWO, THREE, FOUR

In another ayat Allah says

Ye are never able to be fair and just as between women, even if it is your ardent desire: But turn not away (from a woman) altogether, so as to leave her (as it were) hanging (in the air). If ye come to a friendly understanding, and practise self- restraint, Allah is Oft-forgiving, Most Merciful.
I got a relative with 3 wives and he's doing alright but personally find it weird. ;)

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Re: It is natural for men to marry two wives +

Postby military-mind » Wed Sep 08, 2010 6:23 pm

la ilah ila allah maxamed rasul allah

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Re: It is natural for men to marry two wives +

Postby BlackVelvet » Wed Sep 08, 2010 6:57 pm

Granpa how many wives does your dad have?

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Re: It is natural for men to marry two wives +

Postby grandpakhalif » Wed Sep 08, 2010 7:16 pm

Granpa how many wives does your dad have?
One

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Re: It is natural for men to marry two wives +

Postby BlackVelvet » Wed Sep 08, 2010 7:22 pm

Granpa how many wives does your dad have?
One
I am curious, why do you feel like you have to constantly advocate polygamy marka seeing as you were raised in a monogamous household?

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Re: It is natural for men to marry two wives +

Postby grandpakhalif » Wed Sep 08, 2010 7:31 pm

Granpa how many wives does your dad have?
One
I am curious, why do you feel like you have to constantly advocate polygamy marka seeing as you were raised in a monogamous household?
BlackV, I am not a greedy man but wish to be a mercy to this world. I see many young single mothers struggling and living pay cheque to pay cheque, they need a helping hand and If I have the financial means to do so I will marry her. If my first wife is not willing to accept this there are many women who will not hesitate.

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Re: It is natural for men to marry two wives +

Postby BlackVelvet » Wed Sep 08, 2010 7:47 pm

So you will divorce your first wife and make her a garoob so that you can go and marry another garoob, or 2. Assuming you will have enough money to raise 2/3 families have you considered using that money to build a system that finds the solution to the whole problem instead of helping just 2 single mothers. Perhaps funding counselling for single mothers so that they can get back with the father of their children or introduce widows to widowers? There are many ways of solving a problem. But on the bright side at last you don't seem to want to use Islam as an excuse to go around marrrying a string of virgins.

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Re: It is natural for men to marry two wives +

Postby grandpakhalif » Wed Sep 08, 2010 8:16 pm

Maybe you are right BV, thanks for the compliment you are now my favourite forumer :clap:

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Re: It is natural for men to marry two wives +

Postby military-mind » Wed Sep 08, 2010 8:21 pm

Perhaps funding counselling for single mothers

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Re: It is natural for men to marry two wives +

Postby zulaika » Thu Sep 09, 2010 8:39 am

BlackV, I am not a greedy man but wish to be a mercy to this world.
Lord have mercy!

its raining "grandpakhalif" hallelujah

:mrgreen:

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Re: It is natural for men to marry two wives +

Postby BlackVelvet » Thu Sep 09, 2010 8:42 am

BlackV, I am not a greedy man but wish to be a mercy to this world.
Lord have mercy!

its raining "grandpakhalif" hallelujah

:mrgreen:
:lol:

He wants to spread himself around :mrgreen:

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Re: It is natural for men to marry two wives +

Postby Paddington Bear » Thu Sep 09, 2010 9:00 am

I don't know why men think its fun or cool to marry more than one wife. Its a big time masuuliyad, and men walk into it without thinking of that
Men walk into lots of things without thinking, Shirib. :mrgreen:

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Re: It is natural for men to marry two wives +

Postby qoraxeey » Thu Sep 09, 2010 9:39 am

:roll:


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