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Re: Step Father
Posted: Wed Sep 29, 2010 11:46 am
by qoraxeey
Helwaa .. whatever

Re: Step Father
Posted: Wed Sep 29, 2010 11:51 am
by *Nobleman*
Alhamdulilah I've never had to deal with that situation. I couldnt imagine another grown man rolling around my house that wasnt my pops.
Re: Step Father
Posted: Wed Sep 29, 2010 11:51 am
by Hyperactive
maybe it's torable for girls, but it's weird for guys.
i wouldnt want to deal with my sister's husband leave alone my mom's. i can't imagine, it is just so uncomfrotable to be around him.
Re: Step Father
Posted: Wed Sep 29, 2010 11:52 am
by kambuli
Qorraxay,
For the interest of your whole family it is better to get along with him. Specially if he is not a monster. Remember you love your mother, for her sake try to love him too. He maybe the dad of your half-sisters/brothers, for their sake try to respect him. This will help the whole family. You just try to think and ask yourself, is what he is asking you to do is good for you or not? For example, if he tells you "Don't go out late", "Study your lessons", "Help your mom", "Dress properly" all these and more are for your good...
It is common that usually kids don't appreciate when their parents place rules and restrictions on them, but they appreciate when they grow up and when there is a step-parent in the house it is more difficult..There is a tension usually...So please try to be a good girl and look things at the positive side

You will be fine

Re: Step Father
Posted: Wed Sep 29, 2010 11:55 am
by HELWAA
Helwaa .. whatever

As for ur little topic...i never had one and never will.
Re: Step Father
Posted: Wed Sep 29, 2010 12:01 pm
by NewHargeisaGirl
^^Her father ilaahy ha oo naxariste is not alive so shut ur big mouth..maxaad ku qosleysa?
baal firiya qumayadi Xelwaa .. like a jini outta nowhere with your weird comment
naa did i laugh at her mise
i was laughing at my own situation.. cuz as i grown up U dont have to deal with all that anymore

you are so funny friend !!!!
FYI. you can express your views without a fear... you aint hurting anyone so..

Re: Step Father
Posted: Wed Sep 29, 2010 12:05 pm
by SultanOrder
My mothers husband is my father


It is awesome if a single mother remarries, and it is childish if the kids aren't happy with it.
Re: Step Father
Posted: Wed Sep 29, 2010 12:07 pm
by qoraxeey
Qorraxay,
For the interest of your whole family it is better to get along with him. Specially if he is not a monster. Remember you love your mother, for her sake try to love him too. He maybe the dad of your half-sisters/brothers, for their sake try to respect him. This will help the whole family. You just try to think and ask yourself, is what he is asking you to do is good for you or not? For example, if he tells you "Don't go out late", "Study your lessons", "Help your mom", "Dress properly" all these and more are for your good...
It is common that usually kids don't appreciate when their parents place rules and restrictions on them, but they appreciate when they grow up and when there is a step-parent in the house it is more difficult..There is a tension usually...So please try to be a good girl and look things at the positive side

You will be fine

mashallah for your wisedom

and your smartness

Re: Step Father
Posted: Wed Sep 29, 2010 12:08 pm
by HELWAA
Re: Step Father
Posted: Wed Sep 29, 2010 12:09 pm
by qoraxeey
Helwaa .. whatever

As for ur little topic...i never had one and never will.
what makes U so sure about that
Re: Step Father
Posted: Wed Sep 29, 2010 12:12 pm
by HELWAA
Helwaa .. whatever

As for ur little topic...i never had one and never will.
what makes U so sure about that
Because ilaahy aabahey cimri dheer bu siin doona inshallah markey waqtigiisa gaadhana he will never be replaced.

Re: Step Father
Posted: Wed Sep 29, 2010 12:16 pm
by qoraxeey
Because ilaahy aabahey cimri dheer bu siin doona inshallah markey waqtigiisa gaadhana he will never be replaced.

loooool
naa U dont know that ... qadarka Illaahay ba iska leh
u can have step dad by next week
never say never
but yeah U dont have a step dad right now .. thats all U can say
Re: Step Father
Posted: Wed Sep 29, 2010 12:29 pm
by LivingToSucceed
i am so glad that i never had step mom or step dad and i hope to never have one insha allah.
Re: Step Father
Posted: Wed Sep 29, 2010 1:45 pm
by Enlightened~Sista
Because ilaahy aabahey cimri dheer bu siin doona inshallah markey waqtigiisa gaadhana he will never be replaced.

loooool
naa U dont know that ... qadarka Illaahay ba iska leh
u can have step dad by next week
never say never

Re: Step Father
Posted: Wed Sep 29, 2010 1:49 pm
by surrender
A Muslim woman shouldnt marry a second time if she gets divorced, for the sake of her children. but if she does, her ex-husband has the right to take their children. so divorced women should put their chidlren first.